Aqua F, Libra M and LDR *UPDATE*

As promised I'd be back with an update as to the situation I posted here about a month ago or so.

Last weekend I went up to my hometown and met Mr.X for the first time. It was different. Our actual "date" was nice and full of conversation. He was VERY attentive and VERY affectionate. We did not sleep together, on the advice of several people on this site and elsewhere. Of course, not to say I didn't WANT - Lord knows, I did. But I played it cool. He was much more nervous than I anticipated I guess because he is a Libra and eludes an AIR of confidence but I never realized that he had nerves about this whole meetup just as I did.

At the end of the date he dropped me off and said that he "really, really liked me." Now on a sidebar: the entire date he was definatly into me and vice versa. He told me one thing he liked about me is I always say whats on my mind. He took a phone-call during the date (I'd stepped away for a moment) and I thought he was talking to his daughter he was talking to a friend and he was saying "I'm on a date with the most BEAUTIFUL girl from Virginia" lol...so I blushed, I think. But when he said he "really really liked me" I asked him "what does that mean?" he said "I really like you, I can see you meeting my friends, my family and my kids. I feel confident that no matter where I take you...you'll always shine."

Well that was it. Then things got touchy because of some miscommunication. I wanted to see him again before I left and didn't get to. When I got back I asked him what happened and he said he figured I was spending time with my son and didn't want to intrude. He said he was waiting on me to make a "move" and I was waiting on him. Needless to say I got hot about that but he kept in contact the whole time. When I got back and told him I was slightly disappointed we didn't get to spend more time he said to me: "Sweetie I apologize to you on my behalf for the miscommunication. I am genuinely feeling you more than you know. Anything you want me to do to make it up to you...let me know".

I said "Well I just want to see you again so when can that happen?"
He said "Pick a date. I'll fly you in. Or come to you...whatever you want."

Soooooo at this point things are "good"....(continue'd)

We will be seeing each other the end of July....he's already said for me to take the lead as he prefers it this way and honestly so do I. He already considers me his girl, I asked him "So now that you've met me am I still your girl" he said "INDEEEEEDDDD!" lol, which for him means yes. I've come to realize he's very laid-back and so am I. Almost to the point that neither one of us ever "initiates" anything. And I've been reading advice and everyone's saying to follow the RULES but I decided to stop doing that and been following my heart and ever since then he's been more into me and more attentive. We don't communicate as much which is fine because we both are settled in knowing where we stand with each other and such. So my question is it OKAY NOW for us to be intimate at the end of July....lmbo!?!?

I'm just saying.....he's just THAT fine. smdh.... 🙂

As you said hun...Go with your heart 🙂

Guys reaction can be soo painfully slow and we woman start to over annaylis (anal) the situation til it drives us crazy!!!

Relax as you are and see where it takes you, End of July is 4 weeks away!