Six Months of Pisces Torture

You're just another moron.

If you don't have the decency to do what is in your best interest .... then you deserve every bit of stupid shit that comes into your life.

for him to show back up as if nothing has happened is because nothing did happen. According to you, you just want what makes him happy.


So then stfu .... live by your own goddam words. Nothing has happened, so why wouldn't he show up with that attitude?

You want more, but, instead of representing that .... you represent a doormat who is sniffling to other people because you aren't happy with the choices YOU made for YOURSELF.



Taurus females are worthless ... and they prove it day by day with this same kind of Bull-shit.

Pisces men are very good at that! They disappear! M n Aqua, so them disappearinjg does'nt bother me much, it give me time to rethink the realtionship.

You should always have a side man when dating a fish, that way u don't even bother worrying about him not being there.

He loves you, but he has he's own issues to deal with. Let him swim back and forth, while you rethink if you wanna stay or not.

For a Aqua like me it take dam long to decide if someone is a potential husband or not,and I get scared when a man is too affectionate.

While Taurus(some) on the other hand can't deal with this kind of on_ off relation , when they meet a man they already thin king marriage, kids , a big house,fency car and a perfect relationship,which a pisces can only talk about and will never provide such.

Stop loving him! Use him ! Play the game or RUN!

Posted by thelastempress
I have only known this guy for six months and it feels like a lifetime. I can't tell you how many times he goes away and returns. It drives me insane and I have kinda gotten to the point where I know it's going to happen so it doesn't bother me much. I am tired of it though. Its draining dealing with someone that is all in and the next day all out. It is so hard especially when you love them and want what's best for them. I just want him to be happy. When we are together we always have a great time. Amazing intimacy. We laugh a lot. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. Our bond feels very natural. He will leave me with kisses and hopes of seeing him again and then nothing he just disappears then returns as if nothing ever happened. I am a Taurus and we take love serious. It means a lot to us and we hate flings. I care about him but he is slowly growing off of me and I'm realizing it might not be worth the heartache. I have other options yet I choose to give my attention to him. Doesn't seem like he wants it so I'm considering dating other men and moving on indefinitely. I don't want to hurt him if he indeed cares for me but I can't continue to play his game. Any advice?

This is just my opinion, I've found that Pisces once they have decided they want to be with you, they do. If he keeps coming in and out, he isn't doing that with you. Right now, you're just allowing yourself to be a revolving door, if it upsets you and hurts you, you are the one that has to block him out. It's you that has to be the one to put a stop to it.

My Libra gf went on this rollercoaster for almost a year with a Pisces man, what she found out is that every time he came back it was b/c he was tired of the other girl. Not saying this guy is doing that but he isn't 100% about you. Also, once she realized he wasn't worth the pain, she let go and truly found a great guy for her.

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Posted by thelastempress
I have only known this guy for six months and it feels like a lifetime. I can't tell you how many times he goes away and returns. It drives me insane and I have kinda gotten to the point where I know it's going to happen so it doesn't bother me much. I am tired of it though. Its draining dealing with someone that is all in and the next day all out. It is so hard especially when you love them and want what's best for them. I just want him to be happy. When we are together we always have a great time. Amazing intimacy. We laugh a lot. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. Our bond feels very natural. He will leave me with kisses and hopes of seeing him again and then nothing he just disappears then returns as if nothing ever happened. I am a Taurus and we take love serious. It means a lot to us and we hate flings. I care about him but he is slowly growing off of me and I'm realizing it might not be worth the heartache. I have other options yet I choose to give my attention to him. Doesn't seem like he wants it so I'm considering dating other men and moving on indefinitely. I don't want to hurt him if he indeed cares for me but I can't continue to play his game. Any advice?

This is just my opinion, I've found that Pisces once they have decided they want to be with you, they do. If he keeps coming in and out, he isn't doing that with you. Right now, you're just allowing yourself to be a revolving door, if it upsets you and hurts you, you are the one that has to block him out. It's you that has to be the one to put a stop to it.

My Libra gf went on this rollercoaster for almost a year with a Pisces man, what she found out is that every time he came back it was b/c he was tired of the other girl. Not saying this guy is doing that but he isn't 100% about you. Also, once she realized he wasn't worth the pain, she let go and truly found a great guy for her.

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I stand to differ, when a pisces man chooses to settle with one girl , he will never have another woman to fall back on.

In my opinion this man has not yet made a dicision who he really wants to settle with. He seem to be confused. He might not end up with any of the two girls he's playing right now, but might decide to settle with a new girl. Just my opinion.

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Posted by thelastempress
I have only known this guy for six months and it feels like a lifetime. I can't tell you how many times he goes away and returns. It drives me insane and I have kinda gotten to the point where I know it's going to happen so it doesn't bother me much. I am tired of it though. Its draining dealing with someone that is all in and the next day all out. It is so hard especially when you love them and want what's best for them. I just want him to be happy. When we are together we always have a great time. Amazing intimacy. We laugh a lot. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. Our bond feels very natural. He will leave me with kisses and hopes of seeing him again and then nothing he just disappears then returns as if nothing ever happened. I am a Taurus and we take love serious. It means a lot to us and we hate flings. I care about him but he is slowly growing off of me and I'm realizing it might not be worth the heartache. I have other options yet I choose to give my attention to him. Doesn't seem like he wants it so I'm considering dating other men and moving on indefinitely. I don't want to hurt him if he indeed cares for me but I can't continue to play his game. Any advice?

This is just my opinion, I've found that Pisces once they have decided they want to be with you, they do. If he keeps coming in and out, he isn't doing that with you. Right now, you're just allowing yourself to be a revolving door, if it upsets you and hurts you, you are the one that has to block him out. It's you that has to be the one to put a stop to it.

My Libra gf went on this rollercoaster for almost a year with a Pisces man, what she found out is that every time he came back it was b/c he was tired of the other girl. Not saying this guy is doing that but he isn't 100% about you. Also, once she realized he wasn't worth the pain, she let go and truly found a great guy for her.

I stand to differ, when a pisces man chooses to settle with one girl , he will never have another woman to fall back on.

In my opinion this man has not yet made a dicision who he really wants to settle with. He seem to be confused. He might not end up with any of the two girls he's playing right now, but might decide to settle with a new girl. Just my opinion.

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pretty sure, I just said he hadn't decided he wants to be with her. So if she is stating that it's torturing her with him coming and going, she has the power to stop it.

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Posted by thelastempress
I have only known this guy for six months and it feels like a lifetime. I can't tell you how many times he goes away and returns. It drives me insane and I have kinda gotten to the point where I know it's going to happen so it doesn't bother me much. I am tired of it though. Its draining dealing with someone that is all in and the next day all out. It is so hard especially when you love them and want what's best for them. I just want him to be happy. When we are together we always have a great time. Amazing intimacy. We laugh a lot. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. Our bond feels very natural. He will leave me with kisses and hopes of seeing him again and then nothing he just disappears then returns as if nothing ever happened. I am a Taurus and we take love serious. It means a lot to us and we hate flings. I care about him but he is slowly growing off of me and I'm realizing it might not be worth the heartache. I have other options yet I choose to give my attention to him. Doesn't seem like he wants it so I'm considering dating other men and moving on indefinitely. I don't want to hurt him if he indeed cares for me but I can't continue to play his game. Any advice?

This is just my opinion, I've found that Pisces once they have decided they want to be with you, they do. If he keeps coming in and out, he isn't doing that with you. Right now, you're just allowing yourself to be a revolving door, if it upsets you and hurts you, you are the one that has to block him out. It's you that has to be the one to put a stop to it.

My Libra gf went on this rollercoaster for almost a year with a Pisces man, what she found out is that every time he came back it was b/c he was tired of the other girl. Not saying this guy is doing that but he isn't 100% about you. Also, once she realized he wasn't worth the pain, she let go and truly found a great guy for her.

I stand to differ, when a pisces man chooses to settle with one girl , he will never have another woman to fall back on.

In my opinion this man has not yet made a dicision who he really wants to settle with. He seem to be confused. He might not end up with any of the two girls he's playing right now, but might decide to settle with a new girl. Just my opinion.

pretty sure, I just said he hadn't decided he wants to be with her. So if she is stating that it's torturing her with him coming and going, she has the power to stop it.

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I agree!

Posted by thelastempress
I have only known this guy for six months and it feels like a lifetime. I can't tell you how many times he goes away and returns. It drives me insane and I have kinda gotten to the point where I know it's going to happen so it doesn't bother me much. I am tired of it though. Its draining dealing with someone that is all in and the next day all out. It is so hard especially when you love them and want what's best for them. I just want him to be happy. When we are together we always have a great time. Amazing intimacy. We laugh a lot. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. Our bond feels very natural. He will leave me with kisses and hopes of seeing him again and then nothing he just disappears then returns as if nothing ever happened. I am a Taurus and we take love serious. It means a lot to us and we hate flings. I care about him but he is slowly growing off of me and I'm realizing it might not be worth the heartache. I have other options yet I choose to give my attention to him. Doesn't seem like he wants it so I'm considering dating other men and moving on indefinitely. I don't want to hurt him if he indeed cares for me but I can't continue to play his game. Any advice?

This^^^ just boggles my mind!! It's sounds like a FWB situation, I'm just not seeing how you think he is going to choose you one day. :/ Every girl that I know that's married a Pisces man, they didn't have this situation. Even my ex sister in law, she went on 1 blind date and never parted with her now husband going on 9yrs. My bff and her now husband, they hooked up and never stopped seeing each other. My old bff, her sister, same thing, my cousin and his wife, my high school friends who've been married now for 14yrs, my other cousin and her husband..NONE OF THEM did this swimming back and forth.

Posted by Vixen2
Lmmao!!

@Vixen2 do you go back and forth with people you truly love and want a relationship with?

Posted by WateryGem

..NONE OF THEM did this swimming back and forth.

I've been committed to the same person for going on 34 years.

If a person doesn't have the Pisces 100% , or any person for that matter .... then it's your job to do right by yourself, and make a rational decision.

Instead, it looks like the world is full of all these emotionally desperate women who merely want to play for attention, for tidbits of false hope. And for some odd reason, that seems to satisfy most of them.

then it's rinse and repeat ... very bizarre



Alll along, they've always had the ability to make their own choices, rather than cling onto another so they can feel approved of.

It boggles my mind also.


How can a person be this dense?


And it's always a Taurus woman .... they're like autistic people, only it's affecting their ability to let go of a wrong decision, rather than the normal communication issues with people on the spectrum.



He's not into you enough to be a keeper ..... and here you sit wasting your energy and time, and you think it makes you special to love that much.

It's not an honor to be loyal to person who doesn't want you.


dude ... seriously ... pry yourself out of the mud you've your brain stuck in and walk the fuck away with some dignity

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Posted by thelastempress
I have only known this guy for six months and it feels like a lifetime. I can't tell you how many times he goes away and returns. It drives me insane and I have kinda gotten to the point where I know it's going to happen so it doesn't bother me much. I am tired of it though. Its draining dealing with someone that is all in and the next day all out. It is so hard especially when you love them and want what's best for them. I just want him to be happy. When we are together we always have a great time. Amazing intimacy. We laugh a lot. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. Our bond feels very natural. He will leave me with kisses and hopes of seeing him again and then nothing he just disappears then returns as if nothing ever happened. I am a Taurus and we take love serious. It means a lot to us and we hate flings. I care about him but he is slowly growing off of me and I'm realizing it might not be worth the heartache. I have other options yet I choose to give my attention to him. Doesn't seem like he wants it so I'm considering dating other men and moving on indefinitely. I don't want to hurt him if he indeed cares for me but I can't continue to play his game. Any advice?

This^^^ just boggles my mind!! It's sounds like a FWB situation, I'm just not seeing how you think he is going to choose you one day. :/ Every girl that I know that's married a Pisces man, they didn't have this situation. Even my ex sister in law, she went on 1 blind date and never parted with her now husband going on 9yrs. My bff and her now husband, they hooked up and never stopped seeing each other. My old bff, her sister, same thing, my cousin and his wife, my high school friends who've been married now for 14yrs, my other cousin and her husband..NONE OF THEM did this swimming back and forth.

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But how do you know how do you know how all these people's relationship was really like? You were not in the relationship but observationb from afar.

Some women prefer not to discus what they went through with their husbands before they got married unless if your were their therapists.

I think a Pisces men perspective would really help OP here, we females see relationships differently from men themselves.

Posted by thelastempress
I have only known this guy for six months and it feels like a lifetime. I can't tell you how many times he goes away and returns. It drives me insane and I have kinda gotten to the point where I know it's going to happen so it doesn't bother me much. I am tired of it though. Its draining dealing with someone that is all in and the next day all out. It is so hard especially when you love them and want what's best for them. I just want him to be happy. When we are together we always have a great time. Amazing intimacy. We laugh a lot. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. Our bond feels very natural. He will leave me with kisses and hopes of seeing him again and then nothing he just disappears then returns as if nothing ever happened. I am a Taurus and we take love serious. It means a lot to us and we hate flings. I care about him but he is slowly growing off of me and I'm realizing it might not be worth the heartache. I have other options yet I choose to give my attention to him. Doesn't seem like he wants it so I'm considering dating other men and moving on indefinitely. I don't want to hurt him if he indeed cares for me but I can't continue to play his game. Any advice?

www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/Pisces-Men-101-1346858.asp

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Posted by thelastempress
I have only known this guy for six months and it feels like a lifetime. I can't tell you how many times he goes away and returns. It drives me insane and I have kinda gotten to the point where I know it's going to happen so it doesn't bother me much. I am tired of it though. Its draining dealing with someone that is all in and the next day all out. It is so hard especially when you love them and want what's best for them. I just want him to be happy. When we are together we always have a great time. Amazing intimacy. We laugh a lot. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. Our bond feels very natural. He will leave me with kisses and hopes of seeing him again and then nothing he just disappears then returns as if nothing ever happened. I am a Taurus and we take love serious. It means a lot to us and we hate flings. I care about him but he is slowly growing off of me and I'm realizing it might not be worth the heartache. I have other options yet I choose to give my attention to him. Doesn't seem like he wants it so I'm considering dating other men and moving on indefinitely. I don't want to hurt him if he indeed cares for me but I can't continue to play his game. Any advice?

This is just my opinion, I've found that Pisces once they have decided they want to be with you, they do. If he keeps coming in and out, he isn't doing that with you. Right now, you're just allowing yourself to be a revolving door, if it upsets you and hurts you, you are the one that has to block him out. It's you that has to be the one to put a stop to it.

My Libra gf went on this rollercoaster for almost a year with a Pisces man, what she found out is that every time he came back it was b/c he was tired of the other girl. Not saying this guy is doing that but he isn't 100% about you. Also, once she realized he wasn't worth the pain, she let go and truly found a great guy for her.

I stand to differ, when a pisces man chooses to settle with one girl , he will never have another woman to fall back on.

In my opinion this man has not yet made a dicision who he really wants to settle with. He seem to be confused. He might not end up with any of the two girls he's playing right now, but might decide to settle with a new girl. Just my opinion.

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COMPOSURE the saying is, "I beg to differ". The explanation for a Piscean man was that he stays with the woman if he is interested. God bless him if he cheats on her with another woman. That Piscean man has to be head over heels in love with her in order to stay MONOGAMOUS.

Eva

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Lmmao!!

@Vixen2 do you go back and forth with people you truly love and want a relationship with?

Never.

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But you are a female pisces. Op is dating a Pisces male.

M still hoping/wishing a pisces male could comment. Where are the pisces guys? Anyone?

Posted by thelastempress
I have only known this guy for six months and it feels like a lifetime. I can't tell you how many times he goes away and returns. It drives me insane and I have kinda gotten to the point where I know it's going to happen so it doesn't bother me much. I am tired of it though. Its draining dealing with someone that is all in and the next day all out. It is so hard especially when you love them and want what's best for them. I just want him to be happy. When we are together we always have a great time. Amazing intimacy. We laugh a lot. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. Our bond feels very natural. He will leave me with kisses and hopes of seeing him again and then nothing he just disappears then returns as if nothing ever happened. I am a Taurus and we take love serious. It means a lot to us and we hate flings. I care about him but he is slowly growing off of me and I'm realizing it might not be worth the heartache. I have other options yet I choose to give my attention to him. Doesn't seem like he wants it so I'm considering dating other men and moving on indefinitely. I don't want to hurt him if he indeed cares for me but I can't continue to play his game. Any advice?

your threads are contradictory OP

I have decided to just move forward and cut all contact. I want be available when he decides he wants to swim back my way. Thanks for your comments!

Posted by busyeyes88
OP, all I can say is that you are GOOD !! I don't think it's to do with a sun sign .

Many men do this regardless of sign because there are women that let them do this! You treat your own life like a revolving door and you let him come and go as and when he pleases and this is wrong!!! I had a two Pisces, two libras who tried to do this and I cut them off the FIRST time they went. When they decided to come back it was too late and I told them the same.

You need to cut this one lose and find Someone who wants to be with you.. Although I have to say that Pisces males are probably one of the worse and I don't have time for their shit!!!

Tauruses are renown for putting up with too much shit from others .. We need to start changing our 'doormat' tendencies and start breaking some balls!!

You need to dump his ass OP!

I did it before and he begged and worked his way back in. Then after things were good for awhile he did it over again. It has been a constant circle of back and forth, up and down, round and round. I cant play this game with him anymore. He is absolutely all talk and no action. Im done!

My sister has been married to a Pisces for 20 years. They went on a date and never stopped.

My sister is a scorp--not that this matters.

On the other hand, my Taurus friend was on and off with her Pisces for about five years. They now have two children and have been married for 15 years.

Also, my Saggitarius friend has been with her Pisces for 17 years. The first 3 years was swim in swim away. They've now been married for 13 years.

Another Pisces guy I know did the all in from day one. They were married for 12 years. She cheated on him and left him. They divorced a couple years ago. Don't know what the wife's sign was.

Another Pisces guy I know was married to a Cancer for 23 years. It first started out as together, break up, back together. This happened twice, I believe before they got married. He left her for a Saggitarius after 26 years with the Cancer. Sag and Fish boy have broken up Twice in five years. They are getting married in a couple months.

I could go on and on. Pisces--if you get them at the right time right place it's zig a zig hah. If not, there could be some shannanigans along the way. Don't listen to anyone who says Fish are all in never to retreat from day one. There are many, many examples of different outcomes.

Just saying.

Posted by BrightLight
My sister has been married to a Pisces for 20 years. They went on a date and never stopped.

My sister is a scorp--not that this matters.

On the other hand, my Taurus friend was on and off with her Pisces for about five years. They now have two children and have been married for 15 years.

Also, my Saggitarius friend has been with her Pisces for 17 years. The first 3 years was swim in swim away. They've now been married for 13 years.

Another Pisces guy I know did the all in from day one. They were married for 12 years. She cheated on him and left him. They divorced a couple years ago. Don't know what the wife's sign was.

Another Pisces guy I know was married to a Cancer for 23 years. It first started out as together, break up, back together. This happened twice, I believe before they got married. He left her for a Saggitarius after 26 years with the Cancer. Sag and Fish boy have broken up Twice in five years. They are getting married in a couple months.

I could go on and on. Pisces--if you get them at the right time right place it's zig a zig hah. If not, there could be some shannanigans along the way. Don't listen to anyone who says Fish are all in never to retreat from day one. There are many, many examples of different outcomes.

Just saying.

M glad you did not generalise,you real practical examples, not fairy tales.

Posted by thelastempress

I want be available when he decides he wants to swim back my way.

wow .... seriously, you really do deserve all of the butthurt you're going through, and will continue to deserve it.


because people deserve what they've earned

Aqua. Exactly. Real world examples. Not Neptunian, rose colored fog.

Pisces are known for swimming in and out. It happens.

Another thing I thought about. All the Pisces in my examples who went all in from day one, had just experienced a break up with someone who was toxic for them. They met the new one and it felt good and they dove straight in. The other ones were still swimming about when they met their eventual spouses so there was some back and forth for awhile before they eventually went all in.

Posted by busyeyes88

Six months backwards and forwards should be long enough to tell you that this man is fucking you around.

and yet ... you have to say it, which means she is too dense to grasp the obvious

Even the title is an utter mockery of herself

Posted by thelastempress

the fish swam away. He did return and say he still loved me and I saw him and we had an amazing night together.

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So a guy only has to tell you he loves you, and your panties fall off?

You don't give a rats ass about his actions ... he only has to show up with his dick in his hand and your butt sticks up in the air, like bitch in heat?

seriously .... what the fuck are you all about?

OP, what does it mean he is in and then out exactly in your case? Does he disapper all of a sudden? for how long? or is he just distant, but is in contact?

what are his other planets? moon, venus, mars?

@thelastempress

My case is the exact opposite. I am a Pisces. And it has felt like ON and OFF with my Taurus girl. Its been close to 6 months now. When we talk, we talk a lot. She gets totally into the conversations. And we end up sharing a lot of personal stuff with each other. There was a period of 2 months when I was away from her due to work. I was working my ass off on this time bound assignment. During that time our communication had kind off dropped a bit. However, I use to ensure I kept her updated on my work schedules, my return dates. Even though we dint communicate a LOT, however, I still ensured she knows whats going on in my life and when I would be back and so on. I made sure I do not lose touch with her. Its been 2 weeks now, and I am back from the assignment. However, she is coming across as very closed to me. I am Gemini Moon but still have tried to keep a lot of patience and made sure I do not smoother her. I have given her time so that we connect again. But being the intuitive sign that we Pisces are, I am not getting positive vibes. Its seems something is bothering her or she is not that into me now as she was previously.

Could there another person in her life now?
Anything that could have turned her off?
Any other inputs from Taurus Women here that could help.
Anything I can do to turn it around? I really want to!

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@thelastempress

My case is the exact opposite. I am a Pisces. And it has felt like ON and OFF with my Taurus girl. Its been close to 6 months now. When we talk, we talk a lot. She gets totally into the conversations. And we end up sharing a lot of personal stuff with each other. There was a period of 2 months when I was away from her due to work. I was working my ass off on this time bound assignment. During that time our communication had kind off dropped a bit. However, I use to ensure I kept her updated on my work schedules, my return dates. Even though we dint communicate a LOT, however, I still ensured she knows whats going on in my life and when I would be back and so on. I made sure I do not lose touch with her. Its been 2 weeks now, and I am back from the assignment. However, she is coming across as very closed to me. I am Gemini Moon but still have tried to keep a lot of patience and made sure I do not smoother her. I have given her time so that we connect again. But being the intuitive sign that we Pisces are, I am not getting positive vibes. Its seems something is bothering her or she is not that into me now as she was previously.

Could there another person in her life now?
Anything that could have turned her off?
Any other inputs from Taurus Women here that could help.
Anything I can do to turn it around? I really want to!

Move in with her. Taurus women like to feel like wives even though they not married yet.

Or it could be she met a rich guy,in that case forget it , u lost her.

@busyeyes88 Thanks a lot for those encouraging words. Those were the exact words I needed when I seem to be the only fighting to save whatever's left of it. With just about zero support from our mutual friends as well.

So yeah tell me more, do you girls sweet talk your guys before dumping them? I have an ultimatum already. It's till March 17th, she says she will move on post that.

Is there just about nothing that I can do to save it?
I mean really wanted to make it work.

You actually deserve to be abused by men, considering your actions.

You pride yourself on taking abuse and calling it love.


In that case, the Fish will stomp all over you, and laugh behind your back .....but, you just refuse to acknowledge that. Instead, you'll just believe that I'm ridiculing you .... when I'm the only one telling you the truth.


Your actions are a joke to the Fish .... grow some fucking dignity, for crying out loud.

There's a lot of crap going on in our Pisces heads. Don't take anything personal. So often I "turn off" to people and things just to work on solving problems, reflecting, and feeling for epiphanies. I might even have a great day with someone and then the next day spend all my time reflecting about what each moment meant. And there's definitely a duality between feeling alive and feeling like I'm half dead (not in a negative sense).

You'll know if it's personal when we snap. Yea, he loves and cares about you, but if you cannot handle his retreats, then best you move on. You deserve something different. The fact you made this topic is enough proof to yourself that it's the right thing for you. He might learn to adapt as time goes on and tailor that side of his nature like I know we can do, but it is still his nature, and might never happen. But you better ignore his romantic Pisces advances if you want to break off.

I can agree after these 6 months I realized it's just his nature. He hit me up two days ago wanting to spend time with me but I told he can't just show up then disappear and expect me to be okay with it. I also told him I didn't want him in my life anymore and wished him well. I am perfectly ok now. He just wasn't the guy for me.

Thanks for all your helpful responses.

Sometimes, we just need our space. It's not personal. We could be taking time to reflect on/review the time we've spent together. We could be thinking about if you are someone we want to move fwd with. All of these thoughts take time to process and being rushed just to accommodate feelings don't sit well with us (me). For me, unless I say otherwise, my man should be confident in the fact that I'm with him.

I do this a lot with friends and they get upset sometimes but before it was brought to my attention, I was oblivious to the fact that my disappearances were a problem.

It's just our way ( well some of us). Sometimes, we just need to get away for a while and think.