@Agentgem24
13 Years1,000+ PostsGemini
Height preference when dating?
*likely, not killer.
6ft or more, no negotiations. Any puny man better be wearing platform heels when he approaches me & I better not see them.
I'm almost 5'3", no preference. However, most have been around 5'10/11", one was 5'9" and now I have taken a liking to someone who is 5'5". Fine by me, I don't need to stand on my toes LOL (other than kissing, I'm guessing being so close in height may work well for other "things" as well??)
My ex was 5'9 almost 5'10. But being 6'2 woman, it is nice to be able to look eye to eye with someone. LOL
Posted by feby16aqua
Posted by WaterCup
6ft or more, no negotiations. Any puny man better be wearing platform heels when he approaches me & I better not see them.
hard side 🙂
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Yeah, tall men give me HARD nipples 😛
Yeah I agree. I've dated guys that were shorter like 5"7-5"9 that were pretty built and they didn't look so short. I have seen taller guys LOOK short. Make sense?
I'm just under 5"3. I guess if I was pretty close to the same height as them in my tallest shoes I would be ok. No more than me being an inch taller. Because I have 5" heels!
I'm not sure I liked the towering over guys when in heels though. I do have to say, while I'm partial to tall men, it makes kissing hard! I would get hard core stares when I dated a slim 6"6 Virgo, even in 5" heels I was maybe slightly over his waist.
My 5"8-5"9 ex was a lot easier to get close to.
Posted by TheLioness79
My ex was 5'9 almost 5'10. But being 6'2 woman, it is nice to be able to look eye to eye with someone. LOL
Woah!! Amazon 😉 lol
Posted by Agentgem24
Yeah I agree. I've dated guys that were shorter like 5"7-5"9 that were pretty built and they didn't look so short. I have seen taller guys LOOK short. Make sense?I'm just under 5"3. I guess if I was pretty close to the same height as them in my tallest shoes I would be ok. No more than me being an inch taller. Because I have 5" heels!
I'm not sure I liked the towering over guys when in heels though. I do have to say, while I'm partial to tall men, it makes kissing hard! I would get hard core stares when I dated a slim 6"6 Virgo, even in 5" heels I was maybe slightly over his waist.
My 5"8-5"9 ex was a lot easier to get close to.
Kissing a tall man is like a workout, you're on your toes all the time...kiss him long enough & you'll have a ballerina's ass in no time.
Posted by feby16aqua
Posted by WaterCup
Posted by feby16aqua
Posted by WaterCup
6ft or more, no negotiations. Any puny man better be wearing platform heels when he approaches me & I better not see them.
hard side 🙂
Yeah, tall men give me HARD nipples 😛
love this 🙂
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LMAO @ that pic
Hah damn! Step ladder, yeaaaah
Posted by Agentgem24
Posted by TheLioness79
My ex was 5'9 almost 5'10. But being 6'2 woman, it is nice to be able to look eye to eye with someone. LOL
Woah!! Amazon 😉 lol
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Yes ma'am...and my 13 year old Aries Daughter is the same height as well. I breed thoroughbreds. LOL
13 years old?? Oh my goodness!! You should both be runway models. How tall are your parents?
My mom is 5"4, my dad 6"4 and he looks just like Robert from "Everybody Loves Raymond"
My brother is 18 and about 6"1, he's a skinny little thing. His dad is 5"11
Posted by Agentgem24
13 years old?? Oh my goodness!! You should both be runway models. How tall are your parents?My mom is 5"4, my dad 6"4 and he looks just like Robert from "Everybody Loves Raymond"
My brother is 18 and about 6"1, he's a skinny little thing. His dad is 5"11
She carries the grace and eloquence to be one.
My mom is 5'9 and my dad is 6'4. Funny though, my dad was the tallest in his family with his parents and brother not passing 5'6. My sis is 5'7. I have another daughter 14 months younger then the 13 yo and I don't think she will make it to 5'10. I have a son who is 10 and that is to young to tell, but he is tall for his age. All my kids have the same dad.
i likes my men tall 6 feet or higher!
Posted by SUT3point0
short bytches are throwing me yams all the time but we dont even look right next to each other most of the time.Personal height preference just bc it looks somewhat normal. 5'5" - 5'10" range.
where u been?
Posted by DMV
i likes my men tall 6 feet or higher!
+1 and being over 6 feet myself, they have to deal with the me still wearing my heels and not be threatened. HAHAHAHA
0.o""""
Posted by SUT3point0
Posted by DMV
Posted by SUT3point0
short bytches are throwing me yams all the time but we dont even look right next to each other most of the time.Personal height preference just bc it looks somewhat normal. 5'5" - 5'10" range.
where u been?
putting in mad work stacking bread. Missed me ? 😘
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i did! need some crude humor
im only 5'4....short
Posted by DMV
i likes my men tall 6 feet or higher!
Yes. The sky is the limit.
Posted by SUT3point0
Posted by DMV
im only 5'4....short
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shit, reaches the crotch line. thats all dat matters
Posted by SUT3point0
short bytches are throwing me yams all the time but we dont even look right next to each other most of the time.Personal height preference just bc it looks somewhat normal. 5'5" - 5'10" range.
*flips the bird* Many don't mind.
Posted by Agentgem24
Just wondering what your height preference is when dating, something I've wondered on the opinion from others for awhile! State your height, male or female, and the range you would prefer.I used to be super strict on this. I'm 5"2 but I generally didn't like dating under 5"9. My long term ex was 5"9, and the last guy I dated 6"2. Generally the range I date is between 5"11-6"4. I've gone as high as 6"6 but realized given my height....6"4 would be my max!
I think though...if I REALLY liked the guy, I would make an exception for 5"7/5"8 but that would be most killer the shortest I could see myself with under any circumstance.
Your turn!!
i dated a fish who was shorter than me. he would sit on my lap and makeout.
f'n weird
Posted by DMV
Posted by Agentgem24
Just wondering what your height preference is when dating, something I've wondered on the opinion from others for awhile! State your height, male or female, and the range you would prefer.I used to be super strict on this. I'm 5"2 but I generally didn't like dating under 5"9. My long term ex was 5"9, and the last guy I dated 6"2. Generally the range I date is between 5"11-6"4. I've gone as high as 6"6 but realized given my height....6"4 would be my max!
I think though...if I REALLY liked the guy, I would make an exception for 5"7/5"8 but that would be most killer the shortest I could see myself with under any circumstance.
Your turn!!
i dated a fish who was shorter than me. he would sit on my lap and makeout.
f'n weird
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It sucks not having the eye contact or be a head above during sex.....
my husband is taller than me, and i'm average height. Not short, not tall. But i love it that my husband is taller. I wouldnt want TOO tall, like for example a basketball player.
Yeah we all have attractions...they all seem to fit perfectly when you lock eyes with someone, you know? All the requirements were there in one look.
Ohhhh music time!
Linda Rondstandt speaks my language too!
Posted by DMV
Posted by Agentgem24
Just wondering what your height preference is when dating, something I've wondered on the opinion from others for awhile! State your height, male or female, and the range you would prefer.I used to be super strict on this. I'm 5"2 but I generally didn't like dating under 5"9. My long term ex was 5"9, and the last guy I dated 6"2. Generally the range I date is between 5"11-6"4. I've gone as high as 6"6 but realized given my height....6"4 would be my max!
I think though...if I REALLY liked the guy, I would make an exception for 5"7/5"8 but that would be most killer the shortest I could see myself with under any circumstance.
Your turn!!
i dated a fish who was shorter than me. he would sit on my lap and makeout.
f'n weird
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Cute.
Female, 5'7", but when I wear heels, I'm practically 6'.... so I like my dudes to be 6' or taller.
I typically date in the 5'0" - 5'10" range. Standing at 6'0" myself those are about my only options because anyone taller is just about guaranteed to already be with some short stack half my size.
*shrug*
You date that much shorter than you?
*nods head*
Yeah. I don't have a problem with it if they don't.
Posted by TMV
I typically date in the 5'0" - 5'10" range. Standing at 6'0" myself those are about my only options because anyone taller is just about guaranteed to already be with some short stack half my size.*shrug*
But ofcourse, we're 'stealing' your tall men 😛 But you can have the rejects 😛
LOL @ short stack half my size.
Posted by Aleese76
Posted by SugarAries
I don't understand super short girls preferring super tall men? Mostly, it just makes me mad 😢 save the tall men for the tall women. I'm 5'8" and I like to wear heels so he needs to be at least 6'1". 6'3" is ideal but hard to find.My brother is 6'7" and his ex was 5'nothing.
I agree and disagree. I agree that you should have the height that you want, but disagree that "short should be with short and tall should be with tall"...
I think I compensate for being small... I drive an SUV, no kids, just me, my phone is an S2, I'm waiting on the Note 3 to hit Sprint, I like big houses, men, etc.
I wear heels also. Anywhere from 3 - 6 inches, sometimes stilettos. That's why I like big guys. If my heels make me 5'9', I don't want my guy to be 5'6'. I'll tower over him.
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LOL. I don't mind living small, I don't even wear high heels & I'm 5ft nothing. I think I compensate by spending big & dating even bigger.
Posted by cunninglinguist
Posted by SugarAries
I don't understand super short girls preferring super tall men? Mostly, it just makes me mad 😢 save the tall men for the tall women. I'm 5'8" and I like to wear heels so he needs to be at least 6'1". 6'3" is ideal but hard to find.My brother is 6'7" and his ex was 5'nothing.
Right— These fkn shrimps can feel just as dainty next to Tiger Prawn men, rather than hogging up unnecessary height inches.
Me, I'm also 5'8, and as long as the guy's not shorter than me, idgaf!
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LOL. You'll look dainty too next to a short man if you kneel. Besides, this is ridiculous, tall men seek out short women..we're not the ones approaching them 1st. With that said, it's not our problem that most find Thumbelina more adorable/cute than the Giantess.
Posted by SugarAries
Just because you're short dont mean you're dainty lmao. Look at snooki...that bitch is at from dainty.
I said 'cute/adorable', Cunnilinguist is the one that wrote about feeling dainty or whatever.
Haha, I'm perfectly okay with taking some of those "rejects". I think it's kind of stupid that some women throw away an entire world of good options just because they wouldn't have to lug around a step ladder.
As another member and I have talked about on this issue before, tall men are common. Tall women are not. I think NYAA threw out a figure once that only 0.07% of women reach a height of 5'10" or more.
But LOL @ stealing the tall men. Short stacks are so cute when they try to talk tough. 😛
Hobbits...
*snickers*
Yeah, there's a lot of men who get insecure about women taller than they are. I've ditched more than one prospect because of that--including the shoe scenario. But there are also quite a few who don't care. Like I said before, I don't have a problem with it as long as they don't.
When I'm in my tallest shoes 5"7"-5"8ish, they have to be at least my height. So not shorter than 5"7!!
Do you think short men feel inferior?
(we short women don't - at least I don't, I like my 5'2.75" stature)
Some might develop some issues with feelings of inferiority. Generally women don't have to confront problems with being shorter in stature the same way men do because it's considered to be normal. Shorter females can still easily find mates. Shorter men on the other hand have to contend with ridicule, and worse, rejection by potential mates based on their height. There have even been experiments performed where females were likely to choose unemployed felons over wealthy, good natured and family oriented men if the criminal was tall and the more lucrative prospect, short. The only thing that was able to sway their opinions were if they were presented with the felon as being a child molester and some women still waivered.
It's really pretty irrational if you think about it.
Posted by geminicandIeUmmm, fuck off midget!
LMAO
I've heard some comments about being "too big" before too. I just shrug it off like, "you mean you're not attracted to long legs and statuesque feminine figures? That's cool, brah. Sometimes I get turned on by men too." LOL
I lament how hard it can be to find clothes and shoes in my size a lot but I don't think I would give up my height for anything. I love being able to reach stuff other people can't without help. I enjoy being strong enough to do things that smaller women can't. It's awesome being built to wear stuff that isn't meant for other types of figures. And the looks on girls' faces at the club when I come strutting in all tall and proud and their boys can't help looking--priceless.
I'm a 6' male. I've never dated or shagged any ladies taller than me. Mostly because I don't really know any. Height isn't really a factor I consider.
Looking back I've dated very close to my height, most of the girls have been around 5'10 to 5'11 and a couple actually been slightly taller.
Don't really have a preference though it just ended up like that somehow.
Weird.
Im 5'3 but I will date all heights but my preference is men over 6'0.
Posted by DMV
i likes my men tall 6 feet or higher!
me, too
its always the midgets that have these "requirements" for dudes
where are the tall women at?
Posted by Metaphysical
where are the tall women at?
Rep it up. 😉
i cant see the photo.....just a link. use the image code.
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Just wondering what your height preference is when dating, something I've wondered on the opinion from others for awhile! State your height, male or female, and the range you would prefer.
I used to be super strict on this. I'm 5"2 but I generally didn't like dating under 5"9. My long term ex was 5"9, and the last guy I dated 6"2. Generally the range I date is between 5"11-6"4. I've gone as high as 6"6 but realized given my height....6"4 would be my max!
I think though...if I REALLY liked the guy, I would make an exception for 5"7/5"8 but that would be most killer the shortest I could see myself with under any circumstance.
Your turn!!