How would you feel if bf/gf still keep in touch with an ex

Hey guys!

The title said it all. Tell me how you would feel if your signifcant other still keep in touch with his or her ex. It could be because they broke up on a mutual term and decided the best route would be just to remain friends. Or it could be either your bf/ gf or their ex still have feelings and decided to remain friend in hope one day they would get back together (not sure how this scenario would come to play but I'm listing all the possibility here).

Anyway, state your sign and your significant other's astrology sign. If you are single and have a crush do chime in 😄 I am interested in hearing from all perspective. Mini background would be great.

For example, my sun sign is a cancer and my significant's sign is a taurus. In hearing that my bf still keep in touch with one of his ex, made me feel kind of worry that one day if any tension arrive between us, he would seek solace in the arm of his ex lover and be his comfort bud. Or that he would cheat on me with his ex. Now I know they depart on a mutual term, how I feel about this is its kind of iffy. Not too thrill when they hang out or talk to each other. Kind of like "sharing a bf" if you get my drift. And I don't share period. An ex is someone of the past, so I would let them go. Of course, as a cancer, I do think about people of my past once in awhile to reminisce the past, but I wouldnt keep an ex near me though. Just my two cent.

Alrighty, your turn guys.

Nah, someone better check themselves.

Unless there are children.

Posted by heliumfiasco
Unless there are children.

True, with children its a bit more complicated.

If you're SERIOUS about ANY relationship, you can't put yourself in that situation. I don't think someone can be 100% vested in you if they're still talking to an ex, someone they once cared about or loved.

Just my .02

If they have children, I would hope they stay in touch and treat each other well for the sake of their kids..I don't like the step parent vibe either so stay away

Otherwise....what is the point?

Move on

Neither of us keep in contact with ex's so its a non-issue for me. However I suppose hypothetically it would depend on the situation. Sometimes people date their friends and then decide they are better as friends and re-wind the clock. Either way I'd want to meet and hang out with them both to check out the vibe. I'd also expect transparency in regards to their interactions.

I trust you until you give me reason not too.

I have gbf's....I don't need to keep contact with ex's. They are ex's for a reason.