we was together but he stopped replying to my texts so asked him if we should end it and he said no then he tells me i ended it we went out last night with work and he was ignoring me so i started to talk to loads of other guys and he kept watching me and wouldnt leave me alone so i asked him if he wanted to get back together and he said we wasnt properly together in the first place?? so confused there isnt anyone else i asked he seems ok with me its just he wont reply or try make an effort
Confused by cancer man??

What exactly was your purpose for flirting/mingling with all those guys in front of him? If your purpose was to make him jealous, sure you may have activated the jealous side within him BUT you probably just lost major respect points in his book.
I'm sure there's more to the story, but it sounds like this guy isn't quite sure what he wants. On 1 hand he verbally tells you that he wants to be with you, BUT on the other hand he's verbally telling you that he doesn't & even worse, his actions are reflecting that of someone who has disconnected fromt he relationship altogether.
If he's not replying to any of your texts/calls, leave him be. Give him some space/room. Let him come to you. But in the meantime, make sure you're not giving off the impression that others guys have your attention & focus if HE'S really the guy you want to focus on & give all your intention to.
I'm sure there's more to the story, but it sounds like this guy isn't quite sure what he wants. On 1 hand he verbally tells you that he wants to be with you, BUT on the other hand he's verbally telling you that he doesn't & even worse, his actions are reflecting that of someone who has disconnected fromt he relationship altogether.
If he's not replying to any of your texts/calls, leave him be. Give him some space/room. Let him come to you. But in the meantime, make sure you're not giving off the impression that others guys have your attention & focus if HE'S really the guy you want to focus on & give all your intention to.

i'm confused by this... jumble of words.
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