Pisces women and Virgo Man

I am a 27 year old Pisces women and for the past six months I have been seeing this 27 year old Virgo man. when we are together everything is great, he is very lovable and caring. When we are not together he is so distant with his emotions and his time. we don’t have phone conversations but we text all day every day. two months ago I brought up that up and I asked him for more time and more dates, he stepped up and gave me more time and we went out more often but things kinda got stuck there again. A month ago I asked him what his intentions were with me but he never gave me a straight answer. I cut him off because I don’t want to waste my time with someone that doesn’t plan to be with me. He has send me messages telling me that he wants to be with me but never speaks about commitment. I’ve stayed away because I don’t want to be a booty call or just someone he spends time with. Today he wrote me a text stating that he wants to be with me because I’m a good mother and have great qualities. I asked him what that meant and he says he doesn’t want me for sex or a friend but he wants to be part of my life (didn’t say nothing about being committed). I’m very traditional and after six months of knowing and dating each other I want a title. I find myself stuck! should I just move on or should I think outside the box?

move on.

pisces woman + virgo man + disaster!

my mother (pisces) married a virgo.....

she left him in the middle of the night after only being married for three months.

true story.

Posted by pisces3425

I asked him for more time

gave me more time and we went out more often

I cut him off because I don’t want to waste my time with someone that doesn’t plan to be with me.

I don’t want to be ....... just someone he spends time with.

he wants to be part of my life (didn’t say nothing about being committed).

I want a title.

You are a walking contradiction .... you have successfully smothered the fuck out of any potential relationship with this guy, and I suspect you probably do this with every opportunity you have to have a nice man.

My hope is that you've pushed him away far enough that he never tries with you again .... because honestly, you're bullet to be dodged.

Ignore the old fart above, she has a cucumber surgically stuck up her ass so she never really knows what she's saying.

Having said that, your problem is that you're pushing him to reveal his true intentions. Pushing a Virgo is the worst thing you can do.

Virgos need their alone time to recharge their batteries & process thoughts and emotions. It's what they do. When he's ready to open up and tell you everything you mean to him, he will in his own time. Basically, you're using scare tactics on him without realizing it by being too pushy. That's why he sends those texts saying what a great mother you'll be and whatnot.

But then he clams up because he's just not ready to go there, and perhaps he doesn't even KNOW how what he wants deep down or how he truly feels about you.

You should take more cues from me and my Virgo. I'm gay, he's straight yet he's very open with me and has done things with me (and to me) that he wouldn't dare do with another man. Why? Because I've been there for him 24/7 for 4 years with no strings attached. Whenever he needs a listening ear, a bouncing board or just someone to talk to about a private/serious matter, he knows I'll be there for him at all times of the day & night.

And I've NEVER pushed him to do something he's not ready to do. He's very appreciative and that's why he keeps coming back to me, can turn up at any time at my place because he knows he'll get the real deal from me. Unconditional support with no strings attached.

YOU, on the other hand, are more concerned with YOU and what YOU want, instead of what HE needs. Stop thinking of yourself for one minute and show some consideration for HIS feelings. More honey, less vinegar and you just might get your man in the end.

I did.

Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Ignore the old fart above, she has a cucumber surgically stuck up her ass so she never really knows what she's saying.

Having said that, your problem is that you're pushing him to reveal his true intentions. Pushing a Virgo is the worst thing you can do.

Virgos need their alone time to recharge their batteries & process thoughts and emotions. It's what they do. When he's ready to open up and tell you everything you mean to him, he will in his own time. Basically, you're using scare tactics on him without realizing it by being too pushy. That's why he sends those texts saying what a great mother you'll be and whatnot.

But then he clams up because he's just not ready to go there, and perhaps he doesn't even KNOW how what he wants deep down or how he truly feels about you.

You should take more cues from me and my Virgo. I'm gay, he's straight yet he's very open with me and has done things with me (and to me) that he wouldn't dare do with another man. Why? Because I've been there for him 24/7 for 4 years with no strings attached. Whenever he needs a listening ear, a bouncing board or just someone to talk to about a private/serious matter, he knows I'll be there for him at all times of the day & night.

And I've NEVER pushed him to do something he's not ready to do. He's very appreciative and that's why he keeps coming back to me, can turn up at any time at my place because he knows he'll get the real deal from me. Unconditional support with no strings attached.

YOU, on the other hand, are more concerned with YOU and what YOU want, instead of what HE needs. Stop thinking of yourself for one minute and show some consideration for HIS feelings. More honey, less vinegar and you just might get your man in the end.

I did.

I think the issue here is that what she's demanding of him is unreasonable at this point.

They've only known each other for 6 months. He's been consistent, when she asked for more time he listened and when she asked for commitment he expressed he wants to be with her.

From her OP it seems she's really just focusing on semantics over wanting a title (assuming wanting for him to spell it out that she's his girlfriend now) when he's already expressed he wants to be with her. Her final question was whether she should move on or think outside of the box, lol. I mean my Virgo never asked me to be his girlfriend in the traditional sense, but it's about meaning moreso than how something is said really.

Considering she's a single mum she honestly is putting emphasis on the wrong things here, if she wants someone that's over the top it's just not gonna happen with a Virgo.

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Oh btw when I said old fart, I meant the grumpy old fart up there, not you lol. The page said 3 posts in the thread but I only saw 2, and it's a Virgo-related thread so I knew the old bitch would show up sooner or later. Didn't need to unblock her to know it was her talking out of her smelly ass as usual.

Now that we got that outta the way lol, the boy is definitely not ready to be a father and not ready for a commitment like that. But the OP is too wrapped up in her own bubble-wrapped world to notice anything about him except when it relates to her own wants.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Whoa he told you he wants to be part of your life, he's no romeo

Go date a scorpio for that bs

Yeah go for a serial womanizer instead.

I would give him time. Virgo males and Pisces females are really good together. Virgos take a while to open up. Give him another 6 months and try to enjoy your time together. Drop all talks of where you are in the relationship and what your title is. He's told you he wants to be with you and he's not just with you for sex. That's a good sign. If by the end of the 6 months you feel the relationship is going nowhere and you still don't have a title of girlfriend then break up and move on. He's done everything you have requested so far and he seems like he really cares about you. Give him space, Virgo guys need space and if you keep chasing him like this then you will lose him.