Dating Aquarius Man who is hot / cold or am I wrong ?

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Lexie87
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7 Years

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I’ve been seeing an Aquarius guy for a couple of weeks. We have been casual but on the first date made out - hardcore. And then met up causally (his place or his work) a couple of times. Since last time I visited him at work Last Thursday (where he introduced me to all his staff, he’s the boss) he has been msging me off the hook. He has surgery last Friday (so the day after I last saw him) and was recovering at his parents’ in another town.... The 4 days he was there he has been msging, calling, etc etc. Very active and very mushy. “You’re my dream girl, let’s go on a vacation” , calling me baby, sweetheart. Sending me heart emijis. He comes back tuesday cuz he doesn’t wanna be there anymore and says he wants to see me.

We make plans to get together. His friends drives him back 3 hrs late so it doesn’t work out. He calls me that night anyway. I tell him I completely understand but that next time plz let me know sooner that we won’t link up. We proceed to chat for a while where he reschedules for Wednesday and offers to even come apartment viewing with me and my roomie, and we even flirt very heavily on the phone for a bit.

Wednesday morning he says he’s sick still from surgery and is staying home. I try to call him to say no problem and see how he is. He doesn’t answer. I text him that. He sleeps all day. And texts me a couple times.

Yesterday he says he feels better , asks some questions about me and msgs me first. I keep my response basic and say I hope he’s feeling better. Things are light and cheery But nothingn like compared to how we were talking before. it’s a complete turn around. No more flirting, no more morning texts , what is going on?

Is he sick / trying to run his business and just needs to get back into the swing ? Is he afraid to reschedule with me until he’s better cuz he knows I don’t like to be canceled on? Or is he losing interest? I don’t get how that can happen in one day. But I don’t know. I’m confused. It’s making me uncomfortable, and I really was starting to like this guy and he seemed sooooooooo into me.