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Virgo chick crushing on my fish...
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Hi RumiLove 😉
I'm just intrigued because we are polar opposites...and I'm not looking for a quick lay so interested to know how these fishy's minds work before I invest myself in the situation any further.
I'm just intrigued because we are polar opposites...and I'm not looking for a quick lay so interested to know how these fishy's minds work before I invest myself in the situation any further.
Nice Nemilicious... I'm not trying to "validate that my character and traits are better than my friends" - firstly I wouldn't describe her as a friend as I have only known her for a short space of time, secondly she's considerably younger than me so we're not likely to be bff's. Your comment has really got under my skin, if you knew the first thing about me you would know that I'm not at all like that, but thanks for judging.
The "my fish" thing is tongue in cheek. Did you miss the part in which I said that everyone else was also crushing after him? Will make a mental note not make any further playful comments.
Arrius, I appreciate your reply. Without writing pages and pages of stuff on here, I have good reason to think even more so now that he is interested. What I'm really trying to understand is what he is interested in....whether he's likely to be looking for a quick lay or something more.
The "my fish" thing is tongue in cheek. Did you miss the part in which I said that everyone else was also crushing after him? Will make a mental note not make any further playful comments.
Arrius, I appreciate your reply. Without writing pages and pages of stuff on here, I have good reason to think even more so now that he is interested. What I'm really trying to understand is what he is interested in....whether he's likely to be looking for a quick lay or something more.
Posted by NemiliciousWow Nemilicious, you clearly have issues. Whatever happened to "if you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all".
Pieces of shit like the op deserve to be treated as such.
Posted by flauraHow did you figure that out?
I think the Virgo is a bit easy...and I think he may see me as relationship material.
In the other topic you mentioned he texts this chick a lot so as far as actions goes..he's moving with the tide in that direction, rather than yours.
We don't know if he even likes this Virgo chick. You said he told you at some point that people misunderstand his friendliness for interest. Maybe he was trying to hint at you that he sees you're crushing on him and he only wants friendship.
A lot of scenarios could happen here...
But someone tells you something in confidence and you turn around and deem that person easy because you're envious she can express interest better through body language..to the point it's clear to other people that she digs him..that's pretty low. It seems you prop yourself on an imaginary horse of moral high ground here.
Because I caught her trying to touch him up in bed the other night when they stayed over and he moved away from her. She also pretended to have sex with a guy in the corner of the office the other day...
Since the post about the exchange of messages - it turns out that the Virgo is doing the chasing.
This whole post was written to try and gain perspective as to whether he might like the Virgo chick. I was trying to establish whether Pisces like an easy lay seens as the Virgo told me that she is hot for him.
I don't think that he has the first idea that I like him.
Yes, I'm envious that I'm not more outgoing and I was I was more of an extrovert. I'm not knocking her for having those qualities, she is a lovely sweet girl and there isn't anything negative that I have to say about her. She is a sexual being, she has said as such - i never said that that was a bad thing. I said that she was easy, she would tell you that herself.
Since the post about the exchange of messages - it turns out that the Virgo is doing the chasing.
This whole post was written to try and gain perspective as to whether he might like the Virgo chick. I was trying to establish whether Pisces like an easy lay seens as the Virgo told me that she is hot for him.
I don't think that he has the first idea that I like him.
Yes, I'm envious that I'm not more outgoing and I was I was more of an extrovert. I'm not knocking her for having those qualities, she is a lovely sweet girl and there isn't anything negative that I have to say about her. She is a sexual being, she has said as such - i never said that that was a bad thing. I said that she was easy, she would tell you that herself.
Posted by NemiliciousIt's interesting that you think that you know so much about me after reading just a few posts. Thanks for the compliments.
Your self praise and self patronizing are disgusting and delusional. I'm done here. Waste of time.
Posted by dixieAwesome, thanks for the vote of confidence.
Anyway...he's gonna see right through you like everyone else here. ..move along
Posted by KsamCancerDon't make any jokes or tongue in cheek comments, it's not allowed!
Wtf is your fish? Is she trying to take your dinner?
After going through and skimming some things you said on other posts ...... I come to the realization that you have been looking for opportunities to ride his testicles. You even openly say in one thread that you are trying to boost his ego so he'll think differently of you.
If you are helping him at work, or doing things for him trying to make him believe you are something more than you are ... then you are operating under false pretenses, aka: lying/being deceptive/manipulating
The Pisces can see right through you, and when someone told that in here (in her own words) - you came back at her with condescending words because you couldn't handle her real talk.
From everything you've written in here, it sounds like you are trying to trick him into believing you are this false impression you're trying to represent.
And everytime you have a come back in saying bullshit like, "you don't know me" or something similar ... you make an utter fool out of yourself, because every person with a smidgeon of common sense realizes that people are responding to the comments YOU made. they aren't addressing anything other than what you said.
But, if you don't mind looking like a moron ... then by all means, continue .......
Oh look, another hater. It's a good job I have thick skin.... I thought this forum was an opportunity to be able to be open and honest and in return, receive some helpful advice.
Conclusions are dangerous P-Angel, I don't want to "ride his testicles", I am looking for a connection on a much deeper level. I was told by somebody else on here to "inflate his ego" - it turns out that he is actually quite insecure deep down and requires some affirmation. With the inflating his ego in mind, I wouldn't ever say anything that wasn't true or that I wasn't feeling.
I was asked to help him at work, he approached me and asked me to help him with a project so there is certainly no ulterior motive there.
I can handle real talk from people that know me, not from strangers that are forming opinions from a few sentences.
I'm not trying to trick anyone in to anything, I'm merely trying to understand him better. As explained, I am currently across the other side of the world from most of my family and friends, I only know a handful of people here and I don't feel able to confide in them about the situation.
There are ways to say things, several responses have been completely unnecessary.
Conclusions are dangerous P-Angel, I don't want to "ride his testicles", I am looking for a connection on a much deeper level. I was told by somebody else on here to "inflate his ego" - it turns out that he is actually quite insecure deep down and requires some affirmation. With the inflating his ego in mind, I wouldn't ever say anything that wasn't true or that I wasn't feeling.
I was asked to help him at work, he approached me and asked me to help him with a project so there is certainly no ulterior motive there.
I can handle real talk from people that know me, not from strangers that are forming opinions from a few sentences.
I'm not trying to trick anyone in to anything, I'm merely trying to understand him better. As explained, I am currently across the other side of the world from most of my family and friends, I only know a handful of people here and I don't feel able to confide in them about the situation.
There are ways to say things, several responses have been completely unnecessary.
Posted by flaura
I can handle real talk from people that know me, not from strangers that are forming opinions from a few sentences.
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How stupid can a person possibly be?
You came here to these strangers and laid your shit out here, and then when you got feedback you didn't want to hear ..... you go whining that people don't know you, that we're just strangers on a forum.
Are you really that dense? like seriously?
Posted by flauraPosted by dixieAwesome, thanks for the vote of confidence.
Anyway...he's gonna see right through you like everyone else here. ..move alongclick to expand
you got the best advice you could possibly get because it's the truth.
this man, and all Pisces, can see right through you ... and instead of using this information, you have a sarcastic comeback.
You say you want to understand better ..... but, really you want to be validated because that is truest truth you're going to find about Pisces.
Why should anyone give you confidence in doing the wrong thing? How bizarre.
You're in la-la-land .. not even close to the reality of a Pisces.
Again .... we can all see right through you, as can he. So, all of your attempts at trying to ACT like someone you're not, is going to be smacked back into your face with a Fish.
If you can't handle that .... then move along.
Posted by P-AngelYou're missing the point, it wasn't about it being feedback that I didn't want to hear but rather the name-calling and vulgarity that is/was unnecessary. Do you think it's acceptable to say things like "Your self praise and self patronizing are disgusting and delusional.", "he's gonna see right through you like everyone else here. ..move along" and call people things like "stupid" and "moron"...because where I'm from, that's not a nice way to speak to somebody.Posted by flaura
I can handle real talk from people that know me, not from strangers that are forming opinions from a few sentences.
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How stupid can a person possibly be?
You came here to these strangers and laid your shit out here, and then when you got feedback you didn't want to hear ..... you go whining that people don't know you, that we're just strangers on a forum.
Are you really that dense? like seriously?
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Posted by P-AngelWhat are they seeing through exactly P-Angel? Obviously some people in here appear to be suggesting that they know me better than I know myself, or my friends and family...please enlighten me.Posted by flauraPosted by dixieAwesome, thanks for the vote of confidence.
Anyway...he's gonna see right through you like everyone else here. ..move along
you got the best advice you could possibly get because it's the truth.
this man, and all Pisces, can see right through you ... and instead of using this information, you have a sarcastic comeback.
You say you want to understand better ..... but, really you want to be validated because that is truest truth you're going to find about Pisces.
Why should anyone give you confidence in doing the wrong thing? How bizarre.
You're in la-la-land .. not even close to the reality of a Pisces.
Again .... we can all see right through you, as can he. So, all of your attempts at trying to ACT like someone you're not, is going to be smacked back into your face with a Fish.
If you can't handle that .... then move along.click to expand
I'm here to learn more about Pisces so instead of making assumptions about me, why don't you try and be helpful? It seems like people just want to pick a fight.
There's that comment again - "we can all see right through you", what can you see exactly? Because you keep saying that but you don't elaborate any further.
Posted by dixieI don't want sugar coated advice, but I definitely don't expect to come in here and to have people call me names.
You're not here to learn anything
You want sugar coated advice, and this is the wrong forum for that
#circlejerk
You have expectations on how other people are suppose to talk to you.
That is how Pisces people communicate.
You say you want to get to know Pisces people better to understand them and then when they talk to you, you cant handle it, and start crying about it not being nice enough for you.
so move along then.
That is being a Pisces.
I have been enlightening you this entire time, as has all of the other Pisces ... but, instead of having any real awareness, you just get your panties wadded up your ass because we aren't abiding by your expectations on how you think we should talk to you.
And it's transparent ... we all see it, that's why we all commented.
You're being dense here because you refuse to accept that other people aren't going to have the same curtesy as you, so you are refusing to acknowledge what's being said to you, and arguing about it.
You will never get this Pisces .... he will be able to see the same things as you are being told. Just because you refuse to hear the words, doesn't mean they aren't being said.
It's not anyones job to understand what is being to you, for you.
Again ...... you are going out of your way to do things for him, with intentions of trying to give him a false impression of yourself. And we can all see right throught that, to see to you, that you are doing this.
How clearer do you need that to be?
You can come back with more denials and more smartass comments, or more remarks about how you don't like the way people are talking to you .... but, the truth still remains the same. You can either try and figure out what it all means, so you can find some useful information ... or you can sit there with your heels dug in because you don't you're being talked to.
this Pisces you know, talks to people like that also ... you just haven't heard him yet. And he wont' care if you like it, just like we don't care if you don't like it. It's not up to us to change how we talk, or change anything about us based on the fact that you can't handle yourself. If we change ourself in some way to satisfy you, then it's because you deserved it.
We don't give a rats ass about what you think is necessary. You are the one on here asking people to speak to you. so, if you can't handle what we say .... that's your problem, not ours.
That is how Pisces people communicate.
You say you want to get to know Pisces people better to understand them and then when they talk to you, you cant handle it, and start crying about it not being nice enough for you.
so move along then.
That is being a Pisces.
I have been enlightening you this entire time, as has all of the other Pisces ... but, instead of having any real awareness, you just get your panties wadded up your ass because we aren't abiding by your expectations on how you think we should talk to you.
And it's transparent ... we all see it, that's why we all commented.
You're being dense here because you refuse to accept that other people aren't going to have the same curtesy as you, so you are refusing to acknowledge what's being said to you, and arguing about it.
You will never get this Pisces .... he will be able to see the same things as you are being told. Just because you refuse to hear the words, doesn't mean they aren't being said.
It's not anyones job to understand what is being to you, for you.
Again ...... you are going out of your way to do things for him, with intentions of trying to give him a false impression of yourself. And we can all see right throught that, to see to you, that you are doing this.
How clearer do you need that to be?
You can come back with more denials and more smartass comments, or more remarks about how you don't like the way people are talking to you .... but, the truth still remains the same. You can either try and figure out what it all means, so you can find some useful information ... or you can sit there with your heels dug in because you don't you're being talked to.
this Pisces you know, talks to people like that also ... you just haven't heard him yet. And he wont' care if you like it, just like we don't care if you don't like it. It's not up to us to change how we talk, or change anything about us based on the fact that you can't handle yourself. If we change ourself in some way to satisfy you, then it's because you deserved it.
We don't give a rats ass about what you think is necessary. You are the one on here asking people to speak to you. so, if you can't handle what we say .... that's your problem, not ours.
And that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is the way our minds process.
Now, you can continue to be offended because you can't handle that I'm not adhering to your irrational expectation you have on how I am suppose to talk to you.
or .....
You can go through this thread and try and pick up on some useful information.
either way, it doesn't matter how huffy and puffy you get .... because that has no bearing on how we will decide to communicate with you. And this is EXACTLY how this co-worker Pisces person of yours thinks, also.
If you can't handle us in here, and then lay yourself open to him because you choose ignorance .... then you're going to get ripped apart.
And you can't say you weren't informed.
Posted by CuriousramIt was a tongue in cheek comment, which appears to have gone by the wayside. He's not my fish, and i don't see him as such but would i like him to be? Sure.Posted by flauraWell you are already possessive and calling him yours, id say you pretty much lost this battle. Virgo chick seems to be keeping his interest...
You may or may not have seen my previous thread - about a nice fish I met and felt like I was getting vibes from.
Anyway, the fish, myself, and this Virgo chick have grown pretty close after the last week or so and the Virgo told me in confidence that she likes the fish - It's written all over her face and body language, I already knew and it seems like other people are starting to see the same thing too. She's literally just come out of an 18 month relationship, within the last week or so and already crushing on someone else, it seems pretty quick to me...but who am I to judge?
The Virgo and I are completely different, she's lovely but she's very loud and extroverted. I, on the other hand, am an introverted extrovert - it takes a while for people to get to know me and for me to feel comfortable around others. I'm better in smaller groups.
What kind of gal does a fish like? I'm trying not to read in to everything but it's possible that he likes us both. I think the Virgo is a bit easy...and I think he may see me as relationship material. Or it could be that the fish is intrigued by me and enjoying the thrill of the chase - I mostly just sit and observe all of my female co-workers throwing themselves at him and making a fool out of themselves.click to expand
Posted by P-Angel
You have expectations on how other people are suppose to talk to you.
That is how Pisces people communicate.
You say you want to get to know Pisces people better to understand them and then when they talk to you, you cant handle it, and start crying about it not being nice enough for you.
so move along then.
That is being a Pisces.
I have been enlightening you this entire time, as has all of the other Pisces ... but, instead of having any real awareness, you just get your panties wadded up your ass because we aren't abiding by your expectations on how you think we should talk to you.
And it's transparent ... we all see it, that's why we all commented.
You're being dense here because you refuse to accept that other people aren't going to have the same curtesy as you, so you are refusing to acknowledge what's being said to you, and arguing about it.
You will never get this Pisces .... he will be able to see the same things as you are being told. Just because you refuse to hear the words, doesn't mean they aren't being said.
It's not anyones job to understand what is being to you, for you.
Again ...... you are going out of your way to do things for him, with intentions of trying to give him a false impression of yourself. And we can all see right throught that, to see to you, that you are doing this.
How clearer do you need that to be?
You can come back with more denials and more smartass comments, or more remarks about how you don't like the way people are talking to you .... but, the truth still remains the same. You can either try and figure out what it all means, so you can find some useful information ... or you can sit there with your heels dug in because you don't you're being talked to.
this Pisces you know, talks to people like that also ... you just haven't heard him yet. And he wont' care if you like it, just like we don't care if you don't like it. It's not up to us to change how we talk, or change anything about us based on the fact that you can't handle yourself. If we change ourself in some way to satisfy you, then it's because you deserved it.
We don't give a rats ass about what you think is necessary. You are the one on he
Honestly. Why would you want a guy that goes for a fucking VIRGO?? She isn't your friend if she knows you like him and is actively pursuing him. I'm not going to jump down your throat like the rest of the squad: either you admit you like him or watch your poor excuse for a friend get the guy you like. It's really that simple. Also, Pisces men generally are not worth the trouble. They're shiney and pretty and weak. As soon as your crush is over you'll see it wasn't worth it from the jump. A guy that's worth it doesn't go for a sleaze bag VIRGO. Grossssss lmfao
Thank you to everybody that has contributed to the thread in a meaningful way, I've spent some time reading through the comments.
Posted by piranhaparadiiseThank you Piranhaparadiise - I've tried to remain mindful about that comment that he made.Posted by flauraFrom your other thread ...this is all you need to know...
He has also said that people get the wrong impression about him and think that he wants to start dating them when in reality, he just wants to get to know people better.
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Cook him something (youre a taurus you got dis) and have a nice long talk and gauge his interest from there. friends or lovers or eating partners. I mean its a win-win situation either way
Posted by champrangerThat is a fair comment champranger. Of course I want to be more appealing to the fish... I was merely trying to understand what kind of traits he is attracted to, not so that I could change but so I could see whether there was any potential and whether he was likely to be attracted to me.Posted by flaura3 Pisces have told you the same thing ... that you are coming off as someone who wears a mask ... that you look like you are attempting to give him a false impression of yourself ... Or that you appear to try to build a mask that would appeal to this Pisces.Posted by dixieI don't want sugar coated advice, but I definitely don't expect to come in here and to have people call me names.
You're not here to learn anything
You want sugar coated advice, and this is the wrong forum for that
#circlejerk
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sometimes you come "innocently" asking for relationship advice on the pisces board and you get to understand what's the meaning of a sharknado.
That said I don't think the hate against OP is deserved, I won't get into the fray.
But it's pretty obvious that it's a bad situation for you OP.
There is a saying that "you must not shit where you eat" and in the workplace that means that you must not date on your workplace.
It seems also pretty obvious that the pisces man will not be able to choose between all the girls who are after him without creating some kind of drama, that is if he really wants to choose just one. I'm affraid you will come out disgusted about pisces men after this experience, which would be a hard punishment on yourself.
I don't know which country you're from but you seem to have a big family burden that incites you to find a husband, but this one doesn't seem to be the good one.
If you really want to pursue him, then don't rely on impression, you seem to have a selective memory about his actions and you only see the times when you imagine that he is favoring you. Be straight with him about what you're expecting and make sure that it also becomes clear for the other female employees.
But really you shouldn't.
That said I don't think the hate against OP is deserved, I won't get into the fray.
But it's pretty obvious that it's a bad situation for you OP.
There is a saying that "you must not shit where you eat" and in the workplace that means that you must not date on your workplace.
It seems also pretty obvious that the pisces man will not be able to choose between all the girls who are after him without creating some kind of drama, that is if he really wants to choose just one. I'm affraid you will come out disgusted about pisces men after this experience, which would be a hard punishment on yourself.
I don't know which country you're from but you seem to have a big family burden that incites you to find a husband, but this one doesn't seem to be the good one.
If you really want to pursue him, then don't rely on impression, you seem to have a selective memory about his actions and you only see the times when you imagine that he is favoring you. Be straight with him about what you're expecting and make sure that it also becomes clear for the other female employees.
But really you shouldn't.
Lmao....smh.... the more things change the more they stay the same. OP, Half the women who live on this site are narcissistic bitches with no love life and no meaningful contribution to society ,unless you count picking on unsuspecting people seeking advice or an opinion on an issue so they can feel special. They get their rocks off trying rule and regulate "dxp". They've been singing this same sad song for years so it's doubtful they'll be much help to you unless you just like drama and bullshit. They've mastered both so you're on the right site!
It really pisses me off because I'm actually trying to see if you catch the fish or not and these hating ass bitches keep messing the natural flow of your thread. I been quiet long enough. This shit is way fucking past ignoring.... bitches get a fucking job and a fucking social life. Trying to regulate DXP counts for neither. Dam I can't stand hating bitches. Like my Grandma use to say " They'd fucking up the devil if they could get to him! " Unbelievable the balls on some of these trifling ass rachet Internet hoes who have the audacity to try to talk down on someone. STFU. Seriously.
These hating ass hoes actually are quite astute when it comes to hating. They're fucking professionals. These bitches got way too fucking much time on their hands. They actually will do research to hate on your ass. WTF! They like, " Umm...3 weeks ago on your "Help me with my fish...he's leaving me" thread, you said you would never take him back but now you got a thread called " Me and my fish, Back Together....how can I make it last? " LMAO. So what! People can fu king change they mind. Who made these hating hoes anyone's judge and jury? Who got time to do research on what someone said. If you can tell me what someone said on this site a month ago, you got too much fucking time on your hands. Dam. DXP need to pay you. I can barely remember what was said at work last week and I get paid for that. This shit is way out of hand. These hoes actually act like they "policing DXP". UNBELIEVABLE!
I've had it with these motherfucking bitches in my motherfucking thread
Posted by BonesMaloneWhat does this ethnicity have to do with anything?Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0senseLMAO! Angry black man mode ACTIVATED!!! Tell em why you mad b!
These hating ass hoes actually are quite astute when it comes to hating. They're fucking professionals. These bitches got way too fucking much time on their hands. They actually will do research to hate on your ass. WTF! They like, " Umm...3 weeks ago on your "Help me with my fish...he's leaving me" thread, you said you would never take him back but now you got a thread called " Me and my fish, Back Together....how can I make it last? " LMAO. So what! People can fu king change they mind. Who made these hating hoes anyone's judge and jury? Who got time to do research on what someone said. If you can tell me what someone said on this site a month ago, you got too much fucking time on your hands. Dam. DXP need to pay you. I can barely remember what was said at work last week and I get paid for that. This shit is way out of hand. These hoes actually act like they "policing DXP". UNBELIEVABLE!click to expand
Posted by hydorahThank for the support hydorah!
sometimes you come "innocently" asking for relationship advice on the pisces board and you get to understand what's the meaning of a sharknado.
That said I don't think the hate against OP is deserved, I won't get into the fray.
But it's pretty obvious that it's a bad situation for you OP.
There is a saying that "you must not shit where you eat" and in the workplace that means that you must not date on your workplace.
It seems also pretty obvious that the pisces man will not be able to choose between all the girls who are after him without creating some kind of drama, that is if he really wants to choose just one. I'm affraid you will come out disgusted about pisces men after this experience, which would be a hard punishment on yourself.
I don't know which country you're from but you seem to have a big family burden that incites you to find a husband, but this one doesn't seem to be the good one.
If you really want to pursue him, then don't rely on impression, you seem to have a selective memory about his actions and you only see the times when you imagine that he is favoring you. Be straight with him about what you're expecting and make sure that it also becomes clear for the other female employees.
But really you shouldn't.
The selective memory thing is really insightful, I hadn't considered that before but now you mention it, I think it most definitely is a thing. In all aspects of my life, I like to see the best in everything. I am the person that makes excuses for peoples actions - exacerbated by my career, experience and education I'm sure.
I'm from the UK. It's not a family burden as such, I probably put the same pressure on myself. I will be turning 30 next year, it would be nice to know that life was moving in the direction I'm longing it to.
Posted by champrangerAlso Taurus champranger...Posted by flauraJust curious. What's your Moon sign?Posted by champrangerThat is a fair comment champranger. Of course I want to be more appealing to the fish... I was merely trying to understand what kind of traits he is attracted to, not so that I could change but so I could see whether there was any potential and whether he was likely to be attracted to me.Posted by flaura3 Pisces have told you the same thing ... that you are coming off as someone who wears a mask ... that you look like you are attempting to give him a false impression of yourself ... Or that you appear to try to build a mask that would appeal to this Pisces.Posted by dixieI don't want sugar coated advice, but I definitely don't expect to come in here and to have people call me names.
You're not here to learn anything
You want sugar coated advice, and this is the wrong forum for that
#circlejerk
I think it's more telling of a man's interest to if he comes to you. He could totally like you as a person but not be romantically attracted to you.click to expand
If you can help me understand my chart etc a bit more, that would be most appreciated. Whilst I'm interested in astrology and have done a reasonable amount of research, I'm sure you guys are way more knowledgeable!
Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0senseThanks for the support 3dimes2nickels1penny0sense 😄
It really pisses me off because I'm actually trying to see if you catch the fish or not and these hating ass bitches keep messing the natural flow of your thread. I been quiet long enough. This shit is way fucking past ignoring.... bitches get a fucking job and a fucking social life. Trying to regulate DXP counts for neither. Dam I can't stand hating bitches. Like my Grandma use to say " They'd fucking up the devil if they could get to him! " Unbelievable the balls on some of these trifling ass rachet Internet hoes who have the audacity to try to talk down on someone. STFU. Seriously.
I really didn't lose any sleep over any of the comments, let them say what they want and lets not lower ourselves to their standards.
Will keep you posted about the fish, so far it's not looking so favourable as the Virgo has caught his eye.
Posted by SassyVirgoThank you SassyVirgo 🙂Posted by flauraFish likes someone who is comfortable in their own skin, original, good sense of humor, caring, supportive, confident and non clingy. When he likes you he will do all the initiating.
You may or may not have seen my previous thread - about a nice fish I met and felt like I was getting vibes from.
Anyway, the fish, myself, and this Virgo chick have grown pretty close after the last week or so and the Virgo told me in confidence that she likes the fish - It's written all over her face and body language, I already knew and it seems like other people are starting to see the same thing too. She's literally just come out of an 18 month relationship, within the last week or so and already crushing on someone else, it seems pretty quick to me...but who am I to judge?
The Virgo and I are completely different, she's lovely but she's very loud and extroverted. I, on the other hand, am an introverted extrovert - it takes a while for people to get to know me and for me to feel comfortable around others. I'm better in smaller groups.
What kind of gal does a fish like? I'm trying not to read in to everything but it's possible that he likes us both. I think the Virgo is a bit easy...and I think he may see me as relationship material. Or it could be that the fish is intrigued by me and enjoying the thrill of the chase - I mostly just sit and observe all of my female co-workers throwing themselves at him and making a fool out of themselves.
Just be yourself and see how it goes, if it's meant to be it will be.click to expand
This sounds an awful lot like the Virgo although she is very clingy - she's had a really hard time in her family life and this is probably why. I can't say that I'm the most comfortable in my own skin, nor am I very confident... things aren't looking great so far haha
I see you ignored my food advice. Invite him over for bloody tea and crumpets already! I don't know why you're acting like he's all about the Virgo already. I mean he will be if you just give up. All is fair in love and war so woo him. Woo. You can do it. Gotta get closer some how
Posted by AfternoonDelights22Thank you AfternoonDelights22, you're so sweet!
I see you ignored my food advice. Invite him over for bloody tea and crumpets already! I don't know why you're acting like he's all about the Virgo already. I mean he will be if you just give up. All is fair in love and war so woo him. Woo. You can do it. Gotta get closer some how
My dilemma is that I don't want to tread on the Virgo's toes...she has been forthcoming with me about her feelings and it would be wrong to pull the rug from out beneath her feet surely?!
I go on holiday next Friday for a few weeks, my contract ends at the same time - I think it could either go very well in my favour because he might miss having me around, or, it could be out of sight out of mind.
Posted by flaura
.... lets not lower ourselves to their standards.
Really, so that is what you took from this.
In the OP you made reference that you are better than the other females, in that how they operate in their lives is making fools out of themselves in comparison to you, in where you believe you are behaving in good form.
Now, you have the attitude that the Pisces standards are lower than yours, based on the fact that we were upfront with you, with real talk.
Here's what's probably the really real ... you're jealous of the Virgo because you know you don't have what it takes to win him. Your words are filled with envy because you're higher standards, as you believe ... aren't good enough.
Yes, please keep us updated .. I'd love to hear how the Virgo captured him while you were watching from your high horse.
We all love good laughs
That post didn't come out properly for some reason.
Anyway, thanks so much SassyVirgo - I'm really feeling the love! This thread has done a complete 360.
I can't be anything other than myself (despite previous comments), I'm a terrible actress and terrible liar! I wouldn't want to be good at those things anyway.
I made a banana cake a few weeks ago, that seemed to go down well. Will step up my game. I think I'm having some people over on Sunday so will do a big lunch for everyone maybe. The difficulty is that he has some food allergies, and he's very fussy, but it's the thought that counts!
And you're right, I'm not one for being over the top or even trying to fight for attention for this guy.
Anyway, thanks so much SassyVirgo - I'm really feeling the love! This thread has done a complete 360.
I can't be anything other than myself (despite previous comments), I'm a terrible actress and terrible liar! I wouldn't want to be good at those things anyway.
I made a banana cake a few weeks ago, that seemed to go down well. Will step up my game. I think I'm having some people over on Sunday so will do a big lunch for everyone maybe. The difficulty is that he has some food allergies, and he's very fussy, but it's the thought that counts!
And you're right, I'm not one for being over the top or even trying to fight for attention for this guy.
Posted by flaura
..... it could either go very well in my favour because he might miss having me around
Yes, having you around to ride his testicles.
As stated before, you are going out of your way to cater to him, to do things for him .... so him having you around is for his beck and call.
And you must love that ... because you put stock in it.
let me guess .... you're a Taurus.
Posted by P-AngelP-Angel, I'm not getting in to this again with you. You're misconstruing everything that I'm saying and using it against me. We will have to agree to disagree...Posted by flaura
.... lets not lower ourselves to their standards.
Really, so that is what you took from this.
In the OP you made reference that you are better than the other females, in that how they operate in their lives is making fools out of themselves in comparison to you, in where you believe you are behaving in good form.
Now, you have the attitude that the Pisces standards are lower than yours, based on the fact that we were upfront with you, with real talk.
Here's what's probably the really real ... you're jealous of the Virgo because you know you don't have what it takes to win him. Your words are filled with envy because you're higher standards, as you believe ... aren't good enough.
Yes, please keep us updated .. I'd love to hear how the Virgo captured him while you were watching from your high horse.
We all love good laughsclick to expand
Forget about the haters flaura. And please don't start thinking that all Pisceans are the same, this crowd makes me ashamed. You can only be this unnecessarily critical when you don't have a lot going on in your personal life. This is a freakin' forum and this girl is clearly looking for some advice.
And btw, I have to say how stupid it is to classify every bullshit said as "you must be a taurus" or any other sun sign. Who the fuck are you? your stupidity is not defined by your sun sign, there are way too many factors to consider before assuming this nonsense. It's prejudice taken to another level, what a load of crap!!! Get over yourselves little fishies. There's something called common sense and we can all have it, regardless of birth chart specifications.
They only look like sharks in groups btw, just like any other ignorant mob.
Just be yourself and honest about the way that you feel about this guy. Don't chase and don't try to change yourself because of him or any other guy. If he doesn't show interest, move on. 🙂
And btw, I have to say how stupid it is to classify every bullshit said as "you must be a taurus" or any other sun sign. Who the fuck are you? your stupidity is not defined by your sun sign, there are way too many factors to consider before assuming this nonsense. It's prejudice taken to another level, what a load of crap!!! Get over yourselves little fishies. There's something called common sense and we can all have it, regardless of birth chart specifications.
They only look like sharks in groups btw, just like any other ignorant mob.
Just be yourself and honest about the way that you feel about this guy. Don't chase and don't try to change yourself because of him or any other guy. If he doesn't show interest, move on. 🙂
You ^^^ must be a Taurus, and that comment got your panties twisted up your ass
Awww, you're cute. I'm a Pisces if you must know.
Posted by flaura
You're misconstruing everything that I'm saying ....
The fact that you're not bright enough to realize that I'm capable of reading inbetween the lines, doesn't make your Bullshit true. You're not going to pull one over on me.
In fact, regarding your comment about him missing you .... you even mention about bringing a banana treat. You can't proclaim it was for the whole office, because you used it as an example to convey to us that you do these special things that you want him to remember.
You're not fooling me. You trash the Virgo from jump, for no reason except that you believe she is catching his eye. You're still talking about her.
It's clear that you're jealous of her. And every person with a smidgeon of sense has read this inbetween the lines ... because the reality is, if you weren't jealous, you wouldn't even mention her
We all can see it, I'm just the only one saying it ...... the Virgo is catching his eye, and you can't compete, so you bring him banana treats and do his work for him and hope that he will miss your head up his ass, to choose you.
I'm one person you're not going to fool. And seeing that he's a Pisces, you're not fooling him either ...
Posted by P-AngelI'm bright enough to know that what you should have written was "reading BETWEEN the lines" and not "inbetween". Now play nice P-Angel, there is absolutely no need for your attitude and like I said, if you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. I'm not asking you to respond, we've established that your input is less than helpful.Posted by flaura
You're misconstruing everything that I'm saying ....
The fact that you're not bright enough to realize that I'm capable of reading inbetween the lines, doesn't make your Bullshit true. You're not going to pull one over on me.
In fact, regarding your comment about him missing you .... you even mention about bringing a banana treat. You can't proclaim it was for the whole office, because you used it as an example to convey to us that you do these special things that you want him to remember.
You're not fooling me. You trash the Virgo from jump, for no reason except that you believe she is catching his eye. You're still talking about her.
It's clear that you're jealous of her. And every person with a smidgeon of sense has read this inbetween the lines ... because the reality is, if you weren't jealous, you wouldn't even mention her
We all can see it, I'm just the only one saying it ...... the Virgo is catching his eye, and you can't compete, so you bring him banana treats and do his work for him and hope that he will miss your head up his ass, to choose you.
I'm one person you're not going to fool. And seeing that he's a Pisces, you're not fooling him either ...click to expand
Someone told me that I should make some food for him and I simply said that I had made a banana cake - how do you take the fact that I'm trying to convey to you all that I'm doing "special things" for him? I made the cake because I had some overripe bananas.
The Virgo laughed about the fact that she was "easy" (her words!) and describes herself as a "sexual being". I don't understand how you can say that I'm trashing her when they are her words.
I'm not jealous of her but I will happily admit that I am jealous that she has his attention, and that she is so outgoing - something that I have previous
...I'm not jealous of her but I will happily admit that I am jealous that she has his attention, and that she is so outgoing - something that I have previously said. Please see comment re "inbetween" and "between" in first paragraph. For future reference, "inbetween" isn't a word, it is "in-between".
The Virgo is catching his eye, I know that - the whole point of this thread was to try and gain a better understanding on what is happening. I'm not about to throw myself in to the mix and compete for his attention when there are already so many others doing the same thing. If he is not interested it's his loss. If he is interested, like others have said, then it will happen.
The Virgo is catching his eye, I know that - the whole point of this thread was to try and gain a better understanding on what is happening. I'm not about to throw myself in to the mix and compete for his attention when there are already so many others doing the same thing. If he is not interested it's his loss. If he is interested, like others have said, then it will happen.
Thanks for your input tiziani 🙂
I'm actually more of an "actions speak louder than words" kind of gal. I had been asked what made me think that he could like me, in which i elaborated, but it's also highly possible that i read in to things that weren't there, or held on to things that he had said.
I made the banana cake because i had overripe bananas, and it was initially for me to take to a friends place but when those plans got cancelled i took it to work so that it didn't go to any waste.
I will bare everything that you have said in mind. I'm starting to wonder if this fish is even worth all of the hassle!
I'm actually more of an "actions speak louder than words" kind of gal. I had been asked what made me think that he could like me, in which i elaborated, but it's also highly possible that i read in to things that weren't there, or held on to things that he had said.
I made the banana cake because i had overripe bananas, and it was initially for me to take to a friends place but when those plans got cancelled i took it to work so that it didn't go to any waste.
I will bare everything that you have said in mind. I'm starting to wonder if this fish is even worth all of the hassle!
Posted by piranhaparadiiseThank you Piranhaparadiise.Posted by flauraIt doesn't matter if she is outgoing or you are not outgoing,
...I'm not jealous of her but I will happily admit that I am jealous that she has his attention, and that she is so outgoing - something that I have previously said. Please see comment re "inbetween" and "between" in first paragraph. For future reference, "inbetween" isn't a word, it is "in-between".
The Virgo is catching his eye, I know that - the whole point of this thread was to try and gain a better understanding on what is happening. I'm not about to throw myself in to the mix and compete for his attention when there are already so many others doing the same thing. If he is not interested it's his loss. If he is interested, like others have said, then it will happen.
I am definitely not outgoing I am shyish at first and hey I am with a Pisces long term and before that another Pisces long term
So she's just stroking his ego and no do not bring food for him or go out of your way, sorry but thats a road to doormat land if you go all out before he is even your man.
I really do not think he is the one for you, sure he may look the package but you do not want to try to compete for attention, even if you get him he will still be getting attention from others, what will you be like then ? it will be even worse cause then you will maybe connect on another level and then have to worry if he is doing anything with the other work mates...
If he was really interested you would be the one he would be focussing on and he would deeme the other too loose or if he is one of these try everything around than yeh he will try. Pisces look innocent they look sensitive however they have a wild side under it all that takes time to tame and want to settle with just one girl...
be wise and let this one goclick to expand
I had come to the conclusion yesterday that he wasn't the fish for me, then he messaged me last night to say that he missed me. I think he's keeping his options open. I feel as though i am thinking much more clearly.
Posted by SassyVirgo🙂Posted by flauraYou're welcome. You don't have to cook for him, only bring food to work if you genuinely enjoy cooking, and if you do make sure you share so he knows it's NOT just for him. Work relationship is bad idea but you never know as I know a girl who fancy her manager for awhile and now she is in seriously relationship and living with him, but they restructure the team so she now report to someone else.
That post didn't come out properly for some reason.
Anyway, thanks so much SassyVirgo - I'm really feeling the love! This thread has done a complete 360.
I can't be anything other than myself (despite previous comments), I'm a terrible actress and terrible liar! I wouldn't want to be good at those things anyway.
I made a banana cake a few weeks ago, that seemed to go down well. Will step up my game. I think I'm having some people over on Sunday so will do a big lunch for everyone maybe. The difficulty is that he has some food allergies, and he's very fussy, but it's the thought that counts!
And you're right, I'm not one for being over the top or even trying to fight for attention for this guy.
Just don't have expectation and see how it goes/click to expand
I love cooking and baking. Really, there was no ulterior motive about this cake other than that fact that i had overripe bananas and was going to see some friends and thought that it was a good opportunity to be in the kitchen. As it turns out, that catch up was cancelled and so i took it to work instead. I don't know if he ate any of it, i don't care either as that wasn't the reason i made it.
My contract finishes in a weeks time so I haven't seen the workplace as a long-term issue.
You'll see my comment above, i'm not sure how i'm feeling about the fish - i think that i am thinking much more clearly. I'm trying not to overthink or have any expectations, i will just go with the flow and have faith that what will be will be. One thing is for certain though, i'm not prepared to hurt people as i try and make my way to the top.
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