aries man and pisces women..are we together—?

ok so we have been dealing with eachother for 2 1/2 months now everything has been good but hes a huge flirt not in front of me but in general (social media)he says to me i make his life better since he was going through a rough time the past year. we talk everyday txt,phone clls, you name it..i use to not care when girls would say smart comments but then i saw that he asked a girl for her number(why) he calls me babe,baby,love etc but we never said were together or anything he said everything takes time..he does not want to rush... i fell in love with him but i dont know how he feels he buys me stuff takes me out treats me like im his girlfriend..why such flirtation and asking other girls for there number he says i shouldnt worry about them if im getting all the time and his energy...this is confusing

sounds like a player to me.

I guess I can understand why you??re confused but you fell wayyyy too soon. You barely know him. In my opinion a year is not even long enough to truly get to know someone, hell people switch up and show more and more of their true colors everyday. Anyway, he's right, if the two of you are not official and he's treating you right then you shouldn't worry about other girls. What you need to do, is keep your options open and stop putting him on a pedestal, this way you won't be so caught up in your feelings. If you??re not careful you will let your emotions get the best of you and you will start taking it out on him, which will only push him further towards the other women.
Just do your own thing. Date other guys, have fun. He told you he wants things to move slow you have no choice but to respect his honesty. If he's single he can ask for all the numbers he wants. To me all this says is he's a man that's having fun dating, and he has that right until he wants to settle down.
If you want something more solid and exclusive you can suggest it and express it to him, however I wouldn't recommend it if he already told you he likes things to move slower.
And PLEASE whatever you do, don't sleep with him until you??re his girlfriend, because judging by your post you wouldn't be able to handle having casual sex with him, while he talks to other females. So save yourself the headache and emotional rollercoaster ride, and keep your panties on lock. That is if he hasn't already got them. Aries and the bedroom? Girl bye! Lol. You think you??re in love now??_Don't do it.

Posted by smitten14
ok so we have been dealing with eachother for 2 1/2 months now everything has been good but hes a huge flirt not in front of me but in general (social media)he says to me i make his life better since he was going through a rough time the past year. we talk everyday txt,phone clls, you name it..i use to not care when girls would say smart comments but then i saw that he asked a girl for her number(why) he calls me babe,baby,love etc but we never said were together or anything he said everything takes time..he does not want to rush... i fell in love with him but i dont know how he feels he buys me stuff takes me out treats me like im his girlfriend..why such flirtation and asking other girls for there number he says i shouldnt worry about them if im getting all the time and his energy...this is confusing

Might wanna reign in that love a bit, and keep yourself in check. If he felt the same way about you, I don't think he'd be gathering other female's phone numbers. Common sense.

Posted by smitten14
ok so we have been dealing with eachother for 2 1/2 months now everything has been good but hes a huge flirt not in front of me but in general (social media)he says to me i make his life better since he was going through a rough time the past year. we talk everyday txt,phone clls, you name it..i use to not care when girls would say smart comments but then i saw that he asked a girl for her number(why) he calls me babe,baby,love etc but we never said were together or anything he said everything takes time..he does not want to rush... i fell in love with him but i dont know how he feels he buys me stuff takes me out treats me like im his girlfriend..why such flirtation and asking other girls for there number he says i shouldnt worry about them if im getting all the time and his energy...this is confusing

Anybody that ~thinks~ for one second this guy ^^^ is a player deserves a player. Nope, it's another delusional female who doesn't know THAT NO MEANS NO!!! Take responsibility for not listening and assuming this guy wants you. HE DOESN'T. It's not his fault you refuse to hear it.
unbelievable..

Hi Smitten, it seems like the two of you both want different things. Player or not a player, at least he was man enough to be truthful and tell you what is intentions are. From reading your post, I gathered that you do want more and if you continue to hang out with him the way you have been, will only grow more attached and hopeful.

You will get hurt if you continue in this path. Distancing yourself from him for a bit, until you get your emotions in check, does not mean you will lose the possibility of a future with him, but it will keep you strong. Do you, and let him do him... and spend less time with him.