Experience with an **Asexual** man—

Hi all,

Is there anyone knows about "Asexual" men— What do they exactly want from women—

Just met a Leo online, he said, "The one thing I know I would love date you or be your life partner..."...and he told me that he is "asexual" (very unique)😉......but I think he should be perfect to be my platonic friend.😄

He wants everything that a normal relationship would have besides sex. A lot of people can't live without sex, so if you're one of those people, then yes, it would be best to just be friends. At least with asexual people, there is probably a lower likely hood of them leaving you for someone else or doing sneaky things behind your back. But, basically, asexual people are all for the feelings and comfort of a relationship. Love without sex.

Posted by Scenic
He wants everything that a normal relationship would have besides sex. A lot of people can't live without sex, so if you're one of those people, then yes, it would be best to just be friends. At least with asexual people, there is probably a lower likely hood of them leaving you for someone else or doing sneaky things behind your back. But, basically, asexual people are all for the feelings and comfort of a relationship. Love without sex.

I don't care about sex neither.......no big deal for me......😉

But I really wants to know if asexual man can really fall in love with a woman———?

Or he can only enjoy a company from a woman———

"But I really wants to know if asexual man can really fall in love with a woman———?"

People can fall deeply in love with people they've never had sex with. It happens everyday.

I'm with Let It Be on this one....Run for your motherfucking life.

Posted by tiki33
I'm with Let It Be on this one....Run for your motherfucking life.

What do you mean exactly——?? Are you cursing me—————??

You know what RUN means

Posted by tiki33
You know what RUN means

but RUN has so many meaning........

You mean I should "run away" from him———?

I typically don't have sense of 'direction'........which way should I RUN...———??

Robyn, there are a good amount of people who identify with being asexual. They're even starting to call it LGBTA, with asexual included. That being said, I don't think he is lying to you. And yes, he can fall in love. : )

Also, might I clarify, asexuality is a type of sexuality, so it is just as normal/abnormal as any other type of sexuality, almost.

Thank you, Elle!!! 🙂

I did research as well...there are such kind of people in the world...and I don't think they are abnormal...they look healthy as normal people...

I only know his sun is Leo...I will ask him to get his chart later.

I am always interested in something / someone "special"...I love to explore as adventures... 😉

Posted by Let*It*Be
I don't think you should run...I was agreeing with you about keeping it platonic (cause in the end that's what it would most likely be anyway).

What happened with the Cancer...it's been a long time since I've heard from you. ?

Sure, I would like to have a platonic "lover"...😛

What Cancer are you talking about— I have never talked about any Cancer here...—

Posted by Scenic
Also, might I clarify, asexuality is a type of sexuality, so it is just as normal/abnormal as any other type of sexuality, almost.

I guess their asexuality is a type of NON-sexuality... LOL

Posted by robyn808
You met online? Maybe he is a she, or just not fully functional. Or maybe he's just telling you he doesn't like sex, so you'll try to cure him.

Because not ever wanting sex... is not unique it is abnormal. Has he given you a rational reason to believe him? Like being paralyzed, or he's a Buddhist monk?

NO, he is not "she".......I saw his pictures...a handsome guy really 😉

Plus, he has the same religion as mine...NOT Buddhist...😄

Don't know what reason cause him being asexual......Never mind...

Posted by Let*It*Be
Sorry...lol I thought you were my friend I haven't heard from who shares the same screen name and thought she added the "007"

This is her profile:

http://www.dxpnet.com/users/profile.asp?username=luckystar

My apologies! :-)

Nothing need to apology here...and we can be friends as well...😄

Posted by Let*It*Be
DXP is having some serious technical issues...keep getting the error messages..

Anyway, nice to meet you lucky (I'll call you lucky2 lol)

Doesn't matter.......just a nickname I made myself......😉

Lucky how old are you?

No way a woman with experience would fall for the asexual bullshit so unless you met him on an asexual site he's probably a nut.

Posted by tiki33
Lucky how old are you?

No way a woman with experience would fall for the asexual bullshit so unless you met him on an asexual site he's probably a nut.

It doesn't matter with my age...but maybe surprise you because I am Sag...but I can be more spiritual than physical...😉

And I prefer having more "special" feelings of love... 🙂

This is first time to meet an asexual guy, I am wondering if he can bring me something "special"...😛...and there is nothing I can lose.

Posted by robyn808
....Not just run away. But he said he's looking for a platonic partner which doesn't seem to be the same a platonic friend. So there might be a need to clarify what expectations you each have concerning any relationship you may form. Sounds like a potential for a misunderstandings.

First, thank you for putting such effort to check......🙂

Actually, he wants a "life partner" without sex......and I just want "platonic friendship"...

I tried to find out how he became asexual...but he didn't answer my questions...probably that made him felt uncomfortable.

I just "guess" for those asexual......they might have experienced something (about sexuality) extremely badly that turned them to "opposite" way, so I don't think that astrology can explain it at all.

Not sure if it is worthy to meet him in person......with 3000 miles distance.

I dont understand, why would u wanna be with someone without having sex.. I mean a life partner without sex, it doesnt make any sense for me. sure sex isnt everything, but it means something.........

Posted by Prince_Pisces
Well is he rich? otherwise, i dont see the point of him, if you arent even gonna get any dick LOL!

LOL......don't know Pisces can be so

Posted by Prince_Pisces
Well is he rich? otherwise, i dont see the point of him, if you arent even gonna get any dick LOL!

LOL.........Don't know Pisces can be more realistic than idealistic.......😉

For me, I just want to know someone "unique"........and one has a platonic friend is not a bad thing...even if he is not rich...😄

His chart.......but don't know his birth-time.......

Sun is in 27 Degrees Leo
Moon is in 18 Degrees Cancer
Mercury is in 10 Degrees Virgo
Venus is in 14 Degrees Virgo
Mars is in 09 Degrees Leo
Jupiter is in 12 Degrees Virgo
Saturn is in 25 Degrees Aries
Uranus is in 27 Degrees Virgo
Neptune is in 23 Degrees Scorpio
Pluto is in 21 Degrees Virgo
N. Node is in 10 Degrees Aries

Is there any hints—

@ TaurusManUK

I am confused too...why such a handsome Leo guy can be asexual...and he still wants a woman to be his life partner...—
a mystery...

Thank you for your warning!!! I won't fall in a "trap" of seducer... 🙂

Im dating a guy right now, whos sun is in leo, venus in virgo and mars in leo. Just like your guy... This one wanna have sex all the time, everywhere !

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
Im dating a guy right now, whos sun is in leo, venus in virgo and mars in leo. Just like your guy... This one wanna have sex all the time, everywhere !

LOL...your Leo is pretty "normal"........I have a Leo neighbor who has sun in leo, venus in virgo and mars in Sag...with very much "lust" for me......😉

But this one got my attention because of his "unique"...😛

Have any of you read anything about asexuality before?
Asexual people have no desire to have sex. They're not missing anything, in their opinion, because they don't have a sex drive. Some of you guys seem to think he's crazy or not telling them truth on something because he doesn't want/need sex. Asexuality is the opposite of having a high sex drive, so let me ask you people with a high drive: why do you have sex so much? Do you do it for the heck of it, or because you always feel like you have/want to, aka, you're easily or always turned on? An asexual person would say he/she doesn't have sex, not for the heck of it, but because he/she isn't ever turned on. People who are asexual still have a feeling of 'wow, she's perfect, we connect so well and I feel like we belong together. I love the things she does and she makes me incredibly happy." It's not a choice for them to be asexual, so you can't just ask 'why would he want to be with someone, then?'. Can he not love? He just generally doesn't have any physical attractions. He's the purer form of liking someone based on personality. Not saying he wouldn't prefer to have a women with a certain type of body, but that would be a lot less likely. I don't mean to be mean, but there seems to be some constant misconceptions here.

If you really want to understand him, either ask him to explain it to him more, what he feels, or look it up. I'm not an expert in any way on this, but I seem to be understanding it a little better.

Let me give you some links I found.
This one is more an opinionated view, but focuses on the myths of what people have said in interviews about asexuality: http://findyrway.wordpress.com/2011/04/01/asexuality-myths-in-the-media/

This is another one with a few myths of asexuality:http://theophanes.hubpages.com/hub/Dispelling-Common-Myths-about-Asexuality

Also, here's an excerpt from another myths page regarding being in a relationship:
4. I met an asexual person who was in a relationship. They must have been lying about being asexual.

Relationships are more complex than simply sexual attraction. There's romantic attraction for starters — asexual people can identify as having a romantic attraction to other people (homoromantic, heteroromantic, biromantic, etc.), or not (aromantic). More importantly, there's the fact that relationships don't have to be sexual or romantic to be meaningful — friendships or familial relationships can be even more fulfilling.

Another myth is that asexual people can only form relationships amongst themselves — many asexual people enter relationships with sexual people, though the trick (as with any relationship, especially one where sex drives don't match) is communication. Some asexual people will do sexual things for their partner, or even be sexually attracted to them if they're demisexual. You have no right to know the details just because you're curious.

There is something I need to research more. Some people say asexuals can be physically attracted to others. The above excerpt mentioned they would be demisexual, which I would think is something slightly different, but I'm not sure. I would also think that they could have sex, for their partners. But again, some people say no physical attraction, some say they can.

@ Scenic,

Thank you sooooooo much for the detailed information!!! 🙂

I did some research too, and the more I learn about asexual people, the more I want to get to know him.....😉

It is super easy to find a "sex" mate, but it is very hard to find a "platonic" lover.......I will take the chance!😛

Thanks for not taking what I said the wrong way! And good. I think it'd be very problematic for most people to be in a relationship with someone who is asexual, so I wish you the best. And even if you guys just end up being friends, at least you learned something new through the experience/interaction.

Just wish he can be open to some romantic...like hugs & kisses...😉😛

Otherwise, he can only be my "brother"...😄

Well, I'm sure he would be willing to contribute at least that much to the relationship. It's not like he's afraid of physical stuff. : ) Though, I guess I should stop talking about your guy like I know him. I'm sure you'll figure everything you need to about him soon.

@ Scenic

Thank you for discussing with me 🙂 Sure, I will try to figure him out...but no hurry. 😄

@ piranhaparadiise

I always be careful while dealing with guys...since most of them are very cunning...😉

@ QLIbraMale

The word is "asexual"...I never heard about it before I met him...you can just google it.

Evolution is a beautiful thing ..... those with sexual impulses are not invited

Posted by P-Angel
Evolution is a beautiful thing ..... those with sexual impulses are not invited

+1 😄

Once I asked if he would like to be my "brother".........he replied, "...more than any thing else I would like to be your asexual boy friend other than your brother. You look very cute and nice if you would like my phone number just ask me."😛

He seems...eager to be my platonic lover...I must keep my head up the water...😉

Posted by luckystar007
Hi all,

Is there anyone knows about "Asexual" men— What do they exactly want from women—

Just met a Leo online, he said, "The one thing I know I would love date you or be your life partner..."...and he told me that he is "asexual" (very unique)😉......but I think he should be perfect to be my platonic friend.😄

you'e going to manipulate him?

WHORE

if not, then i greatly apologize, but if so, then i stand by my statement.

Posted by Sutekh

Posted by P-Angel
Evolution is a beautiful thing ..... those with sexual impulses are not invited

thats de-evolution due to the foods were eating and environment were living in. And the overall sedentary life style .

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Let me rephrase .....

Evolution is a beautiful thing .... those with sexual desires are not invited

Strange......why mine topic word "Asexual" has been changed—!!!

As my research for Asexual.......about 1% of adults are Asexual.......a little surprised...—

And there are some Asexuals got married...but they never have sex in their marriage.

The asexual Leo is real Asexual......I am sure now......he just born that way.
He said to me, "I would like you and I to be romantic couple and life partners......., I love you with all my heart...you are my asexual sweetheart..."
He thought I am asexual as him.......lol
I don't even know if I am asexual or sexual or I am in the middle...—
The point is my heart started melting for him... 😢 ...feel scared...to fall in love with him...

Posted by westside

Posted by luckystar007
Hi all,

Is there anyone knows about "Asexual" men— What do they exactly want from women—

Just met a Leo online, he said, "The one thing I know I would love date you or be your life partner..."...and he told me that he is "asexual" (very unique)😉......but I think he should be perfect to be my platonic friend.😄

you'e going to manipulate him?

WHORE

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Son of bitch.......shut your Fucking mouth!!!!!!!!!!!

He was very cunning to force me to ask for is number... I got it, but I don't want to call him...
I hate to talk on a phone...I prefer talking to him face to face...so I can read his blue eyes. 😛
Dammit!!! I can't wait to see him... 😭 🙂

He acts different than a regular Leo...he wants me to call him any time...cos he wants to know what I am doing.
I haven't called him yet. Just thinking...after I call him, he will get my number...then he may call me any time?
That would scare me a little bit. Hope he is not too bossy as a regular Leo...cos Sag needs space & freedom. 😛

wtf!?!?

lmao at this thread and the notion of taking this BS as a real state of being.

if the dude has a wee that's not the size of a toddler, he's not "asexual." he most likely is suffering from hormonal imbalance.

god you're all so freakin stupid and if it weren't for vodka, i'd stop coming to this site.

wtf!?!?

lmao at this thread and the notion of taking this BS as a real state of being.

if the dude has a wee that's not the size of a toddler, he's not "asexual." he most likely is suffering from hormonal imbalance.

god you're all so freakin stupid and if it weren't for vodka, i'd stop coming to this site.

Why don't people believe there is a kind of human beings called "Asexual"...on the earth— This is REAL.

But I am not that stupid as you thought......I can control myself very well, and I have been holding back...I love freedom above all!!! 😛

Perhaps, it is hard job for him to keep my interest going on.....lol 😉