Why do I want to have sex with her soooooooooooooo bad?

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Tell me ...is it an astrology thing?

Her chart -

Sun Pisces 28°27'

Moon Aries 8°48'

Mercury Pisces 3°12'

Venus Taurus 13°38'

Mars Capricorn 17°09'

Jupiter Taurus 2°11'

Saturn Capricorn 2°07'

Uranus Capricorn 0°55'

Neptune Capricorn 10°03'

Pluto Scorpio 12°16' R

Lilith Leo 23°41'

Asc node Pisces 23°14'

My chart -

Sun Pisces 16°28'

Moon Libra 21°31'

Mercury Aquarius 19°09'

Venus Taurus 0°27'

Mars Capricorn 9°03'

Jupiter Aries 29°38'

Saturn Capricorn 1°33'

Uranus Capricorn 0°41'

Neptune Capricorn 9°51'

Pluto Scorpio 12°27' R

Lilith Leo 22°21'

Asc node Pisces 23°13'

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

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Cos you're horny?

Or

Venus Taurus


is is venus Taurus cap mars synastry


Look at Venus conjunct Jupiter. I had mars conjunct Jupiter with an ex but it was short lived because the relationship was mostly sexual.


what does conjuct or even trine mean?
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Conjunct : they give each other a lap dance and a hot meal

Trine : they have a hot meal together. Lap dance optional

😂😂😂😂
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Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Cos you're horny?

Or

Venus Taurus


is is venus Taurus cap mars synastry


Look at Venus conjunct Jupiter. I had mars conjunct Jupiter with an ex but it was short lived because the relationship was mostly sexual.


what does conjuct or even trine mean?


Conjunct : they give each other a lap dance and a hot meal

Trine : they have a hot meal together. Lap dance optional

😂😂😂😂
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oh i love hot meals lol

venus in taurus**
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Cos you're horny?

Or

Venus Taurus


is is venus Taurus cap mars synastry


Look at Venus conjunct Jupiter. I had mars conjunct Jupiter with an ex but it was short lived because the relationship was mostly sexual.


what does conjuct or even trine mean?


meeting or passing of two or more celestial bodies at a point energies that are united and act together

If sexual energies in both your charts are united they act together ....i mean they might seem like your sexual energy and her sexual energy are more together and a part of each other than they are apart of you and her separately as individuals.

These are blended energies. They join together like drops of water and...some of your chart is ..fire or water ...or earth...so they join....fire joins fire ..earth joins earth...air joins air



And you have opposite sign moons ..THEY DON'T blend ...so it emphasizes the sexual parts that are ...well to put it metaphorically already making love on the astral planes.

Not only do you want to join her sexual energy ..you want to join your own. If your moons could blend it would ease the tension.



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lol now i'm even more confused

but grateful for the effort and the explanation
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Cos you're horny?

Or

Venus Taurus


is is venus Taurus cap mars synastry


Look at Venus conjunct Jupiter. I had mars conjunct Jupiter with an ex but it was short lived because the relationship was mostly sexual.


what does conjuct or even trine mean?


Conjunct : they give each other a lap dance and a hot meal

Trine : they have a hot meal together. Lap dance optional

😂😂😂😂


oh i love hot meals lol

venus in taurus**
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Go out for a hot meal and see if the lap dance happens.
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Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Cos you're horny?

Or

Venus Taurus


is is venus Taurus cap mars synastry


Look at Venus conjunct Jupiter. I had mars conjunct Jupiter with an ex but it was short lived because the relationship was mostly sexual.


what does conjuct or even trine mean?


Conjunct : they give each other a lap dance and a hot meal

Trine : they have a hot meal together. Lap dance optional

😂😂😂😂


oh i love hot meals lol

venus in taurus**


Go out for a hot meal and see if the lap dance happens.
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she has a bf so it's a no go

but i hope to find someone with similar placements who also makes my blood boil
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I still think it's just cos you're horny.


I don't ..otherwise she would be thinking this just about anyone.

But's why do i want to have sex with HER so bad?
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Yeah we don't actually know this. She might be. Or she might not. Plenty of variables.

It doesn't always have to be complex. It can just be simple as a person being horny.
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Cos you're horny?

Or

Venus Taurus


is is venus Taurus cap mars synastry


Look at Venus conjunct Jupiter. I had mars conjunct Jupiter with an ex but it was short lived because the relationship was mostly sexual.


what does conjuct or even trine mean?


Conjunct : they give each other a lap dance and a hot meal

Trine : they have a hot meal together. Lap dance optional

😂😂😂😂


oh i love hot meals lol

venus in taurus**


Go out for a hot meal and see if the lap dance happens.


she has a bf so it's a no go

but i hope to find someone with similar placements who also makes my blood boil
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OK then the lap dance is out.

Hot meal is still in though.
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Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Cos you're horny?

Or

Venus Taurus


is is venus Taurus cap mars synastry


Look at Venus conjunct Jupiter. I had mars conjunct Jupiter with an ex but it was short lived because the relationship was mostly sexual.


what does conjuct or even trine mean?


Conjunct : they give each other a lap dance and a hot meal

Trine : they have a hot meal together. Lap dance optional

😂😂😂😂


oh i love hot meals lol

venus in taurus**


Go out for a hot meal and see if the lap dance happens.


she has a bf so it's a no go

but i hope to find someone with similar placements who also makes my blood boil


OK then the lap dance is out.

Hot meal is still in though.
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sad

lol
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is there a trine between cappy uranus and taurus venus there? cuz that's a strong aspect let me tell you.


according to cafe astrology.com lol there is

what does that even mean?

do you have a story/ experience to share
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He's right. It's a supportive aspect. I have Uranus trine Venus (I'm Uranus) with a very close bull friend. It started out very sexual but tapered off into a very unconventional friendship.

So the sexual energy is there but it does not mean you need to act on it. You're both there to grow together, and eventually that sexual energy will develop into something more meaningful to both of you.
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Posted by Ram416

Posted by Neshama

Posted by Ram416

I still think it's just cos you're horny.


I don't ..otherwise she would be thinking this just about anyone.

But's why do i want to have sex with HER so bad?


Yeah we don't actually know this. She might be. Or she might not. Plenty of variables.

It doesn't always have to be complex. It can just be simple as a person being horny.
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noo i'm 30

and this girl remains the only person i've wanted to have sex with

met her when we were both 28.

i just saw a photo of her in the new york times today..fully clothed and texting...

aka not a sexually enticing photo

and i'm ready to go......she makes me so hot

even in the most mundane clothes..doing the most mundane things....

some say her looks her also mundane.......
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is there a trine between cappy uranus and taurus venus there? cuz that's a strong aspect let me tell you.


according to cafe astrology.com lol there is

what does that even mean?

do you have a story/ experience to share


He's right. It's a supportive aspect. I have Uranus trine Venus (I'm Uranus) with a very close bull friend. It started out very sexual but tapered off into a very unconventional friendship.

So the sexual energy is there but it does not mean you need to act on it. You're both there to grow together, and eventually that sexual energy will develop into something more meaningful to both of you.
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oh that's nice.

i still want the sex too though.

it would be good if i found someone with a similar connection.

then that friendship could be possible.

it's hard because i have only felt that way about her.
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Endless

is there a trine between cappy uranus and taurus venus there? cuz that's a strong aspect let me tell you.


according to cafe astrology.com lol there is

what does that even mean?

do you have a story/ experience to share


He's right. It's a supportive aspect. I have Uranus trine Venus (I'm Uranus) with a very close bull friend. It started out very sexual but tapered off into a very unconventional friendship.

So the sexual energy is there but it does not mean you need to act on it. You're both there to grow together, and eventually that sexual energy will develop into something more meaningful to both of you.


oh that's nice.

i still want the sex too though.

it would be good if i found someone with a similar connection.

then that friendship could be possible.

it's hard because i have only felt that way about her.
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You just need some patience and eventually you'll get there.

Finding someone else to "replace" her in the connections dept might not be a good idea over time. You're indirectly holding it against her for not giving you that connection.

It's normal to feel a certain way about someone but just know that eventually that feeling will taper off and develop into something more fruitful for both of you.

Note : I just realised I repeated my last line from my previous post lmao
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Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Endless

is there a trine between cappy uranus and taurus venus there? cuz that's a strong aspect let me tell you.


according to cafe astrology.com lol there is

what does that even mean?

do you have a story/ experience to share


He's right. It's a supportive aspect. I have Uranus trine Venus (I'm Uranus) with a very close bull friend. It started out very sexual but tapered off into a very unconventional friendship.

So the sexual energy is there but it does not mean you need to act on it. You're both there to grow together, and eventually that sexual energy will develop into something more meaningful to both of you.


oh that's nice.

i still want the sex too though.

it would be good if i found someone with a similar connection.

then that friendship could be possible.

it's hard because i have only felt that way about her.


You just need some patience and eventually you'll get there.

Finding someone else to "replace" her in the connections dept might not be a good idea over time. You're indirectly holding it against her for not giving you that connection.

It's normal to feel a certain way about someone but just know that eventually that feeling will taper off and develop into something more fruitful for both of you.

Note : I just realized I repeated my last line from my previous post lmao
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i don't feel resentful...at least not yet

more grateful that i at least had the experience to feel what others feel finally....

i think it also helps that i'm a woman who couldnt give that connection as you so put to others in the past...both men and women...so i can empathize.