When is a Pisces man serious or not? (Page 2)

It's "unfortunate" that you got suckered into one of P-angels notorious games of mind-F's she likes to play with people and then proceeds to peddle such terrible advise on the unsuspecting and goes on and on for no other reason then to create drama for you while entertaining herself for getting you so defensive.

I got what you were saying (and repeating) the first time.Sorry I didn't jump in sooner but didn't read the thread until just now. YES, this guy was thoughtless and inconsiderate and rude in his actions. I happen to agree with you, that behavior is unacceptable by ANY sign not just because he is a Pisces!

It's difficult to determine why the sudden change in him occurred but....it is very true that a Pisces will only swim away if they feel something is wrong (real or imagined).

Since it all seems to have hinged around you leaving on the last minute to take your daughter out of town it is quite possible that his feelings got hurt for a variety of reasons one can only speculate.

There is no doubt that his lack of consideration in helping you move when he said he would, but didn't was intentional. If it was unintentional........and he knew he had let you down...a Pisces would be extremely apologetic for hurting YOUR FEELINGS or disappointing you NOT make some flip comment about how "busy" they are or make excuses to justify bad behavior.

Ignore the snide remarks from others about compromising you principals. They obviously have spent a lifetime compromising their own and that is why their comments are so.....shall we say...."bitter" and tolerant of people in their lives who treat them as such.

QueenScorp, I do think you're protecting your vulnerability by being aloof with him is playing a part in his reactions toward you somehow.

I would advise just talking to him about it. Pisces LOVE honesty! So open up with him (be vulnerable) be honest and tell him how YOU FEEL about how his words and actions are confusing you. I'm sure you'll get the answers you seek directly from him not from this board of characters. Best of luck !!!

Its hard to say when most men are serious nowadays ...

"I would advise just talking to him about it. Pisces LOVE honesty! So open up with him (be vulnerable) be honest and tell him how YOU FEEL about how his words and actions are confusing you. I'm sure you'll get the answers you seek directly from him not from this board of characters. Best of luck !!!"

Thanks TOJ, I have done just that in an email, as I don't seem to get a chance to have a real conversation with him on the phone. No response to the email for a few days then a phone call to ask what I was up to, I explained I was out with friends. He said nothing so that is how it ended. He called today while I was in a meeting at work. I returned the call a couple hours later (when he was at work) no answer I am sure he was busy. Who knows, I am just occupying my time with the many things I have going on in my life right now. So, what I know about any man, pisces or not, if they are interested they will act like it. Simple. I guess some people settle and some don't.

unreal, like I tell my girlfriends. You will move on when You are TRULY tired....

Queenscorpio--

I thought maybe I oculd help you out a bit here...I'm a Taurus female and in the past I have attracted Pisces men like crazy--and dated many, as well as been in serious relationships with some.

About the moving incident..I would not put up with that--EVER! Pisces are notorious for making little committments (i.e. like saying they'll help you move--because they truly want to help--but then when it comes time to actually do the work--they realize--that sure they want to help you but...don't really feel like doing the work.

What did you say to him when he said he was tired?? I have realized that dealing with these men on a non-emotional, straightforward, and logical level is the best way (I know scorp this is hard for you--but it works--trust me!)

For instance, "Hey, just so you know it really pissed me off that you said you'd help move and you didn't show--so, what are you gonna do to make it up to me?"

Now if he says "I know, I'm sorry trust me I'll make it up to you lets go to dinner tonight" then he really feels bad and cares...then at dinner you can reassure him of how much you like him--but tell him what kind of behavior you expect from him---they like you to take the lead (almost in every way)

If he blows you or the situation off--get rid of him--he got pulled in by the romance of it all (as picses often do)--and he's not really ready to put in the effort of a real realtionship--they are notorious for just swimming (or slipping) away if they think they have rushed into something

Are you laughing at me? This was actually a really good thread, I'm sorry it died.

He's not taken seriously .. and this was expressed from the very beginning ... if a person isn't taken seriously, no matter sign or gender or age .. then they'll blow you off when you need something in return.

Why should they break their necks to aid you?

@ dreamer, I actually laughed when I read it like that and thought "what the hell" its kind of like a run-on point of view. BTW, I love therapy. I've had a shrink since I was 8.

"For instance, "Hey, just so you know it really pissed me off that you said you'd help move and you didn't show--so, what are you gonna do to make it up to me?"

LOL!!! Funny that is exactly what I did when he called and his response was, " I am sorry I didn't mean to offend you or hurt your feelings. I thought I told you I would try." Then he asked if there were more things that needed to be moved. It was a week later. I said no, but he needed to know that I got offended that he didn't even tell me he wasn't able to when I text the day of.


"He's not taken seriously .. and this was expressed from the very beginning ... if a person isn't taken seriously, no matter sign or gender or age .. then they'll blow you off when you need something in return."

How serious do you take a person you just met, really? Do you automatically decide you two are in a serious relationship because you just spoke of wanting that? Hence, P-Angel your earlier accusations in the post claiming I ASSUMED he wanted a serious relationship with me. In actuality he said those exact words later on. Controdicting eh?

"Why should they break their necks to aid you?"

He shouldn't break his neck just have the common curtesy to say he changed his mind, don't feel like it, too busy. Fuck off, something!


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Anyway, he read the email I sent to him finally and called me at 2am asking what was that supposed to mean. I told him just what it said. He claimed to really like me and really want to get to know me and it scared him how much he was liking me and how fast, so he had pulled back some. I thanked him for being honest and I told him, I had no intensions on rushing anything we were still at the beginning stages of trying to get to know eachother, but we would actually have to spend time to do so.

I also explained if he was too busy fot this then maybe this isn't a good time to try to get to know someone, maybe he actually doesn't have the time. He said he had been very busy but will make the time. We went to dinner, it was a blast. We shall see.