Emotionally Stable

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by ladylibra21 on Thursday, August 6, 2015 and has 4 replies.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Do any of you ever feel like you'll ever really be emotionally stable enough for a relationship? If you were unstable and got stable when did you know you felt stable? I know it sounds confusing, but I am wondering if I am just emotionally unstable or if everyone in love feels this way?

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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

I don't feel emotionally stable and I have a leo moon. I really want to feel my absolute best before I even think of a relationship. Just unfortunate that Ive never felt good enough to where Id want someone that close. At some point, I gotta wonder if Ill ever feel how I want to feel or how I think I should feel.

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@WateryGem
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I feel the same way at times, but I know it's a temporary feeling. Once, I feel secure in a relationship, I'm very stable emotionally. It's the uneasy feeling of wondering what is going on. The key is to NOT show the internal struggles/fears..

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Yep. But that's because I know when I'm ready for one.

After the end of a relationship, getting into another one is the last thing I want to do. At some point, after the healing process is done, I just know when I'm ready to date again.

However, the big question is always "are my emotions ready to handle another emotional retard who has no idea that they SHOULDN'T be dating?" :/

I think if more people would wake the fuck up and pay attention to themselves and how their emotions are REALLY faring, we'd have less "CONFUSED" popping up around here.