Guys, if you were to buy her jewelry

Like a ring (not an engagement/promise ring) for her, and she wore it on her left ring finger, what would you think of this?

...would you even buy her a RING as a present given the general connotation that giving a girl ring has?

That's a really good question!
I was given a 'promise' ring sort of thing, but I wear it on my left middle finger...
I often think about putting it on my engagement finger though.

i think it might be very risky to give a ring as a gift anyway, even if you do make it clear its not a promise...why not go for earrings or a bracelent, those are the pieces of jewlery that most girls would like to receive i believe...
alao, i always wear a ring on my left ring finger cause that's the only fingernit fitz, not because it has any romantic meaning. (it was a present from my cousin) haha 🙂

lol

I asked because I noticed my brother's girlfriend started wearing this on her left ring finger awhile back.



I finally asked him about it and he said he just got it for her because she liked it. Assuming he isn't lying, I couldn't help but wonder why he wasn't a bit weirded out by it. He tells me she wears it on that finger so male customers at work won't hit on her (lol yeah right).

I call bs on her excuse, tbh. Hell, I'm not sure if he's not lying though because he knows I'd kill him if he married her/got her knocked up.

Regardless, I thought it was a bit strange and was wondering if anyone else would find it a little odd. "I just got it for her but she wears it on her wedding finger."


...THAT DOESN'T WEIRD YOU OUT? :/

I wouldn't like it.

Smells like entrapment.

Damn, I knew they'd do that...



Sterling silver/cubic zirconia version, btw.

Posted by CapTenn
I wouldn't like it.

Smells like entrapment.

It's why I'm so protective/pissy about the situation. The entire thing has been strange from the beginning. It felt like her parents were trying to pawn her off on us and almost act like she's my brother's responsibility.

They had the audacity to ask if his gf's grandmother could come to my mother's funeral just to "support" my brother's gf. I was like dafuq? You people just keep getting weirder and weirder. :/

The entire relationship/situation has never settled right with me (or my mom) so when I saw that I was like wtf is this shit? :/

I'm protective because he's a naive idiot with these things.

Long story short, the relationship came to be under really questionable circumstances. I think she's emotionally selfish and emotionally retarded and my brother just happened to be there (she's like 24 and already divorced/seperated). She's looking for someone to take care of her, basically (so are her parents, apparently).

She's nice enough, but the entire situation has never settled right with me. He can do much better, tbh.

Probably. But like I said, just based on the answer he gave me, and assuming he isn't lying, it's still really strange that she wears it on that finger. The fact that she claims it's a way to keep guys away is just stupid. It's like dude, you don't find that a little strange?? :/

But then again, there's a LOT of strange shit in regard to her and her family. This just adds it to the list and it disturbs me that my brother just ignores it all. He lurves bewbs too much, I guess.

I am too unfamiliar with the rules regarding rings and fingers to even notice. I just buy them roses and rare chocolate/pastries.