Why do we piscegils get hurt so much?

Maybe its just me, but I find that I get hurt all the time...especially in relationship, dating and love. I don't like playing games although I never pursue a guy either, but if I do like them, I would respond earnestly once they confess. Is that wrong? Does it make you less appealing? Is it because I put my heart on my sleeve?

idk, I wonder if some of you feel the same way? Should we all start playing games from now on?

Lol, looks like I gotta play it right from now on huh? Damn it, why can't life be simple *roll eyes*

Lol, looks like I gotta play it right from now on huh? Damn it, why can't life be simple *roll eyes*

Posted by ianthefish
i think a lot of times people are playing themselves at their games.... they just think they are playing with the other person...

OMG this is classic, its so true.

Posted by believer
Maybe its just me, but I find that I get hurt all the time...especially in relationship, dating and love. I don't like playing games although I never pursue a guy either, but if I do like them, I would respond earnestly once they confess. Is that wrong? Does it make you less appealing? Is it because I put my heart on my sleeve?

idk, I wonder if some of you feel the same way? Should we all start playing games from now on?

us pisces gets hurt easily when we are in a relationship.
when we love, we love for real. so anythin that comes or goes, we get hurt.
you will get more used to it later on..

dont worry though, this is THE pisces.

love365 ... most times we just want confirmation that you heard. Pisces people often feel like people don't hear them. Perhaps because our words often sound so obsure that it's not obvious right away exactly what our point is. When your friend talks about her feelings, she isn't looking for an answer from you, rather, an acknowledgement that you understand where she comes from.

believer, I am both .... I get hurt easily, and I don't get hurt easily .. it depends on how much of an emotional investment I have in it.

When I was younger, I had no control over it and would just open myself wide, and allow any/every emotion of others into me. I think this is the natural Piscean state of being, we are born to be emotional vortexes, an open doorway. However, as life experiences mold us, we begin to realize that people don't understand why we are open, and they will take advantage of this and use our sensitivities as thier dumping ground.

People tend to view this as a weakness, though we clearly process it as a strength. We possess the emotional fortitude to withstand any/all emotional trauma/distress ..... that is to say, we possess this so long as it is understood by the other person that we are here to help you carry it, and not here to be dumped on, kicked like a dog for being sensitive.

People are actually that weak. Weak in that they cannot take it, and will look for poeople like us to take all their pain because they cannot.

Once you learn to turn the abusers away, rather than let them in ..... then you will not experience this kind of pain so often any longer.