Hey men, revealing salaries!!!

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by saweetz1988 on Friday, September 22, 2017 and has 12 replies.

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Questions for you, have you or would you volunteer information about how much you make to a woman ? Whether that will be a woman u r seeing or togheee or married? Without her asking Ofcoz... esp if it's not that much ... if you did, would you say you totally trust that women not to share those information with other? Thanks. What are your thoughts on salary talk from men to women?

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Stuff like that does not bug me at all. Don't think many people in the UK keep it a big secret.

I get GBP 33 512.00 per year which is in line with the average salary I would guess.

What does bug me is the amount I pay for travel/train ticket every year. GBP 4 936.00 per year!

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Stuff like that does not bug me at all. Don't think many people in the UK keep it a big secret.

I get GBP 33 512.00 per year which is in line with the average salary I would guess.

What does bug me is the amount I pay for travel/train ticket every year. GBP 4 936.00 per year!

It's ok to volunteer an answer. But not everyone thinks it's appropriate to ask.

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Posted by Gob_Shite
An ex once had the cheek to ask me how much money I had saved. We'd only been dating for a few weeks. Later that same month, I kicked her to the curb...

I don't understand how some people cannot see that it's rude to ask something so highly personal. Same goes for when someone I meet for the first time asks what my occupation is.

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Posted by Ram416
Posted by Gob_Shite
An ex once had the cheek to ask me how much money I had saved. We'd only been dating for a few weeks. Later that same month, I kicked her to the curb...

I don't understand how some people cannot see that it's rude to ask something so highly personal. Same goes for when someone I meet for the first time asks what my occupation is.

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Yay!!! What I do for work is pretty personal but not as bad as how much I make etc...

Yay I didn't ask him. Neve wud as he's not the type to share anthing anything at all to anyone. Esp private things. So I was pretty amazed. He asked me if I wanted to know as we were discussing financial stuff. N my income so he asked me if I wanted to know.

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Posted by ellesbelles
hell, I haven't even asked my cap. It's none of my business, tbh. As long as I'm not being asked for money.....it really doesn't matter to me.

If it starts affecting me in some way....constantly borrowing money, having issues with debts....then we are going to sit down and have a fiscal conversation.

I won't necessarily need to know what the salary is but we will certainly talk about spend and money management.

Are u guys in a relationship n not even talk about how much u guys earn? Wow!!

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Posted by Ram416
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Stuff like that does not bug me at all. Don't think many people in the UK keep it a big secret.

I get GBP 33 512.00 per year which is in line with the average salary I would guess.

What does bug me is the amount I pay for travel/train ticket every year. GBP 4 936.00 per year!

It's ok to volunteer an answer. But not everyone thinks it's appropriate to ask.

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That's true. I would never ask. Never have asked

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Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Stuff like that does not bug me at all. Don't think many people in the UK keep it a big secret.

I get GBP 33 512.00 per year which is in line with the average salary I would guess.

What does bug me is the amount I pay for travel/train ticket every year. GBP 4 936.00 per year!

thank tfl for that!

33k quid/ year is more than the average salary

graduate jobs in london pay around 27k per annum

what really bugs me is the rent in london

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Rent in London pissed me off to. That's why I moved out of London. The travel is more expensive but you pay WAY less for housing. Live in Suffolk which is 1 and half hours train each way