@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts
Truth vs. Smoldering
Truth; Naked, unprotected, could show you weak, could bring you unexpected results.
Definitely. To look weak, doesn't mean you are weak. I'd rather look weak and know the truth, than look strong while living blind. Unexpected results is what keeps Pisces going. You talked last month about how knowing the outcome most of the time, doesn't leave any reason to even attempt anything because there isn't anything new to learn. I can't see any growth in smoldering, just existence.
Definitely. To look weak, doesn't mean you are weak. I'd rather look weak and know the truth, than look strong while living blind. Unexpected results is what keeps Pisces going. You talked last month about how knowing the outcome most of the time, doesn't leave any reason to even attempt anything because there isn't anything new to learn. I can't see any growth in smoldering, just existence.
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Truth; Naked, unprotected, could show you weak, could bring you unexpected results.
Smoldering; Not naked, protected, could show you strong, could prevent you from unexpected results, but will make you lose control over situation, will make things more complicated than they are and postponde real resolutions.
Which one of those two are more effective? Do you belive one of them should be used as a general rule? If not then on some degree?