cancer male/libra female HELP!!!

I had gotten involved with my cancer man about 2 years ago. We always had a great time, always had something to talk about...we just clicked. We got to the point that the "L" word came into play and that got things even steamier....An incident that I was unaware of happened and he cut me smooth off. went over a year without any contact with each other at all...we even work for the same company but different locations. Well the other day I had to get In contact with him concerning business....I was scared to death... my heart had been broken and I had no idea what caused it... Well he responded to me and we chatted for a while over work IM and then the next day he text me. we talked a bit about this and that and all of a sudden he told me why he cut me off a year ago. it all made sense. he told me he should have handled things differently and told me sooner. Then he goes in to saying that he has been getting really frustrated lately and confused because he thinks about me and all of our good times and wonders what it would be like for us to be together...instead of him with the girl he is engaged to. We have always had a huge spark between us but why now all of a sudden is this coming up. hes not getting married for over a year...so I kind of ruled out cold feet...is it possible he still has feelings for me? I don't want to scare him off so how do I handle this? I'm not a homewrecker but I still have feelings...what do I do?

Hmmmmm....And you really want to be re-involved with someone who just up and stopped talking to you and didn't even have the balls he was born with to MAN-UP and tell you why..and you're questioning his behavior...Why? If you two had that much chemistry as you stated, then I don't see how someone could just up and walk away WITH ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT for a whole year..especially when you all work for the same company and have ways of contacting each other on a daily basis. Is it possible that he was involved with the same girl that he is now engaged too and just couldn't tell you? You never said what incident caused him to just up and dip, but whatever the case...a whole year of no contact with someone that you supposedly love is a bit much. Had you not contacted him first, he probably still wouldn't be talking too you. However, getting involved with someone that is already engaged is a SUCH bad idea..regardless of what they maybe going through. He clearly indicated that he was engaged, so you may want to back away from that or if you so choose, proceed with caution. Seems like you already have your mind made up. Also, how would you be scaring him off is he was so excited to hear from you?