when pisces go quiet and ignore you

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Posted by sonofthunder
If it was me, it'd mean one if two things..

1. I want you to initiate with me, show that you actually want to talk to me and it's not just me doing all the work.

2. You did or said something to make me not want to speak with you. Could be something small that just made me change my mind about you, or something bigger that made me swim away for good.

But these are just me..your fish could be doing something totally different.



+1 I''m the same in these situations. We don't ignore people we like .
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+1 to everypost... to me I never ignore or give up hope ever,. but rather just giving up on the situation we are like turtles if we sense trouble, danger, or assault we hide. then when you are not looking we swim away and hid out in a cave." just went through this my self with a girl I liked and also her friend. I'm hiding because I get feelings hurt inside. I saw something I hate and well Tbh I'm searching for a new set of fish to impress with my shinny colors
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Posted by TruePisces5
Posted by sonofthunder
If it was me, it'd mean one if two things..

1. I want you to initiate with me, show that you actually want to talk to me and it's not just me doing all the work.

2. You did or said something to make me not want to speak with you. Could be something small that just made me change my mind about you, or something bigger that made me swim away for good.

But these are just me..your fish could be doing something totally different.



+1 I''m the same in these situations. We don't ignore people we like .
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Pisces sun, asc, venus, mercury and jupiter here 😄

We are annoyed/upset and we are giving you the opportunity to show us how sorry you are. We aren't confrontational unless we absolutely have to be and obviously we aren't there yet or we feel it's less painful to just swim away, because we foresee losing this battle in the future. We won't tell you what you've done wrong, even if you ask, but we would expect you to know! If they're interested in you, they will forgive you with a small gesture or even just over time with some space, but if they've lost interest and the reasoning behind it doesn't even matter anymore, because they've moved on, they won't care how sorry you are.
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Posted by southieface
Pisces currently in hiding here....

It means our feelings have been damaged and they are in need of repair. Time could heal and things may be fine OR go completely opposite if they sense the slightest amount of bullshit.
+1 for me

although ignoring is not a word I would use to describe it

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We could be ignoring, could be healing, or picturing ourselves stabbing them in the fucking face with a spork. Either way. It takes a lot to get us there, so its justified when we do.
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Its like , just get the message and move on....please, lifes too short"

I love love alone time, hear that? Total peace and quiet, beautiful!!

We don't ignore people on purpose, just those who bring us down, or try to tell us how we should be and what to do as if we are idiots.

I love advice, good respectful advice, given in a sincere and respectful manner, which is how I try to give it, but if someone even gives me a slight hint they disrespect me/my views/values, I cant be bothered anymore, I'm too old to keep sucking it all in now lol!
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You were draining me emotionally or someone else did.

I'm taking a break to an imaginary Water Paradise Fun Pirates and Rockets land.....where I'm spending my time talking to an imaginary you till our dispute is settled....

If you didn't get the outcome of our dispute in IRL, it's a red flag...you are unable of communicating telepatically with me...I'm sorry but your EPS sucks! Neeeeext!
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One is sure...never in my life have I gone MIA as a way to punish someone! If I dislike someone and want them out of my life...I would say so loud and clear!

To go MIA on you, you must have fallen in the in-between territory....I don't dislike you but I don't like you enough either.

It starts like that: I'm smiling reading your message but don't feel compelled to answer. I actually answer you in my mind but don't feel like writing it down.

It continues: Oops, I should have replied three days ago.....Fuck, he send me another message (which I'm too apprehensive to read). I hope we could still reconnect later adn he's not upset about it.

If ends up: Sheeeet, there have been two weeks and there are 20 UNREAD MESSAGES in my inbox, all from him! I'm scared now! He looks like a stalker to me....

Later on: I'm so relieved he gave up!
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Posted by scorp222
what does that mean? just like that, out of nowhere, no texts, no facebook messages, no answers 😢
You are screwed. She or he moved on.

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I'm going to ask the same question to you..

What if a Pisces (a guy in this case), goes quiet for several weeks with no messages, texts etc but THEN comes back as if they never went away??
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Posted by pooface222
Posted by hydorah
either we're done with you OR we're giving you an opportunity to get off your ass and initiate the communication just once before we lose interest
What if a Pisces guy goes quiet for several weeks? THEN comes back as if nothing happened?

(One of my friends is going through this but she's not on here as she doesn't use forums).

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honestly it's difficult to tell you what's up with a pisces because pisces can follow more than one mental process at the same time, even contradictory ones.

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Posted by GeminiMind
They only do it because they know that it fucks with you. If it doesn't, then they'll go cray cray. From my experience, just remind them that they aren't what they purport to be. Because they aren't.
You are an idiot who clearly doesn't know much about Pisceans.


Thank you for proving my point.

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Yes, it is well established that you are an idiot.

Glad we could solidify that.
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Posted by scorp222
what does that mean? just like that, out of nowhere, no texts, no facebook messages, no answers 😢
Are you an important person in my life, or just some "good" friend.

Sometimes i become social and try to find new friends . but if you dont intrigue me enough and i get bored i will ignore you completely. Forget you are there.

If i am depressed, I will block everyone out of my life.

If you have made me mad, and overwhelmed with emotions... possibly even sad, i will ignore you to process everything and see if you are worth my time. I will hide and not contact you.
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Depends on the length of time, Pisceans absorb alot of emotion, if they become overwhelmed it can even become physically tiring or exhaustive and they might just need some alone time to themselves to think and reflect and recharge. Usually this could take a day or so and they usually come right back if it was them and not you. Now if they really didn't want you in their lives, believe me - you would realize that if it was at least a week. My ex Pisces hated being alone, it was one of her biggest fears. They love the company of others in their usually tight knit circle of friends. My brother Pisces is like this, my ex is like this, every Pisces I've ever known is like this. If they don't consider you in their proverbial school of fish, the term 'silence can seem so loud' will be deafening if it was you and not them. At the same time, if they still want you in their life, they'll seek your attention. Just don't assume a silent treatment prematurely or aggressively provoke them during this period, many of their decisions are based on what they feel in the heart. Pushing for attention would likely rub them the wrong way. They're like free spirits, they don't want to feel that conversing with someone is some mandated obligation. Although if a week goes by and you're both really close but there's still like an awkward silence between ya. I could see maybe checking in with them but in a sympathetic way to see if everything is okay would be in order but even my current Pisces and I might have an off day or so every now and then - but patience is an absolutely appreciated virtue in this regard. But she comes around and were like peas in a pod again. If you KNOW you may have hurt them, then absolutely apologize and really mean it cause with their sixth sense, they can sense BS a world away and they aren't afraid of ejecting bad influences cause more often than not, toxic emotional baggage lifts a boulder off their shoulders when they purge it from their world. Many times my ex would phrase things about those that hurt her as being dead to her or unfriend those that enjoy hurting others.
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Posted by scorp222
what does that mean? just like that, out of nowhere, no texts, no facebook messages, no answers 😢
Are you an important person in my life, or just some "good" friend.

Sometimes i become social and try to find new friends . but if you dont intrigue me enough and i get bored i will ignore you completely. Forget you are there.

If i am depressed, I will block everyone out of my life.

If you have made me mad, and overwhelmed with emotions... possibly even sad, i will ignore you to process everything and see if you are worth my time. I will hide and not contact you.
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Unfortunately, this. Sometimes I wait for you to contact me to see if you care enough. This is at least how I used to be but I recognize that no one is a mind reader and communication - regardless of how much I want to Ice them out - is key.
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