i try to cry but i can't...aries/pisces

are aries sun, pisces moon men usually unsure types of people—

so my guy was in a realtionship when he met me but said he wanted to end it with his girlfriend of 3 years - he said he didn't want me to be the reason he ended it that he wanted to end it for "himself" - anyway i'm thinkin he's unsure bout what he wants cus his now ex-girlfriend somehow got my email and told me he's been tellin her he loves and and she even told her b4 they broke up recently he wud never leave her for another girl - when i confronted him bout sayin that he did not deny it - he said he didn't know why he said that

see bout a month ago - i was unsure bout continuing to see him(aries) - i mean we connect really well but before i met him there was another guy(scorp) i had been talkin to but it never was allowed to go anywhere but sex - and last month scorp calls me up unaware i am seein aries and says he's bored jus wants to hang out - he kept questionin my love life - told him i was thinkin bout gettin wit aries - i told scorp that i gave him a chance but he never took it - anyway we went bk to his place - n we continued talkin and we made out a little then i told him to stop da i needed to figre out what i want- i went home

i gave it some thought n realised that i don't want to be with scorp at all - the point i'm tryin to make is that until then i was a little uncertain bout who i wanted to be with (but i need to make it clear that during the uncertain period i did not call or meet up wit the scorp)- so is my aries guy goin thru the same thing?

usually when he and i argue i get over it quickly and will answer my phone when he calls but last night he called me like 5 times - he even txt me but i didn't answer - i've never done that to him - i was mad and hurt because his ex sent me some emails bout things he said to her

also i made it clear from the get go that i'm upfront(the only thing i havn't told him bout is the scorp kiss) -and i told that i was really serious bout us and that it was important for him to make sure he knew what he wanted cus i wudn't want to kno he lied to me - i told him i despised lies from ppl i trust - see i cud understand if it was one email or he jus said that one thing to her bout not leavin her but it's more than one thing it seems...unless his ex is jus tryin to break us apart n makin up sh!+ - anyway i want to punish him by not talkin to him at all - it's the only way i feel i can get him to understand that i was serious and that this is seriously affectin me - but i heard that aries shudn't be ignored for long?? this true——

Well, I would focus on my relationship with the aries and what he says and does if I were you instead of the ex girlfriend! Aries are generally honest and it seems like this guy is by not denying what he told his ex: it may hurt but that is the price of honesty, learn to appreciate it! Seems like he is a nice guy since he told you upfront that he was in another relationship and wants to terminate it before getting involved with you! How many guys would just keep that info to themselves!
And think: it mustn't be this easy for him to dump his ex like that! they were in a relationship for three years! I doubt that he is leaving her for you (and you wouldn't want that either!) but place yourself in the girlfriend's shoes: if you had troubles with your boyfriend (sounds like they did) and then he met a girl and ends his relationship with you for her seemingly, you'd get pretty pissed and if you could sabotage them you probably would! Just back off from interfering with their break up more than you unfortunately have. THat way you will have your conscience clean and if it's possible to build a relationship with him then good...
I wouldn't mention about the kiss. I just wouldn't repeat the episode with the scorp now that you know what you want! And please, don't pout for too long or your aries may decide to return to his ex...
luck

maia

actually he didn't end his relationship wit her b4 he n i got together - he ended it wit her a month later - i kno dats bad right
anyway i called him today = n he says that it was only recently that he n i got serious and that all that stuff is from b4 we really got serious (which i guess was mid september)
anyway today he told me he didn't kno why i was even botherin wit her -that she was jus tryin to make me hate him -he said dat he didn't want her to think he had broke up with her becus of me but she seems thinks that y he broke up wit her even tho he told her it wasn't
so he got upset cus i kept bitchin - n one thing i kept askin was y he had told her all dat stuff bout how he loved her and missed her and wanted to be with her when he was talkin to me - all he kept sayn was that i wudn't understand - i asked him to explain to try n make me understand n he said again that i wudn't understand n he said he wudn't try to even explain n that i needed to jus leave that in the past -well i got a little annoyed dat he didn't wanna tell me n i asked him

"do you really kno wut u want?"
n he said "no i don't" - but i think he was annoyed at that point n he tends to say things he doens't mean when he's mad.

i said "are u sure cus if u tell me now that u seriously don't know wut u want then i will move on"
after he said "i'm serious i dunno wut i want" i hung up the phone - ready to move on

a few minutes later my phone rings n it's him - hahhahahaha VICTORY!!! see the thing is that i was really serious bout movin on (i was sittin there makin up my mind at that moment - if he hadn't called when he did, i wud have had my mind made up to move on - SOOOO...i'm gunna give this one more try

Can I say—? Back out get away if the ex has email and using it. Stalkers, everyone has had a few. When there is a stalker involved, a weak person is in place. Stalkers will stop when someone steps in (should be the aries, they are the head) she has his weakness. Just finding your email address, please. And for the cherry he was "talking" to you while he was still with her?? He'll do it to you. A relationship needs to be completely over (scab intact) before new one begins. Something more is going on and I'm sure you feel it cancer 12.😢