Cheaters caught! Next step... A, B or C?

Hi all,

Met a guy, talked for a week, went on a date with him, kissed/cuddled....

Before moving forward to anything committed, I noticed a few red flags which promoted me to do some research.

RESULTS: Has a girlfriend.



Ok, for those who had been duped by a guy or girl you were talking to/dating who made you think they were single but later found out they weren't..... What did you do following your discovery?

A) Ignored It and Hope He'd Choose You

B) Call him/her out on it - then end it

C) Call them out and Tell the person he/she was cheating on - then end it



Lately, I have been coming across guys who have been unfaithful. Its of course heartbreaking and disappointing, but I am at a point now that I dont tolerate infidelity in any shape or form. My most recent guy that I found out about, I ended up opting for option C...

Although I knew I was never going to see him again by my choice, I decided to tell the girl he cheated on... I felt that he shouldn't get away with doing this to the girl he is dating or duping other girls in thinking he is single. I explained to her, that I was lead to believe that he was single and that I too, had been upset about it all. She seemed more appreciative of me reaching out to her than being upset towards me. She mentioned it pretty much confirmed things about him on her end... As for them breaking up now - I dont know or care. My intentions of telling her was for awareness.

Good choice!

Especially since he has acted so possessive about you. (Which I honestly didn't like at all, but also didn't want to rain on your parade.)

Definitely B.

I got no time for trash. And I won't waste my time telling the person's gf either.

B