I am a 20 year old Aries female who is extremely attracted to a 21 year old Cancer male. This is how the story goes... We met at a track meet in high school by him noticing my bright blue eyes and has called me "pretty eyes" ever since and that's how we met 🙂 .. Well, we talked for awhile and hung out with friends on occasion. We did live in different towns and were both busy and didn't see each other as often as i'd liked. Well, we quit talking for awhile and I moved to a different state after graduation to go to school. We ended up getting phone numbers and started texting ALOT. I told him kinda how I felt, explaining that i had a very strong attraction to him, etc ... and he told me how he felt about me, which is basically identical to how i felt. Well, I've got back home to visit a few times and have hung out with him. There's been several times where we have gone months without talking and then out of the blue either him or me will text the other first. Although, we have hardly ever talked on the phone. Which is ok with me because I don't really like talking on the phone, plus I can be more open through text. Maybe that's how he feels too, not sure. Anyway, the problem is.. I recently just got back from a visit from home and after seeing him it seems he doesn't want to talk much. Actually today I texted him and asked why he hasn't talked to me much the past few weeks and he said that it's not like he's avoiding me and that i haven't texted him either...and then asked how i was etc and then eventually just stopped texting back. As lame as all this might sound... I'm crazy about him. I would really like to know if he is into me. I will be moving back home in about 10 months and he tells me he can't wait so we can see each other all the time, but of course he only says stuff like that once in a blue moon, must be the moodiness, but not sure because in all honesty I don't know ALOT about him. I try my best to stay stand offish, because I don't want him to feel smothered by me. It's just when I see something I want, I want it RIGHT then. Any help with Cancer men with Aries woman would be greatly appreciated. This has been going on for about 2 years i suppose, but it's not like I sit around and wait for him... I actually have a man (capricorn), but this cancer guy never leaves my mind. : /
