I'm a Leo woman interested in a cancer male. we met in church . My friend introduced me to him. He seem a little hesitant and shy but we still had a brief conversation and exchanged numbers. 3 days later he contacted me and we were iristable for months, we would mostly talk on the phone and text when was needed. He would send me sweet quotes and poems that would make my heart melt. He would invite me to bbqs and ask to spend time with me. but either i was to busy or he was to busy...or our plans wouldnt go through. After a couple of months continuing to know each other. I could tell he was pulling back from me. There suddenly wasnt as much calls and little texts. He totally confused me.. i would wonder if i was doing something wong. He would always reinsure me that he liked me and nothing was wrong. He said he knew heart/feelings were involved so we decided to take it slow. Suddenly there was a complete cut off of communication... MONTHS LATER...I find him on internet website. We started talking again. and exchanged numbers. I'd ask him why we lost contact and he would reply" i had switched my phone and lost contact. but i did try looking for you. we continued to text and everything is good. But im feeling a little distance from him. i'd ask him why are you so distant. He would reply" sorry i just have been really busy lately. i really like you though. He tells me he likes me alot one day and he's been thinking of me..Then the next he's not sure about his feelings. NOW... its like he texts me every 3 days but when we do its like we have nothing to talk about. I mean i know he probably isnt feeling me like before. But why does he continue to check up on me and text me.. You would think if a guy dosent like you he would not text you at all. all advice will be accepted.
cancer men...ughh so confused—?
He isn't being honest! I'm a cancerian female and when I do that it's because I'm hiding something from them...or I'm not that interested in them. Tell him to be honest, even if you have to be a little tough with him, but don't let him keeping you hanging on there, not really know what's going on.
Hi leowoman, I'm a Cancerian and when I do that it's because I'm interested in someone else, but I've gat you there for back up because I kinda like you too. It's like I don't want you to go just yet until I feel secure with the other person. However if I don't like you, I'll just cut you off completely. I would respond to your text messages but that's only because I'm being courteous. It seems as if he likes you, but he's gat something else in the works.
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