Did I make a mistake opening up to cancer man?

Posted by lovingvirgo

I had a very brief encounter with a cancer man almost 15 years ago. Found each other on facebook and met up again. The chemistry was great and we just hit it off emotionally, not even physically. He was in the process of a divorce so he is definately not ready to commit.

Women are emotional killers of themselves ... seriously.

Upon meeting him again, the first thought in your mind is commitment.

It's not even about the man ... it's about the commitment. do you even care who it is that plays the role?

Does who the man is matter at all?

I realize you'd think so .... but, the truth of that quoted thought above tells it all.

Upon meeting up with him again .... commitment from him is your concern with him.

You went on to talk about how the two of you talked back and forth .... did you tell him the truth and tell him that what you think about is him commiting to you? I'd bet you failed to mention that.

You lied when you said that you didn't take what he said seriously ..... because here you are, conveying to us that you took EVERYthing he said seriously.

Yet, failed to be honest with him ..... because you didn't tell him that upon meeting up with him again after 15 years, that the first thing you processed was his availability in commiting to you.

People are so fucked up ... and they don't even know it, they think it's normal

What would you do if you were in his shoes?

Feel what ever he is going through. And then love him.