Is my girlfriend flirting with my bestfriend?

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Posted by Aquarius213
I notice everytime they talk to each other they both make a lot of eye contact and sometimes when he walks into a room she'll touch or lightly fix her hair.

My best friend is a Leo.

My girlfriend is a gemini.

Am i over thinking?


No you're not over thinking it. They're flirting.

You need to talk about it with her.

Anyways you've been warned about Geminis and flirting.
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Sorry but I disagree with the vast majority of people in this thread.

Sounds like they have a strong connection.
Who? Which 2?

The best friend and the girlfriend.

They are totally flirting
So he is doomed?

I think so

Nothing worse than your boo and best friend being attracted to eachother
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Walking on them when his boo is in her boo...that’s emotional turmoil!
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Sorry but I disagree with the vast majority of people in this thread.

Sounds like they have a strong connection.
Who? Which 2?

The best friend and the girlfriend.

They are totally flirting
So he is doomed?

I think so

Nothing worse than your boo and best friend being attracted to eachother

Walking on them when his boo is in her boo...that’s emotional turmoil!



Lol I think noticing they have serious chemistry would be bad enough for me

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Enough for you to do what? Dump her? Or stop communicating with your friend?
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Sorry but I disagree with the vast majority of people in this thread.

Sounds like they have a strong connection.
Who? Which 2?

The best friend and the girlfriend.

They are totally flirting
So he is doomed?

I think so

Nothing worse than your boo and best friend being attracted to eachother

Walking on them when his boo is in her boo...that’s emotional turmoil!



Lol I think noticing they have serious chemistry would be bad enough for me


Enough for you to do what? Dump her? Or stop communicating with your friend?

Suck a sticky situation. I’d get rid of the partner

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And keep a friend who are stubbing you in a back? Who knows if he will ‘like’ your next gf?
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Sorry but I disagree with the vast majority of people in this thread.

Sounds like they have a strong connection.
Who? Which 2?

The best friend and the girlfriend.

They are totally flirting
So he is doomed?

I think so

Nothing worse than your boo and best friend being attracted to eachother

Walking on them when his boo is in her boo...that’s emotional turmoil!



Lol I think noticing they have serious chemistry would be bad enough for me


Enough for you to do what? Dump her? Or stop communicating with your friend?

Suck a sticky situation. I’d get rid of the partner


And keep a friend who are stubbing you in a back? Who knows if he will ‘like’ your next gf?



Good point... is observe them both for a little while, play stupid and once everything is confirmed I’d drop them both

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Had heard stories about bride being in relashionships with best man before and after the wedding...

Always thinking...why? Apparently best man was better in bed than a groom/husband but never committed to her. So they were ‘togheter’ forever while she was planning the wedding, saying I do’s and dreaming of him in a wedding night!

There are tons of these women who were getting married just to see IF another one will rescue her before she says I do!

And I haven’t ever seen the rescue happens in real life. Just in the movies.

So...it’s a slippery slope. But dating a tree is also a shitty option! Lol
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Sorry but I disagree with the vast majority of people in this thread.

Sounds like they have a strong connection.
Who? Which 2?

The best friend and the girlfriend.

They are totally flirting
So he is doomed?

I think so

Nothing worse than your boo and best friend being attracted to eachother

Walking on them when his boo is in her boo...that’s emotional turmoil!



Lol I think noticing they have serious chemistry would be bad enough for me


Enough for you to do what? Dump her? Or stop communicating with your friend?

Suck a sticky situation. I’d get rid of the partner


And keep a friend who are stubbing you in a back? Who knows if he will ‘like’ your next gf?



Good point... is observe them both for a little while, play stupid and once everything is confirmed I’d drop them both


Had heard stories about bride being in relashionships with best man before and after the wedding...

Always thinking...why? Apparently best man was better in bed than a groom/husband but never committed to her. So they were ‘togheter’ forever while she was planning the wedding, saying I do’s and dreaming of him in a wedding night!

There are tons of these women who were getting married just to see IF another one will rescue her before she says I do!

And I haven’t ever seen the rescue happens in real life. Just in the movies.

So...it’s a slippery slope. But dating a tree is also a shitty option! Lol

Damn that is so crazy. This is why I will never settle! And I pray no one settles for me either

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And to all the people who think flirting is harmless and doesn't mean anything you are dumb.

If you're with someone you should never flirt with anyone else in any type of way not even once..

If u feel the need to flirt you should just stay single.
This is so unrealistic to me. People flirt with all kinds of people, doesn't mean there's a sexual nature to it. There's a line that one shouldn't cross of course but if you think your partner doesn't do some light flirting in the day with random people then you're living in a fantasy world.
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your girl a gemini? of course her ass is flirting. they flirt with everyone it doesn't mean shit. flirting is like breathing for them.
At least we stop with flirting...where as Scorpios tho?

:-P
I'm a good scorpio when it comes to being loyal/faithful and not toying with peoples feelings..so can't relate.
I'm a bad Gemini, I flirt when I'm single! Don't do shit when I'm with someone tho...

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I know too many gemini's that come off like they're flirting (when they're with someone) even when they're not. I know some that do flirt but it doesn't mean anything to them. I think people just need to find people they're on the same wavelength with.

I've tried dating/being with gemini's (my first girlfriend is a gemini) and even though I'm extremely intrigued by their complex nature, deep down I know there's a 95% chance I couldn't hang.
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Probably. Gemini flirts.A lot. So does Leo. It doesn't necessarily mean anything though.
I can't be with hoes man

I don't want to accidentally murder anybody in a fit of rage

No leos or Geminis for me

I will not stand for that shit
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My Gemini doesn’t flirt and he’s Leo dominant. Don’t believe the hype.
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And to all the people who think flirting is harmless and doesn't mean anything you are dumb.

If you're with someone you should never flirt with anyone else in any type of way not even once..

If u feel the need to flirt you should just stay single.
So, in your opinion, your girlfriend should not be allowed to make eye contact with anyone and touch her hair around anyone, because that is flirting.

Yes, as someone else said... Your loose definition of flirting is very unrealistic and says a lot more about you, than about her.

Good luck finding literally any woman who won't ever touch her hair or talk with eye contact. 😆
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*Finds woman

*Creates thread about her not making eye contact with his friends and being rude to them. Doesn’t she care about making an effort to get to know my friends?
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And to all the people who think flirting is harmless and doesn't mean anything you are dumb.

If you're with someone you should never flirt with anyone else in any type of way not even once..

If u feel the need to flirt you should just stay single.
This is so unrealistic to me. People flirt with all kinds of people, doesn't mean there's a sexual nature to it. There's a line that one shouldn't cross of course but if you think your partner doesn't do some light flirting in the day with random people then you're living in a fantasy world.
Flirting involves feelings. You’re not gonna flirt with an ugly person you’re not attracted to, right?

So, it is toying with peoples feelings. Especially if you’re “committed” and can’t cross a line (which eventually the other party is gonna want to do).

So much for you being a good Scorpio and not doing that to other people
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Flirting involves feelings? Not for everyone. I know way too many people that flirt simply because they're bored and it makes their day go by. Some people are like that. Wherein did I specifically say that I do that though? Cause you over here projecting your salty ass feelings on to me and all I said was that it's unrealistic to expect a person to not flirt. There's levels to it as I already stated.
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your girl a gemini? of course her ass is flirting. they flirt with everyone it doesn't mean shit. flirting is like breathing for them.
At least we stop with flirting...where as Scorpios tho?

:-P
Shut up don't even drag us in this shit, we are not cheaters and we don't flirt people who have a partner. Geminis are sluts, so don't play the victim card.
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Any one can be a cheater though but I know where you're coming from because for the most part we are fiercely into the person we're with.

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your girl a gemini? of course her ass is flirting. they flirt with everyone it doesn't mean shit. flirting is like breathing for them.
At least we stop with flirting...where as Scorpios tho?

:-P
Shut up don't even drag us in this shit, we are not cheaters and we don't flirt people who have a partner. Geminis are sluts, so don't play the victim card.


Any one can be a cheater though but I know where you're coming from because for the most part we are fiercely into the person we're with.


Maybe, but scorpios are very picky with who they date and once in a relationship, we are fixed on that one person. I don't understand people who cheat or even play with feelings, they must have some serious self-esteem issues.
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Yep we are. Too fixed on that person sometimes.



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your girl a gemini? of course her ass is flirting. they flirt with everyone it doesn't mean shit. flirting is like breathing for them.
At least we stop with flirting...where as Scorpios tho?

:-P
Shut up don't even drag us in this shit, we are not cheaters and we don't flirt people who have a partner. Geminis are sluts, so don't play the victim card.

Why don't you Cork it? I wonder why so many Scorps start to behave so defensive whenever they are called out? Oh yeah two scorps were caught cheating last year right here on Dxp LMAO

Calling us sluts while getting all the action huh? Of course put in all the hard work and attack others to pretend to keep up the "good" image...




Bitch you attacked us first. Y'all geminis can't stand taking all the blame on yourself so you have to drag others too, huh ? You perfectly know that Scorps are the least to cheat, stop lying. Geminis are in the top 3 when it comes to cheating and flirting with everybody. Hell my father was one and cheated on my mother and even cheated on the woman he cheated with my mum after. Stop being immature Geminis and take the fucking blame.

I attacked you first? Go back and read who posted first!! It was someone called @Plutonian lol

And if you wanna make a point learn to hold yourself in a way where you could be heard. Attacking a person online is easy but learn to express your opinions without attacking a person. Basic stuff...

Sucks your dad is a cheater... There are people who cheat, I have seen signs who are called loyal cheat, just that some people talk about how they were cheated for years and others let go and dont bother to mention it.

My scorp ex was a cheater... Cheated on me multiple times while I was studying and working. Didn't let me break up with him and used every power he had(he is from a filthy rich family and I was a stranger in this country) to harass me and took me years to cut him off my life. That guy broke my back because he didn't want me to dance professionally... I know another scorp who was obsessed and tormented me for years. Became my best friend's bf and threatened to hurt her if I don't meet him and crap. I dont wanna talk about the rest but yes in my personal experience, scorp guys hit on me even when they are taken. So I do know Scorps who cheat and harass others because of their so called obsession and inability to leave others in peace... Somebody made a blanket statement and I replied. But you had to lose your temper.







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Just to clarify my original post wasn't an attack on gemini's at all. Most of the ones I know are very upfront about their flirty nature and way more honest about how they are opposed to some other signs I've dealt with.
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your girl a gemini? of course her ass is flirting. they flirt with everyone it doesn't mean shit. flirting is like breathing for them.
At least we stop with flirting...where as Scorpios tho?

:-P
Shut up don't even drag us in this shit, we are not cheaters and we don't flirt people who have a partner. Geminis are sluts, so don't play the victim card.

Why don't you Cork it? I wonder why so many Scorps start to behave so defensive whenever they are called out? Oh yeah two scorps were caught cheating last year right here on Dxp LMAO

Calling us sluts while getting all the action huh? Of course put in all the hard work and attack others to pretend to keep up the "good" image...




Bitch you attacked us first. Y'all geminis can't stand taking all the blame on yourself so you have to drag others too, huh ? You perfectly know that Scorps are the least to cheat, stop lying. Geminis are in the top 3 when it comes to cheating and flirting with everybody. Hell my father was one and cheated on my mother and even cheated on the woman he cheated with my mum after. Stop being immature Geminis and take the fucking blame.

I attacked you first? Go back and read who posted first!! It was someone called @Plutonian lol

And if you wanna make a point learn to hold yourself in a way where you could be heard. Attacking a person online is easy but learn to express your opinions without attacking a person. Basic stuff...

Sucks your dad is a cheater... There are people who cheat, I have seen signs who are called loyal cheat, just that some people talk about how they were cheated for years and others let go and dont bother to mention it.

My scorp ex was a cheater... Cheated on me multiple times while I was studying and working. Didn't let me break up with him and used every power he had(he is from a filthy rich family and I was a stranger in this country) to harass me and took me years to cut him off my life. That guy broke my back because he didn't want me to dance professionally... I know another scorp who was obsessed and tormented me for years. Became my best friend's bf and threatened to hurt her if I don't meet him and crap. I dont wanna talk about the rest but yes in my personal experience, scorp guys hit on me even when they are taken. So I do know Scorps who cheat and harass others because of their so called obsession and inability to leave others in peace... Somebody made a blanket statement and I replied. But you had to lose your temper.










Just to clarify my original post wasn't an attack on gemini's at all. Most of the ones I know are very upfront about their flirty nature and way more honest about how they are opposed to some other signs I've dealt with.



Actually I knew you weren't attacking neither was I! I was being playful with you. I didn't reply to your post because that meant going back to tings that I don't wanna remember and I didn't wanna do that...

It surprises me when people blame sign for cheating... That's all



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I thought you were just being witty too. Didn't take offense.

And yea I agree. I don't assign cheating to one sign and I also want to say from my experience I've never seen a gemini hide their nature. Normally it's all out in the open so I think what happens is people expect them to change once involved and that's another topic for another day.