Question for the Fishes...

I have a question for you guys-Men and Women

I am a Female Scorpio. I have always read that Pisces is our best match...I met a male Pisces and we do get along great but there is one problem. It seems like he wants me to be around him all the time! Is this for all Pisces? I work two jobs and I live a half hour away from him and any time he wants to see me I have to go to him and also if I don't call him he doesn't call me but wonders why I didn't call sooner?

I'm confused any help or advice you lovely fishes can provide would be much appreciated...

Thank You 🙂

Difficult to tell. Many factors persist. Maybe you treat him very coldly and he feels distant from you? That's the most probable reason.

If you always place many other plans instead of him, or cancel alot of things with him while agreed to do it before, he could start to feel distant etc. Call it clingy etc, but this is how it works.

Yes I was telling to her.

We just met though! It's only been two weeks...Good Grief. I have broken one date or whatever...but that's it just one. And he says when he calls me it sounds as though I am bothered by him calling? HUH? Then the next time we speak he has an attitude and I have no idea what I've done! He never opens his mouth to tell me. I don't mind read. Open your mouth and speak.

I mean I have a couple of close Pisces friends so I know that Pisces are very sensitive. Does it sound like I should try harder? I mean by going to see him more and call him more? I'm not really an ass kisser so this would be kind of jumping out of character for me.

Yeah i agree with Starfish- Pisces are sensitive and we hate to feel like we're a bother to anyone so it makes us pick up on even the slightest things in voice, action, or what have you. Part of being overly sensitive and yes insecure too unfortunately. Him having the attitude is a defense mechanism- trying to show you hey well if you don't want to really be with me then I can show indifference too. The best thing to do with a Pisces is keep it real- keep it honest and tell us like it is- what problem you are having with us but do it with tact and caring.

Let him know that you don't like the fact that you have to come to him all the time. Maybe he is just waiting you to give him the go ahead to come to you because as Pisces we don't like to be intrusive of someone else if we are not sure about where that person stands on that. It is a really new relationship and he just needs to know if you're in it full speed ahead with genuine interest instead of being back and forth about it.

If he continues with not showing any initiative after being honest with him and letting him know what you need from him, then yeah let him go. The same if he can't understand that your work schedule hinders you from being together all the time. A mature Pisces can understand this and respect it and deal with it, even though we won't like it. It is a positive thing if he wants to be around you all the time. That's just how we are when it comes to finding someone we like/love in a romantic way.

Starfish...

Not really that I want to persue him and give him reassurance but I am trying to give it a try. It seems like I have problems in relationships in one area or another. I always give up. I just tire of the back and forth headaches that relationships seem to require in order to work. I'm starting to think it's me in all my relationships.

I hate calling people and I have a very low tolerance for nonsense. But on the flip side I am very loving and will do anything for a person.

Oh Que Sara, Sara 🙂

Thanks for the advice though. I apprecite it

Oh Bling I left you out-Thanks for your advice too...I appreciate it.

OBPisces...

Thank You so much for giving me that rundown...But I have told him all the things you suggested. But unfortunately tact sometimes is not my strong suit. When I say things they can come out quite nastily.

He hangs up on me when I say something he doesn't like! I never do that to him. He is 31 years old. I mean come on-Is that necessary?

I'm gonna give it a try because I really want the experience of seeing how Scorpio and Pisces can connect in a love relationship. But it's a little draining...

Yeah i agree with Starfish- Pisces are sensitive and we hate to feel like we're a bother to anyone so it makes us pick up on even the slightest things in voice, action, or what have you. Part of being overly sensitive and yes insecure too unfortunately. Him having the attitude is a defense mechanism- trying to show you hey well if you don't want to really be with me then I can show indifference too. The best thing to do with a Pisces is keep it real- keep it honest and tell us like it is- what problem you are having with us but do it with tact and caring.

Let him know that you don't like the fact that you have to come to him all the time. Maybe he is just waiting you to give him the go ahead to come to you because as Pisces we don't like to be intrusive of someone else if we are not sure about where that person stands on that. It is a really new relationship and he just needs to know if you're in it full speed ahead with genuine interest instead of being back and forth about it.

If he continues with not showing any initiative after being honest with him and letting him know what you need from him, then yeah let him go. The same if he can't understand that your work schedule hinders you from being together all the time. A mature Pisces can understand this and respect it and deal with it, even though we won't like it. It is a positive thing if he wants to be around you all the time. That's just how we are when it comes to finding someone we like/love in a romantic way.

Oops...

"I'm gonna give it a try because I really want the experience of seeing how Scorpio and Pisces can connect in a love relationship. But it's a little draining..."

Gonna be hard to really now how well you and a Pisces can connect with the wrong Pisces. But if you're gonna try it... communicate. You should both open your mouths and speak. Meaning... let him know how you feel about how he's acting: hanging up, not wanting to call but wanting you to call, etc.

Well since we don' know the whole story of things, and you shouldn't be taking advice from a message board anyways.. it's hard to give any advice at all. But if you are only persuing him to see how a pisces and scorpio relationship works, shouldn't you just drop the astrology bullshit and see if you really do like him despite being a Pisces? Sorry, it just doesn't seem like you like him and you must be doing atleast something wrong. Just my point of view. You sound like a nut.