Kav718
@Kav718
8 Years
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Extremely difficult union
It's better if you write out the placements for each of you and what your issues are specifically.
Sun Opposition Moon 1.45 167
Moon Square Uranus 0.47 -139
Venus Conjunction Uranus 1.27 114
Venus Conjunction Neptune 4.33 67
Mars Conjunction Sun 2.10 209
Mars Sextile Moon 0.30 120
Mars Conjunction Jupiter 4.04 86
Jupiter Square Uranus 1.07 -93
Saturn Opposition Mercury 1.47 -75
Saturn Square Pluto 2.09 -60
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 2.34 70
Uranus Sextile Pluto 0.26 48
Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.36 -38
Neptune Conjunction Saturn 4.49 52
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 4.06 52
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.58 26
Neptune Opposition Ascendant 2.05 -47
Pluto Trine Sun 1.51 60
Pluto Opposition Moon 3.31 -45
Pluto Trine Jupiter 0.03 60
Pluto Sextile Saturn 1.20 38
Ascendant Conjunction Pluto 2.58 70
Our biggest issues in my opinion is
1) mutual obsession with each other's bodies
2) lack of a free flowing communication when not in person
3) always separated at key moments in our relationship
4) relationship stagnant not taking off.
Thank you.
Moon Square Uranus 0.47 -139
Venus Conjunction Uranus 1.27 114
Venus Conjunction Neptune 4.33 67
Mars Conjunction Sun 2.10 209
Mars Sextile Moon 0.30 120
Mars Conjunction Jupiter 4.04 86
Jupiter Square Uranus 1.07 -93
Saturn Opposition Mercury 1.47 -75
Saturn Square Pluto 2.09 -60
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 2.34 70
Uranus Sextile Pluto 0.26 48
Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.36 -38
Neptune Conjunction Saturn 4.49 52
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 4.06 52
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.58 26
Neptune Opposition Ascendant 2.05 -47
Pluto Trine Sun 1.51 60
Pluto Opposition Moon 3.31 -45
Pluto Trine Jupiter 0.03 60
Pluto Sextile Saturn 1.20 38
Ascendant Conjunction Pluto 2.58 70
Our biggest issues in my opinion is
1) mutual obsession with each other's bodies
2) lack of a free flowing communication when not in person
3) always separated at key moments in our relationship
4) relationship stagnant not taking off.
Thank you.
Please can anyone provide some insight? Much needed 😢
Posted by KoniuchaaThere is a communication barrier between us hence why I am attempting to utilize our natal charts to figure out what's going on...
Have you talked to him about this?
Does anyone have any insight or does anyone know how to read charts on here? Or is everyone just kinda clueless like me?
Astrology is more like guidelines than anything 100% concrete. The less you rely on it, the better off you'll be in your life.
He's a human, you're a human. TALK.
He's a human, you're a human. TALK.
Posted by Kav718
Hi everyone~
This is my first post on dxpnet as I am fairly new to astrology. I am currently facing a very difficult union with someone due to external forces, inner conflict, struggle, sex, love, hate and separations at important times in our lives. In fact, the whole relationship seems fated in a very sick way. I've attached a photo of our chart and would appreciate any sort of interpretation for a lack of guidance is keeping me from obtaining closure.
Thank you.
http://imgur.com/a/jei9o
You sure do appear to be rather dxpnet savvy to be new. Like you know that we are a little more kinder to new people you have to be a regular member to know that.?
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowRight and I'm looking for guidelines. If we were on talking terms, do you really think I'd be on here? Smh.
Astrology is more like guidelines than anything 100% concrete. The less you rely on it, the better off you'll be in your life.
He's a human, you're a human. TALK.
Posted by ShrewdsharpActually, this is my first time on this site. I have no idea what you are talking about but I am starting to see how unhelpful people are on this message board. It's like they can't provide interpretations or have any intimate knowledge of being able to read charts but want to just talk shit. 🙂Posted by Kav718
Hi everyone~
This is my first post on dxpnet as I am fairly new to astrology. I am currently facing a very difficult union with someone due to external forces, inner conflict, struggle, sex, love, hate and separations at important times in our lives. In fact, the whole relationship seems fated in a very sick way. I've attached a photo of our chart and would appreciate any sort of interpretation for a lack of guidance is keeping me from obtaining closure.
Thank you.
http://imgur.com/a/jei9o
You sure do appear to be rather dxpnet savvy to be new. Like you know that we are a little more kinder to new people you have to be a regular member to know that.?
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Posted by Kav718Well, you do have a Saturn opposition Mercury, so that could be why you guys have a hard time communicating. Saturn = restriction.Posted by KoniuchaaThere is a communication barrier between us hence why I am attempting to utilize our natal charts to figure out what's going on...
Have you talked to him about this?
Does anyone have any insight or does anyone know how to read charts on here? Or is everyone just kinda clueless like me?click to expand
Posted by ShrewdsharpSounding more and more like an alt with each reply. He/she/it is all yours 😉Posted by Kav718
Hi everyone~
This is my first post on dxpnet as I am fairly new to astrology. I am currently facing a very difficult union with someone due to external forces, inner conflict, struggle, sex, love, hate and separations at important times in our lives. In fact, the whole relationship seems fated in a very sick way. I've attached a photo of our chart and would appreciate any sort of interpretation for a lack of guidance is keeping me from obtaining closure.
Thank you.
http://imgur.com/a/jei9o
You sure do appear to be rather dxpnet savvy to be new. Like you know that we are a little more kinder to new people you have to be a regular member to know that.?
click to expand
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowBs
Astrology is more like guidelines than anything 100% concrete. The less you rely on it, the better off you'll be in your life.
He's a human, you're a human. TALK.
Ultimate impasse.
Murderer Mars: I'm gonna kill you.
Taurus Mars: Go ahead... try.
Murder Mars: *stab stab*
Taurus Mars: LIVES.
Just to piss them off.
🙂
Murderer Mars: I'm gonna kill you.
Taurus Mars: Go ahead... try.
Murder Mars: *stab stab*
Taurus Mars: LIVES.
Just to piss them off.
🙂
Posted by ScorpioTruthYes. He completely shuts down and either ignores me or gets extremely hostile and angry. It is confusing and hurtful. He refuses to meet me in person but demands photos of me (my face, my body, everything). Says he doesn't want to be with me but then grills me about who I'm with and makes these crazy scenarios in his head where I am with another guy. He's not seeing anyone else so he has no reason not to see me in person. He also says he's addicted to me physically so why can't we have sex in person anymore? We used to for five years and now he's cold and mean and only wants photos.
When you say communication barrier like actual language barrier or is there just a shut down in communication? What happens, does he shut down? You shut down?
This site can be pretty helpful but your post is kind of vague which will lead to vague responses/advice.
He asks me for ten photos a day and keeps begging for more and is constantly masturbating to me but doesn't want to do it in person anymore. I'm literally so confused.
He's a Scorpio like u so maybe u can help me?
Posted by Kav718
Hi everyone~
This is my first post on dxpnet as I am fairly new to astrology. I am currently facing a very difficult union with someone due to external forces, inner conflict, struggle, sex, love, hate and separations at important times in our lives. In fact, the whole relationship seems fated in a very sick way. I've attached a photo of our chart and would appreciate any sort of interpretation for a lack of guidance is keeping me from obtaining closure.
Thank you.
http://imgur.com/a/jei9o
Oh dude you'll fit right in, you may be among the most knowledgeable here.
Posted by Kav718You come here with dumb problem 'I can't communicate and obsessed over his body'Posted by ShrewdsharpActually, this is my first time on this site. I have no idea what you are talking about but I am starting to see how unhelpful people are on this message board. It's like they can't provide interpretations or have any intimate knowledge of being able to read charts but want to just talk shit. 🙂Posted by Kav718
Hi everyone~
This is my first post on dxpnet as I am fairly new to astrology. I am currently facing a very difficult union with someone due to external forces, inner conflict, struggle, sex, love, hate and separations at important times in our lives. In fact, the whole relationship seems fated in a very sick way. I've attached a photo of our chart and would appreciate any sort of interpretation for a lack of guidance is keeping me from obtaining closure.
Thank you.
http://imgur.com/a/jei9o
You sure do appear to be rather dxpnet savvy to be new. Like you know that we are a little more kinder to new people you have to be a regular member to know that.?
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and you hope for magic?
Maybe your obsession clogging your brains and all you good for is sex!
Basically o see this post is 'we are couple with great bodies!'
Nothing else you wanted to know or learn!
Posted by Kav718You stupid enough to send him requested photos?
He's a Scorpio like u so maybe u can help me?
No one can help you...
Seek therapy!
Posted by ScorpioTruthI really appreciated reading your posts. I don't have many people to talk to in my life because I am a bit of a loner so it was really comforting to read what you had to say. I agree with you 100% that I shouldn't give myself away like that and start respecting myself more-- which I am trying to work on starting today. I'm just going to focus on studying and reading and not focus on him. It's so hard though when I felt such a strong connection between us- a connection that is now deformed and has rotted from years of abuse and neglect.
I'm sorry I misunderstood you originally Kav.. I'm at work and confess I mostly just skimmed your post and missed the part at the end where you said you're having trouble getting closure. I didn't realize that you are trying to let go of this toxic scorp. I thought you were seeking how to work thru differences. Maybe it's something in your chart that is intrigued Bu his behavior.
Posted by Gob_ShiteThank you so much for taking the time out of your day to respond to my post in the manner I desired. This is the type of information I was seeking and I really appreciate your help. However, I think I will just move on now because it all seems kind of silly when I type it out and have strangers critique my situation.
Here are a few selected aspects you should be paying more attention to:
Sun Opposition Moon - Signifies general bonding. But a hard (or negative) aspect brings about tension (the kind associated with intense love affairs).
Moon Square Uranus - Emotional uncertainty. Not a good aspect to have.
Venus Conjunction Uranus - Revolves around short-lived infatuation and affairs. It could have been worse - it could have been a square or opposition.
Venus Conjunction Neptune - All about spiritual bonding. A conjunction is not bad but a soft (or positive) aspect would have been ideal. Someone or both of you could feel deluded.
Mars Conjunction Sun - Potential ego clashes and conflict. Perfectly workable, as no couple is perfect.
Mars Sextile Moon - Emotional attraction. This is where the fireworks may stem from. A very good aspect to have.
Jupiter Square Uranus - All about independence. A hard aspect suggests that one or both of you will feel oppressed in the relationship.
Pluto Opposition Moon - Emotional attachment. Possessiveness is the key theme here. The harder the aspect, the more intense (and unmanageable) the level of possessiveness.
Posted by ShadowcatOP posted the synastry chart link in the first post. Did you want the individual charts?Posted by Kav718
Sun Opposition Moon 1.45 167
Moon Square Uranus 0.47 -139
Venus Conjunction Uranus 1.27 114
Venus Conjunction Neptune 4.33 67
Mars Conjunction Sun 2.10 209
Mars Sextile Moon 0.30 120
Mars Conjunction Jupiter 4.04 86
Jupiter Square Uranus 1.07 -93
Saturn Opposition Mercury 1.47 -75
Saturn Square Pluto 2.09 -60
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 2.34 70
Uranus Sextile Pluto 0.26 48
Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.36 -38
Neptune Conjunction Saturn 4.49 52
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 4.06 52
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.58 26
Neptune Opposition Ascendant 2.05 -47
Pluto Trine Sun 1.51 60
Pluto Opposition Moon 3.31 -45
Pluto Trine Jupiter 0.03 60
Pluto Sextile Saturn 1.20 38
Ascendant Conjunction Pluto 2.58 70
Our biggest issues in my opinion is
1) mutual obsession with each other's bodies
2) lack of a free flowing communication when not in person
3) always separated at key moments in our relationship
4) relationship stagnant not taking off.
Thank you.
Please post the circle chart.
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Posted by Shadowcat
Can you post a circle chart from astro.com?
Yes, do you think you can help me?
Here's the circle chart : https://imgur.com/gallery/1QtYo
Posted by Blue_FroggieActually yes... my Venus is conjunct his South Node. Also, his Saturn is conjunct my North Node.
I looked at the synastry chart, without individual natals, it wasn't easy to read the orbs.
Is there a Uranus-Saturn conjunction?
Is south node on Venus?
Who is the outer person? Outer person's Saturn quintiles inner person's Venus. I would read it as desire to commit.
I wish you had posted the natals so I could read how Uranus/Venus conjunction is getting hit by your moon and from their own natal planets.
The chart doesn't have stabilising factors. Based on what I have seen from the synastry, the wish to commit is there... But there are other erratic exciting and controlling aspects... Kindness and healing is needed in this relationship to make it work.
I'm not sure how to post natals but I am:
1) July 18 1990
Born 5 AM in Seoul, Korea
and he is
2) November 20 1992
Born 6 Am in Manhasset, New York
I would love to hear what you had to say. Are south nodes and north nodes very important?
Posted by Blue_FroggieI am the blue and he is red. Does that mean I want to commit to him or he to me?
I looked at the synastry chart, without individual natals, it wasn't easy to read the orbs.
Is there a Uranus-Saturn conjunction?
Is south node on Venus?
Who is the outer person? Outer person's Saturn quintiles inner person's Venus. I would read it as desire to commit.
I wish you had posted the natals so I could read how Uranus/Venus conjunction is getting hit by your moon and from their own natal planets.
The chart doesn't have stabilising factors. Based on what I have seen from the synastry, the wish to commit is there... But there are other erratic exciting and controlling aspects... Kindness and healing is needed in this relationship to make it work.
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This is my first post on dxpnet as I am fairly new to astrology. I am currently facing a very difficult union with someone due to external forces, inner conflict, struggle, sex, love, hate and separations at important times in our lives. In fact, the whole relationship seems fated in a very sick way. I've attached a photo of our chart and would appreciate any sort of interpretation for a lack of guidance is keeping me from obtaining closure.
Thank you.
http://imgur.com/a/jei9o