Men !!! Would you date a stripper seriously ?

and no I'm not a stripper.....: just out of curiosity ....? And when I say stripper, it's only naked show, there won't be touching or sexual contacts... thoughts and experiences? Thank you gentlements

Not a dude but I'm a lesbian. And no I wouldn't.

Are you a stripper? And define "seriously". As in relationship material?

Sure. Everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping doesn't automatically make you a slut or untrustworthy in terms of fidelity.

Well,

When I was 20 and living in Melbourne, I started to see a girl and then my family decided to emigrate back to England.

This particular girl was working as prostitute. It didn't bother me at the time because I guess I knew it was not going to go anywhere and I was leaving the country.

Plus I was quite young and I guess it was exciting thing to do at the time.

So not dated a stripper but have dated a prostitute.

I doubt I could do that now.

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Are you a stripper? And define "seriously". As in relationship material?

Sure. Everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping doesn't automatically make you a slut or untrustworthy in terms of fidelity.

I agree with you and I am not a stripper.. yeh, relationship material..! And if it was for a short term period not for long term.. though how would you introduce her to your friends , what's if your male friends find out your girlfriend is a stripper?? In saying that, my exs brother dating a stripper.. they r still going strong.. she makes tons of money lol.. but I can't imagine how he would feel when she gets home every night ... you know.. the feeling

Nope, even in the fully nude "no touching" clubs a guy can still get touched. I've been propositioned before for a nominal fee and I don't even like strip clubs. I said "No" of course.

Posted by Kjk62
I'm in love with a stripper!!!

Posted by Gob_Shite
I very much doubt it but I did briefly date a Libra, who was about to embark on a career as a stripper...

And if her career was stripping ? Would you continue to date her or wife her?

Posted by WarAngel1
Nope, got real close once. It's a rough business, I don't need her to bring the myriad of issues home.

What kind of issues—

Nope.

and for all your information , I am considering becoming one for a short term, though I need to know it will b worth it , I don't want to loose a relationship potential just for money( though I need it) coz I am currently in love with this guy who I wanna b with.. and if he has issues with it deep down he prob wouldn't tell me..so far he says, as long as there's no sex, thoug based on our last convo, he just ignored the topic all together lol.. so I'm here hunting for honest answers from men's perspectives..

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I very much doubt it but I did briefly date a Libra, who was about to embark on a career as a stripper...

And if her career was stripping ? Would you continue to date her or wife her?

I may be open-minded but I'm not THAT open-minded. When it comes to sharing the enjoyment of my partner's sex appeal or body, that's a no-no.

I want it all for me...

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That's what I think too... so, wait what sign are you?

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Are you a stripper? And define "seriously". As in relationship material?

Sure. Everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping doesn't automatically make you a slut or untrustworthy in terms of fidelity.

I agree with you and I am not a stripper.. yeh, relationship material..! And if it was for a short term period not for long term.. though how would you introduce her to your friends , what's if your male friends find out your girlfriend is a stripper?? In saying that, my exs brother dating a stripper.. they r still going strong.. she makes tons of money lol.. but I can't imagine how he would feel when she gets home every night ... you know.. the feeling

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I wouldn't care. I'd be dating him because I want to be with him. If I cared about what friends/family thought of my taste in men, I'd date THEM. As I said, everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping is legal, and it's "look, don't touch" anyway.

Now, if my Virgo demigod was a prostitute..........I'd have a hard time with it. On one hand I'd try to rationalize it like "it's just sex for money, he doesn't care about them", but on the other hand I might have a hard time sharing him in any way.

I don't know, I'd have to be in that situation to know 100% certain how I'd deal with it. If there's anything I've learned where he's concerned is to NOT make any assumptions.

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Are you a stripper? And define "seriously". As in relationship material?

Sure. Everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping doesn't automatically make you a slut or untrustworthy in terms of fidelity.

I agree with you and I am not a stripper.. yeh, relationship material..! And if it was for a short term period not for long term.. though how would you introduce her to your friends , what's if your male friends find out your girlfriend is a stripper?? In saying that, my exs brother dating a stripper.. they r still going strong.. she makes tons of money lol.. but I can't imagine how he would feel when she gets home every night ... you know.. the feeling

I wouldn't care. I'd be dating him because I want to be with him. If I cared about what friends/family thought of my taste in men, I'd date THEM. As I said, everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping is legal, and it's "look, don't touch" anyway.

Now, if my Virgo demigod was a prostitute..........I'd have a hard time with it. On one hand I'd try to rationalize it like "it's just sex for money, he doesn't care about them", but on the other hand I might have a hard time sharing him in any way.

I don't know, I'd have to be in that situation to know 100% certain how I'd deal with it. If there's anything I've learned where he's concerned is to NOT make any assumptions.

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Yeh but I think it's slightly differnt when it comes to a female being a stripper than a male being one ... female is looked down for being a stripper where if men was a stripper it wouldn't be so bad..

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Are you a stripper? And define "seriously". As in relationship material?

Sure. Everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping doesn't automatically make you a slut or untrustworthy in terms of fidelity.

I agree with you and I am not a stripper.. yeh, relationship material..! And if it was for a short term period not for long term.. though how would you introduce her to your friends , what's if your male friends find out your girlfriend is a stripper?? In saying that, my exs brother dating a stripper.. they r still going strong.. she makes tons of money lol.. but I can't imagine how he would feel when she gets home every night ... you know.. the feeling

I wouldn't care. I'd be dating him because I want to be with him. If I cared about what friends/family thought of my taste in men, I'd date THEM. As I said, everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping is legal, and it's "look, don't touch" anyway.

Now, if my Virgo demigod was a prostitute..........I'd have a hard time with it. On one hand I'd try to rationalize it like "it's just sex for money, he doesn't care about them", but on the other hand I might have a hard time sharing him in any way.

I don't know, I'd have to be in that situation to know 100% certain how I'd deal with it. If there's anything I've learned where he's concerned is to NOT make any assumptions.

Yeh but I think it's slightly differnt when it comes to a female being a stripper than a male being one ... female is looked down for being a stripper where if men was a stripper it wouldn't be so bad..

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I'm gay so I can't speculate 🙂

If my best girl friend was a stripper, I still wouldn't have a problem with it. Her profession doesn't change who she is and what she means to me.

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Are you a stripper? And define "seriously". As in relationship material?

Sure. Everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping doesn't automatically make you a slut or untrustworthy in terms of fidelity.

I agree with you and I am not a stripper.. yeh, relationship material..! And if it was for a short term period not for long term.. though how would you introduce her to your friends , what's if your male friends find out your girlfriend is a stripper?? In saying that, my exs brother dating a stripper.. they r still going strong.. she makes tons of money lol.. but I can't imagine how he would feel when she gets home every night ... you know.. the feeling

thank you for your input !! X x !! i see what you mean about your friend thing..!!

I wouldn't care. I'd be dating him because I want to be with him. If I cared about what friends/family thought of my taste in men, I'd date THEM. As I said, everyone has the right to make a living. Stripping is legal, and it's "look, don't touch" anyway.

Now, if my Virgo demigod was a prostitute..........I'd have a hard time with it. On one hand I'd try to rationalize it like "it's just sex for money, he doesn't care about them", but on the other hand I might have a hard time sharing him in any way.

I don't know, I'd have to be in that situation to know 100% certain how I'd deal with it. If there's anything I've learned where he's concerned is to NOT make any assumptions.

Yeh but I think it's slightly differnt when it comes to a female being a stripper than a male being one ... female is looked down for being a stripper where if men was a stripper it wouldn't be so bad..

I'm gay so I can't speculate 🙂

If my best girl friend was a stripper, I still wouldn't have a problem with it. Her profession doesn't change who she is and what she means to me.

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I'm in love with a stripper!!!

Nice one ! Really? How's that?? Do tell

I was joking but I talked to a stripper, who was a complete homie hopper, a few years ago.

I also have feelings for a girl who we jokingly call a stripper but never luke full on dated one lol

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hahaha, i thought u were serious!!

Posted by saweetz1988
and no I'm not a stripper.....: just out of curiosity ....? And when I say stripper, it's only naked show, there won't be touching or sexual contacts... thoughts and experiences? Thank you gentlements

When I was younger, I would be open minded to it (but never did), but not now, I would not.

@saweetz1988

What did you want to say to me—

No, unless it's just a short term affair.

I don't like my woman being a wank off material for plenty of horny men. Whenever I see a couple walking by I look at the woman first but always at the guy as well next. The guy looks at me to see whether I look at his woman. lol Imagine what a man will feel like if his gf became a stripper.

I don't see nothing wrong with it.

As long as she's working towards something better and she's not sucking dicks backstage or anything. If your girl is fine, dudes are going to bust nuts to her regardless of whether or not she's on the pole.

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and no I'm not a stripper.....: just out of curiosity ....? And when I say stripper, it's only naked show, there won't be touching or sexual contacts... thoughts and experiences? Thank you gentlements

You obviously don't understand what the job of being a stripper entails. Your not only dancing on a stage your selling lap dances where there is touching. Lots of it.

What else do you call rubbing your naked tits and ass into a rando...

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and for all your information , I am considering becoming one for a short term, though I need to know it will b worth it , I don't want to loose a relationship potential just for money( though I need it) coz I am currently in love with this guy who I wanna b with.. and if he has issues with it deep down he prob wouldn't tell me..so far he says, as long as there's no sex, thoug based on our last convo, he just ignored the topic all together lol.. so I'm here hunting for honest answers from men's perspectives..

If you need money work as a bartender at the strip club. You'll still make fat tips and won't have to get naked and grind on strangers.

Take your work experience as a bartender and leave the club for a bar after 6+ months. You'll make great tips and have the separation of the bar between you and the drunk creepers.

Posted by saweetz1988
and for all your information , I am considering becoming one for a short term, though I need to know it will b worth it , I don't want to loose a relationship potential just for money( though I need it) coz I am currently in love with this guy who I wanna b with.. and if he has issues with it deep down he prob wouldn't tell me..so far he says, as long as there's no sex, thoug based on our last convo, he just ignored the topic all together lol.. so I'm here hunting for honest answers from men's perspectives..

Strippers aren't exactly long-term relationship material. It will be more difficult, albeit not impossible to get a decent man if he knows this is what you do to make ends meet. BTW, most men who frequent strip clubs are not decent men, so I would stay away from the men who come to where you work. Especially the regulars.

As someone who subconsciously pursues intense and unstable relationships, I have dated a stripper or two... or three. I know what they bring home, and one of those things they do bring home is a serious distaste for men. Surrounded by the filth of our society, you will begin to bring this to the person you date as well. It's all great and fun the first few weeks you're working, but then the smell and atmosphere and late nights start to get to you, and the offers for 'additional' services becomes tiresome.

These kind of things gives me an unspoken respect for strippers who put themselves through all that. The money is desirable at the start, but to sustain your tolerance takes a whole different kind of armor. Also keep in mind that even if you are not batcrap crazy, at the very least half of your coworkers will be.

All that said, I would very happily date another stripper. Why? Because I'm more twisted than they are, and in the past I've had no problems with strippers accepting me and all my quirks, whereas other 'normal' girls run for the hills after only scratching the surface of the rabbit hole. Thinking about all the guys and girls imagining themselves with her, and then her coming home in a tube top that reads "Daddy??" excites me like nothing else. I need lots of variety and communication and this has never been a problem with strippers.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
Not a dude, so take this with a grain of salt. If he started dating you, knowing you were a stripper, that's on him. If you wanna become a stripper, after you've started dating, that's on you and probably not gonna end well.

Yeah I think so too..... 😢 ....considering dropping that thought now...

Ok thank you all for your responses.... I have decided to drop that thought... this man means too much to me more than money... n I don't love money I just need money as it will help my whole family !!! If I become one... but I don't think I can do it... the other night we all went out including my Aqua.... n I was scared shitless there were all those drunken men surrounded us like crocodiles and I was the meat. I hated it...... I felt gross.... n he could sense that..... so I don't think I can do it after all... money has never been my main motivation in life anyway n will prob regret it after a first few weeks of it..... thank you, thesencomments were extremely helpful to hear it from men's perspectives !!