Can't take Taurus and Pisces abusive Relationship ANYMORE!

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For the last six months my Taurus friend has spoken to me non-stop about the repetitive verbal and emotional abuse she and her son suffers at the hand of a Pisces man with whom she says she loves.

He tells her - she's fat, washed out, unattractive, undesirable and un-wanted. He calls her son gay, mistreats her son, her son is acting out in school yet she won't leave. He has threatened to harm her, call her names etc. She won't leave. Her family limited contact with her in protest of this bad situation. He hates her family, her son and her...but she stays. She makes good money, and can afford a nice place...but she stays.

We will plan and plan and plan on things that she can do in order to leave the situation, but all he has to do is apologize and she's right back Stuck on Stupid again.

She is not an old friend this is a relatively new friendship that's just recently developed within the last 6 months and she refuses to go to therapy she refuses to get counsel from any type of clergy men and she refuses to go to counseling with him so what else can be done I'm finally Fed Up!
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She has to want to help herself or her kid. I don't think there's much you can do besides stick around in case she decides she wants to bail and offer support then. If it's worth it to you.

She owes it to her kid to ignore whatever type of love she feels for the guy and get out. I never could understand people who stay in these relationships when their kids are involved. Who do they love more?

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Posted by Bricks195
She has to want to help herself or her kid. I don't think there's much you can do besides stick around in case she decides she wants to bail and offer support then. If it's worth it to you.

She owes it to her kid to ignore whatever type of love she feels for the guy and get out. I never could understand people who stay in these relationships when their kids are involved. Who do they love more?



Me either, I thought Taurus women are supposed to be strong? I guess there is nothing to do but leave the friendship and let her figure it out on her own...

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According to your other thread ... you've never even met this person, she's merely an online relation.

Which means, you haven't actually witnessed any of the above that you are stating as fact.

You've been used as her dumping ground to get all of her frustrations out ...... and you're so gullible that you've believed everything she said.

You haven't even heard the truth of this situation and here you are spreading it around as if it's fact.



Neither of those two people are here to speak for themselves ..... and the only information you have is what is being fed to you when she's pissed off.



lol ..... maybe this light will go off in your head when you grow up
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The Pisces I was with turned out to be an abusive sociopath. He could be one too.

DAMN!


A narcissist on top of that. Done with Pisces men for life ?
Good. Pisces men tend to dislike people who make generalizations, so we wouldn't be for you.
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That's perfectly fine with me. My Scorpio is perfect for this Virgo right here.
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Posted by MaxPower
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Posted by MaxPower
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Posted by Goodtimes
Posted by shaymaci
The Pisces I was with turned out to be an abusive sociopath. He could be one too.

DAMN!


A narcissist on top of that. Done with Pisces men for life ?
Good. Pisces men tend to dislike people who make generalizations, so we wouldn't be for you.
That's perfectly fine with me. My Scorpio is perfect for this Virgo right here.
Good deal. I actually think Scorps and Virgos are perfect for each other.
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They really are. Too many times I see Scorps chasing Virgos. Then add my Scorpio Venus with his Virgo Venus. Well 🙂. Everyone finds someone eventually, but the Pisces I was with, was not it. He had too many untreatable mental issues. Not saying all Pisces are fucked, my son is one born 4 days before his father (the fucked one), but I personally don't want another one.