Hyenkay
@Hyenkay
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Pisces Woman - need advice
She has a demanding job, on call surgeon sounds supper stressful, so don't sweat that it takes her a few days to text back. Maybe save the communication for the days she is not working if you are aware of her schedule.
She was shy initially but is more friendly now because its been a year and you have built a friendship together. She brings up things you've said in the past because she is a good friend who listens to you and remembers your interests.
I am all for you shooting your shot. But I am wanting to just pointing out that nothing about her behavior screams hidden feelings so don't feel too crushed if she's not open to your advances. It be like that sometimes.
Personally a person who can strike that perfect balance of attentive without being overbearing or clingy is my sweet spot. What are your astro deets?
She was shy initially but is more friendly now because its been a year and you have built a friendship together. She brings up things you've said in the past because she is a good friend who listens to you and remembers your interests.
I am all for you shooting your shot. But I am wanting to just pointing out that nothing about her behavior screams hidden feelings so don't feel too crushed if she's not open to your advances. It be like that sometimes.
Personally a person who can strike that perfect balance of attentive without being overbearing or clingy is my sweet spot. What are your astro deets?
Posted by Saturn_Returns
Seriously, don't sweat it. That's just the Piscean way.
I've known many Piscean women who have done this over the years, so don't take it personally - it's just their nature.
However, the main concern should be whether she continues doing this whilst in a committed relationship, because that would be the only instance I would consider such behaviour unacceptable.
Thank you for your responses. Perhaps she is just opening up as a friend more. I think it's best to continue in this fashion, if she demonstrates anything more than friendship then cross that bridge. Right now, the disappearing act would indicate a lack of interest/ or someone nervous or scared about crossing the line.
"I messaged in the week after and wanted to invite her out, but thought I would ask if she likes the food."
How could someone talk about the food before tasting it? Even if you asked "do you like Italian food?", this would be too generic and without a context. Why do you ask half baked, generic questions, if you want to impress her?
The right question should have been "There is an exciting/new Italian restaurant in town. Would you like to go out for dinner with me?" If she declines...it's not the food. Maybe she was romantically interested for a moment, but her intuition told her you are better as friends.
About the timing of a response, all I could do is to decode my own habits (Pisces woman here):
-short immediate response= I feel chatty but don't have any romantic intentions
-elaborate response (later during the same day or next)=I do care about what I say, because I care about you.
-short response after several days= I don't care much about what you said, but felt guilty for ignoring.
-no response after one message=did you actually ask a question that deserved an answer?
-no response after several messages= help, I've got a stalker!
How could someone talk about the food before tasting it? Even if you asked "do you like Italian food?", this would be too generic and without a context. Why do you ask half baked, generic questions, if you want to impress her?
The right question should have been "There is an exciting/new Italian restaurant in town. Would you like to go out for dinner with me?" If she declines...it's not the food. Maybe she was romantically interested for a moment, but her intuition told her you are better as friends.
About the timing of a response, all I could do is to decode my own habits (Pisces woman here):
-short immediate response= I feel chatty but don't have any romantic intentions
-elaborate response (later during the same day or next)=I do care about what I say, because I care about you.
-short response after several days= I don't care much about what you said, but felt guilty for ignoring.
-no response after one message=did you actually ask a question that deserved an answer?
-no response after several messages= help, I've got a stalker!
Posted by Hyenkay
Thank you for your responses. Perhaps she is just opening up as a friend more. I think it's best to continue in this fashion, if she demonstrates anything more than friendship then cross that bridge. Right now, the disappearing act would indicate a lack of interest/ or someone nervous or scared about crossing the line.
Or she is just busy as she explained to you.
IDK why people like to invent all kinds of motivations that don't exist especially when said person already told you what was up.
@Hyenkay, please notice how the above sad sad incel has failed egregiously with women of all zodiac signs and currently spends his time online crying about how every failed relationship was solely the fault of the woman. Not he. Never he.
Imagine behaving in a way where a woman feels threatened and communicates this to you and you proceed to say they are 'playing the victim' while maintaining that you are the one being gas lit. Delusional.
Imagine behaving in a way where a woman feels threatened and communicates this to you and you proceed to say they are 'playing the victim' while maintaining that you are the one being gas lit. Delusional.
Posted by Saturn_Returns
@LadyNeptune, you are the worst type of Piscean woman known to man. Period.
The fact that you label every man who has a point of view you disagree with an 'incel' or 'misogynist' is absolutely laughable. But you continue being a venomous one-trick pony.
Btw, do you even know what 'incel' means? Because, based on the rest of your post, I'm anything but an incel. But, hey, making disparaging remarks (while highlighting your dumb as rocks irrationality) is your MOD.
Your existence merely serves to remind me (and others) of how repugnant and vindictive (Piscean) women can potentially be.
@Hyenkay, if you stick around here, please assign that 'creature' to your mute list. You won't regret it. đ
@Saturn_Returns, you are the worst type of Capricorn man known to man. Period.
The fact that you label every woman who has a point of view you disagree with a 'fascist' or 'delusional' is absolutely laughable. But you continue being a venomous one-trick pony.
Btw, do you even know what 'fascist' means? Because, based on the rest of your post, I'm anything but an fascist. But, hey, making disparaging remarks (while highlighting your dumb as rocks irrationality) is your MOD.
Your existence merely serves to remind me (and others) of how repugnant and vindictive (Capricorn) men can potentially be.
@Hyenkay, if you still go after your Pisces lady, don't behave like this dude. You won't regret it. đ
Posted by LadyNeptune
@Hyenkay, please notice how the above sad sad incel has failed egregiously with women of all zodiac signs and currently spends his time online crying about how every failed relationship was solely the fault of the woman. Not he. Never he.
Imagine behaving in a way where a woman feels threatened and communicates this to you and you proceed to say they are 'playing the victim' while maintaining that you are the one being gas lit. Delusional.
I think you nailed the way anyone from dxpnet should respond to his attacks in the future. There was no point arguing with him, because he resorts to exactly the same "accusations" like a broken record.
Let's place a mirror in front of him and see how he reacts to the shit he is dishing...
Posted by UndinePosted by LadyNeptune
@Hyenkay, please notice how the above sad sad incel has failed egregiously with women of all zodiac signs and currently spends his time online crying about how every failed relationship was solely the fault of the woman. Not he. Never he.
Imagine behaving in a way where a woman feels threatened and communicates this to you and you proceed to say they are 'playing the victim' while maintaining that you are the one being gas lit. Delusional.
I think you nailed the way anyone from dxpnet should respond to his attacks in the future. There was no point arguing with him, because he resorts to exactly the same "accusations" like a broken record.
Let's place a mirror in front of him and see how he reacts to the shit he is dishing...click to expand
Yeah donât even waste your energy with the mirror thing. I think itâs pretty obvious with anyone with two brain cells to rub together to see what he is about. He is a broken record devoid of any creativity.
But poor op. Here he is in the Pisces forum asking for Pisces womenâs honest opinions and advice and this salty bitter man child is all âdonât listen to these Pisces womenâ lol. Canât make this ish up.
Posted by Hyenkay
Hi,
So I have known this pisces woman for a year now. We have hung out as friends frequently. However she always seemed kinda shy and never really approached me to talk first, I always cracked a joke to make her laugh to get the conversation going. Recently however, I noticed that she has changed towards me, in that when she sees me in person she is going out of her way to sit down and talk to me, lingers when it's time to say goodbye.
I did feel when we first met that there was a pull towards her. But as I wasn't interested in dating anyone at the time, hectic work schedule, I thought she seems nice and it would be nice to have a her as a friend.
I hadn't seen her in a few months, and mentioned to a mutual friend that I am thinking about dating again. I was surprised to receive an invite from her to go to a gig ( a band I really wanted to hear, however I wasn't able to score tickets, and she has known this for while) she managed to get a spare ticket.
At the gig she was super aware of things I've said to her in the past, and made it a point to mention some of these things to me.
It's weird I remember going home that evening and thinking, do I like her as more than a friend? And was surprised that I said yes to myself. Anyway, I didn't want to weird out the situation as we are friends first. However, we, started exchanging texts more regularly, just breaking the ice stuff over the last few weeks.
However recently it's been a bit weird, usually she responds to my text on the same day. However, she took a week to reply, however she apologised and said she has been super busy with work ( she is a on call surgeon), and explained her week to me. She did include smiley face which she never has done before. I do know she does work a lot, have known this over the last year. I said not a problem. Anyway I messaged in the week after and wanted to invite her out, but thought I would ask if she likes the food. Again there has been silence for several days.
My question is do you think, she not interested anymore as she has changed her communication style with me? Thanks for your help.
Dude, at any point did you officially ask her out on a date?
Because she is raining signals she very much into you. Given the age range and situation, she has initiated everything so you are suppose to take the next step to clearly show your interest.
Officially ask her out or she will be the one feeling she is wasting her time.
Posted by MonaLisa26
It is nuts!
Her Adult Report is TOTAL opposite to what she was when I knew her.
Devoted mother - NO!
Good worked - NO!
Cares for friends - NO!
How can that be?
Not everything can be explained through astrology. Anyway, she wouldn't be your longtime friend is she was that bad for you!
I'm generous, however, I don't have any issue with accepting temporary accommodation and free meals from friends and relatives. Some of them have become my favourite destination during holidays. I know what a pleasure they feel when giving, because I felt it myself throughout my life đ
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I did feel when we first met that there was a pull towards her. But as I wasn't interested in dating anyone at the time, hectic work schedule, I thought she seems nice and it would be nice to have a her as a friend.
I hadn't seen her in a few months, and mentioned to a mutual friend that I am thinking about dating again. I was surprised to receive an invite from her to go to a gig ( a band I really wanted to hear, however I wasn't able to score tickets, and she has known this for while) she managed to get a spare ticket.
At the gig she was super aware of things I've said to her in the past, and made it a point to mention some of these things to me.
It's weird I remember going home that evening and thinking, do I like her as more than a friend? And was surprised that I said yes to myself. Anyway, I didn't want to weird out the situation as we are friends first. However, we, started exchanging texts more regularly, just breaking the ice stuff over the last few weeks.
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My question is do you think, she not interested anymore as she has changed her communication style with me? Thanks for your help.