Just to add...

HP, Queenscorp etc

I was just thinking about all of you and your Libras this morning and you may want to find out their Venusian planet e.g. I am Venus in Virgo.

Because you might get further insight into your man and how he loves/is in love.

Do you guys know?

Libra...the Libra in my life has his Venus in Virgo, just like you.

Soo...that makes you my new best friend! 😛

Ahh, well VERY reserved and aims to please - but once he knows he is allowed to 'go' there is no stopping him... Do you also know his rising sign, new best friend?

Venus in virgo:

Venus in Virgo people are not the flirtatious sort. Instead, their appeal lies in their dedication, their willingness to work on the relationship, and to make the relationship work in real terms. Unlike Venus in Leo, they won't try to impress you with grand gifts or promises. Their gifts are less showy, but perhaps far more generous -- gifts of devotion and attention to details about you.
Venus in Virgo men and women quietly (and often slowly) make their way into your heart. They are quite sensitive in love -- even insecure -- and this reserved, loner-like quality is part of their appeal. They prefer to play it safe in their relationships, and they need to be confident that you like them before they make a move. They are great listeners and they make it a habit to observe and learn all of your ins and outs. Their love can be of the Kindergarten variety -- they show they care by nagging or criticizing. Remember, though, that they are not trying to hurt you when they are pointing out the flaws in your thinking, plans, or even character. They truly are trying to help! Venus in Virgo is attracted to nondescript people who have largely gone unnoticed. Show-offs and know-it-alls turn them off.
Pleasing Venus in Virgo involves showing you appreciate them for all the little things they do -- and they do a lot. The problem is, they do these things so quietly that you may not always notice or credit them for all these kind gestures. They do need some space (after all, they're generally quite busy making everything work), so give it to them. Be genuine, not ostentatious. They are really not difficult to please after you have taken care of these basic needs. Avoid pushing your friends or family on them too fast -- remember they are a little shy. They aim to please, and are easily intimidated by your experiences. Let them know how much you value them, and they will reward you with devotion and a charming willingness to talk things out.

Hi, Best Friend. His ascending is Aries. What's yours?

He should be so balanced. Aries is our opposite sign and, in theory, has what Libra lacks. I like Aries men, when meeting them they are so no-nonsensy calm that you think 'where is your personality?', 'raise your voice, will you?' But apparently they are fiery, although I have yet to meet a fiery one...

I am Virgo rising...

What's his Moon and Mercury?

And they're funny, too!

yes, he's hilarious and so calm...he get irritated but has never raised his voice or has gotten whiney. i'll have to do his chart again...i only had his moon, venus, sun and asc memorized.

Moon is Capricorn and Mercury is Scorpio...what does that say about him?

I'll have to look it up. I am Libra in both and don't know much about moon and merc anyway. Moon is emotions. Thank God he has neither in Libra though...

He sounds lovely.

Mars is important in a man because it shows how he pursues love. Venus indicates the type of woman he is most attracted to. In your case, this is good because his Venus is in an Earth sign ... which matches your Sun.

🙂

Mars are you desires...

so i need to look up mars in capricorn profile to understand him better?

Is he Mars in Capricorn??

yes

Mars in Capricorn

With fiery Mars in the more orderly sign of Capricorn, natives with this position have a subdued and controlled style of approaching life. Most don't come across as particularly enthusiastic; rather, theirs is a low-key but determined energy.
Mars in Capricorn natives like to be on top of things. They are generally goal-oriented and focused people who are not afraid of hard work. Most are achievers by nature, and many possess well-defined ambitions--well-defined to themselves more than anything. They're not particularly flashy people, but their drive to succeed and to make their lives secure is strong, even if it's not right out there for the world to see.
Anger is expressed in a rather cool, level-headed way with this position of Mars. Self-control is strong when it comes to expressing anger, drive, energy, and sexuality. Capricorn is a sign that detests waste of any kind. It also fears disorderliness and "letting go". With Mars in Capricorn, there is generally a powerful need to stay in control.
This is not to say that natives of this position are cold in any sense of the word. Their desires are strong, but they are often centered around the physical and material world -- all that can be seen and held. With Mars in an Earth sign, sensuality is expressed in an earthy way. However, unlike Mars in Taurus, for example, (another earth sign), Mars in Capricorn is not self-indulgent by nature. These people are usually quite disciplined. Capricorn possesses the ability to plan for the future?something that many other signs have difficulty doing.
Mars in Capricorn natives are working toward realistic and attainable goals. They are productive people who get off when they see tangible results from their efforts.
Many natives with this position are a little hard on themselves, and sometimes others. They usually can be relied upon because they have an innate sense of responsibility to both themselves and to those they care about. Most of them are very hard-working, and one of their strategies for anger management is to throw themselves even more energetically into their work!

When Mars is in Capricorn, sex that is straightforward and simple is generally best. The reputation for Capricorn lovers is an attraction to experienced, and sometimes older, partners. They often prefer strong, powerful lovers who display some sort of authority or know-how. These lovers prefer a certain measure of discretion. Capricorn is an earth sign, and this earthiness shows up in love-making style ?it's generally no-frills that is most appealing to these lovers. They can be quite happy with consistency, as variety is less important to them than is security in sexual expression. However, their sexuality is deep and powerful. They are often quite private about what goes on in the bedroom. Although some will want others to know that they are on top of things in their sex life, they generally won't get into messy details.

I am too, by the way. He IS lovely...!!

That really fits him. I've mentioned quite a few times that he is so calm and cool and doesn't get his feathers ruffled. Plus the comment that they are usually relied upon is quite fitting - remember my initial gripe about him being a good samaritan?

And his goals...yes, that is fitting, too.

Means if he really loves you, he will go the distance and never give up on you, willing to wait...

well.....he has to spend time with me to go the distance with me or at least figure out if he wants to go the distance....

right now, it's me doing most of the waiting until he handles family stuff.

Well if he gets it wrong you'll have to gently inform him. And still he won't give up on you... We may come across as fragile but we are not really fragile.

But one thing I will say is that in the face of rejection, after I have tried and it's really over, I can become very business-like and stone cold and you'll not see what goes on inside my heart. To protect myself, of course...

Is this family stuff going to be over, soon?

Sounds like this guy is more earth than air.

no, it's not.

Here's his chart....I don't know what it all means other than what you all have posted for me.

Sun Libra 16.50
Moon Capricorn 20.52
Mercury Scorpio 11.58
Venus Virgo 4.41
Mars Sagittarius 21.08
Jupiter Leo 28.32
Saturn Aries 8.24 R
Uranus Virgo 26.13
Neptune Scorpio 22.46
Pluto Virgo 21.26
Lilith Taurus 2.04
Asc node Aries

As long as you know that he will not give up on you. We can be zoomed in on one thing at a time for a long time, so if he's also focusing on you you're in a good spot. Wants you there etc.

Yes, a good amount of earth...

Forget what I posted about Mars. His is in sag...

His moon is in cap...

oh no, I'm sorry! I'm going on NO sleep...

well the mars in capricorn still fits him...lol

now you're talking

lol

no sleep as in babysitting my niece all weekend... 😢

How old is your niece?

6

Ah, must be very chatty

ear infection and cranky....she doesn't sleep, ain't nobody sleeping.

where can i read about mars in sag?

I have an ear infection at the moment. It is VERY painful...

http://www.cafeastrology.com/zodiacsagittarius.html

Ok, I just read Mars in Sag..Can I trade it in with Mars in Cap? LOL

This one just doesn't seem to fit him.

Definitely...

Mind you, I think you might still see a lot of his Rising Aries and his Venus in Virgo. Isn't that what they say, you see the rising sign until the guards come down?

i have no idea...i just know i like him, but not sure how much longer i can deal with not getting the attention i so desperately want. i get attention, just in an unconventional way.

I have no idea, not quite interested in that way. He is a good friend and since we decided to only be friends that isn't probably that important unless he starts a relationship with someone else and asks my advice about it.

Im Venus in Virgo too..its shit!

Libra

I hope your ear feels better soon!

Thanks, Sparrow