Leo dislikes me?

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So I have a Leo friend who pretty much likes and flirts with me a lot and I have a boyfriend of 2 years. He came to visit me at work and awkwardly, my boyfriend showed up as well. They didn't communicate with each other until I introduce them. The Leo was looking at his phone the whole time before he showed up and decides to pull the whole, "Oh look at the time, I gotta go!" He was heading to Austin and usually he stays longer. I called him after and he said he didn't know what I was talking about with the whole awkward tension. After that, he recently just got an internship and I congratulated him, nothing. Instead he talked about other things. I wished him a happy birthday, nothing, I sent him Legend of Zelda poster, nothing. Is it because he's giving me space? Pushing himself away? He knows I liked him, but I can't do anything because I'm in a committed relationship, but would like to keep it cool by being friends. Should I just leave him alone or?

Update: My boyfriend knows he likes me so during the introduction, he told me he jabbed him with, "Oh, thanks for keeping her company." and the Leo didn't say anything because I told my boyfriend on occasion, he visits me, but nothing of a big deal.
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Posted by ElfofLorien
LOLOLOL! Because there's barely any traffic but still could afford me. Are you going to answer or just want to be a bitch?
If you were my employee, I'd fire you. There's always straightening, dusting, cleaning you can do.

But, to answer. You're in a committed relationship. Why are you worried about what the Leo thinks or does. Friend or not. You're not that committed to your boyfriend if you're worried about whether the Leo likes you.

So, my answer is, it doesn't matter whether he likes you or not.
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Why are you having visitors at work? Aren't you getting paid to work instead of visit?
Yep! By sitting and waiting for customers who come in every couple of hours, but still getting paid 10 🙂 Fuuuun!
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See, there is a store locally to me where people aren't shopping in very often anymore. The reason for that is because the clerk always has her friends hanging around up there and as a customer you feel like you're interrupting a conversation and that you're not wanted. So people quit shopping there.
The store owner is losing profit daily and is about to go under. Best thing he could do is block her friends from hanging out there.
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Everyone does it. We have 16 stores and expanding to Austin. People are willing to spend 800 dollars in pet food without effort with the exception that we do study our butts off to cater to your pets with allergies, sensitive stomachs. So really, they're not losing profit, we voice for animals to go on a healthy diet. Even if I did clean, it would take less than 30. Easy job whether you like it or not. Either way, why do you care? Soo angry 🙂
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Actually I do care, because he's my friend and I'm trying to figure out what to do to keep our friendship without making it awkward. The response you gave me is invalid. Come back when you're not dictating my life just because your life sucks.
No you're ATTRACTED to him. You're full of sh*t.

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I'm attracted to a Leo Male with Cancer Moon with Virgo in Mercury and Mars placements. I met him at work and it's been 2 and a half months since we've met. He's a notorious flirt and popular with the women, but confessed to me that I'm his "favorite gal to hang around" and he likes me since we play fight, play video games if work is slow,getting really to know each other, and compliments me all the time. He loves playing with my hair, picks me up on his back, gets me food whenever I feel ill or bad, when we hug...he hugs me for a long time. Anyways, I have a boyfriend who I'm losing feelings for because during 6 months in our 2 years, he was distant and I hate having to keep pushing him to do stuff with me while the Leo was giving me everything I wanted. Though, the Leo knows I'm in a relationship and barely text me(I'm guessing he's backing off til I figure it out). He told me one time that he doesn't text me because he wants to save it for our next meeting. Yesterday I visited him with a friend at work(to see how he was) and he was happy to see me. I texted him if he wants to hang out(as friends since we already confessed) on his last day from work since he's leaving for an intern job and I have yet to get a reply. I can't tell these things and it drives me nuts because he's awesome to be around with. I want to poke at him to get a reply, but that'll make me desperate. I'm an Aries female with Scorpio Moon, Venus in Aries and Mars in Pisces. Any help is appreciated! Leos are fantastic!

Oh, he visits me and brings me food on days off when heading to Austin since it's along the way and recently kissed me on the cheek.
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Actually I do care, because he's my friend and I'm trying to figure out what to do to keep our friendship without making it awkward. The response you gave me is invalid. Come back when you're not dictating my life just because your life sucks.
No you're ATTRACTED to him. You're full of sh*t.

Posted by ElfofLorien
I'm attracted to a Leo Male with Cancer Moon with Virgo in Mercury and Mars placements. I met him at work and it's been 2 and a half months since we've met. He's a notorious flirt and popular with the women, but confessed to me that I'm his "favorite gal to hang around" and he likes me since we play fight, play video games if work is slow,getting really to know each other, and compliments me all the time. He loves playing with my hair, picks me up on his back, gets me food whenever I feel ill or bad, when we hug...he hugs me for a long time. Anyways, I have a boyfriend who I'm losing feelings for because during 6 months in our 2 years, he was distant and I hate having to keep pushing him to do stuff with me while the Leo was giving me everything I wanted. Though, the Leo knows I'm in a relationship and barely text me(I'm guessing he's backing off til I figure it out). He told me one time that he doesn't text me because he wants to save it for our next meeting. Yesterday I visited him with a friend at work(to see how he was) and he was happy to see me. I texted him if he wants to hang out(as friends since we already confessed) on his last day from work since he's leaving for an intern job and I have yet to get a reply. I can't tell these things and it drives me nuts because he's awesome to be around with. I want to poke at him to get a reply, but that'll make me desperate. I'm an Aries female with Scorpio Moon, Venus in Aries and Mars in Pisces. Any help is appreciated! Leos are fantastic!

Oh, he visits me and brings me food on days off when heading to Austin since it's along the way and recently kissed me on the cheek.

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I feel so sorry for the many scorpio placements you have on your chart. Again, very bitter, very angry. What a pity.
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So here's the VALID response.
Choose one. Dump the boyfriend or dump the Leo.
HA! Can't even say anything about my job, huh? That's what I thought. You're one angry dude. Keep fueling your anger towards me 🙂
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I give up on your job. You're just dead weight with a poor attitude. If your boss doesn't care, why should I?
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Elfoflorien are you still attracted to him ? Because if you are that makes things a tad bit more complicated.
I did in the past for reasons that are too long and relationship is fine now but I'm more concerned about my friendship. If chooses to butt me over and move on, I totally get it.
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You posted that two weeks ago. Short attention span?

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So here's the VALID response.
Choose one. Dump the boyfriend or dump the Leo.
HA! Can't even say anything about my job, huh? That's what I thought. You're one angry dude. Keep fueling your anger towards me 🙂
I give up on your job. You're just dead weight with a poor attitude. If your boss doesn't care, why should I?
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You're opinion doesn't really matter when I've been promoted a couple times during the 2 years I've been there. The TRUE fact is, I've been bringing the company a lot of cash with my nutritional knowledge whether you like it or not 🙂 "If your boss doesn't care, why should I?" You do realize that you commented my post out of negativity right? You obviously do care. So stop commenting if you don't. LOL
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Elfoflorien are you still attracted to him ? Because if you are that makes things a tad bit more complicated.
I did in the past for reasons that are too long and relationship is fine now but I'm more concerned about my friendship. If chooses to butt me over and move on, I totally get it.
You posted that two weeks ago. Short attention span?

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You can't hold someone accountable that happen 2 weeks, 2 months, 2 years, 200 years, because anything can change. NEXT!
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Elfoflorien are you still attracted to him ? Because if you are that makes things a tad bit more complicated.
I did in the past for reasons that are too long and relationship is fine now but I'm more concerned about my friendship. If chooses to butt me over and move on, I totally get it.
Dont you find it awkward being freinds with leo knowing that he wants more than friendship ?
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Eh, not really. It's only awkward if you make it to be. Besides, fire signs get over things quickly. I'm actually over him >.> Aries here!
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Why are you having visitors at work? Aren't you getting paid to work instead of visit?
Yep! By sitting and waiting for customers who come in every couple of hours, but still getting paid 10 🙂 Fuuuun!
See, there is a store locally to me where people aren't shopping in very often anymore. The reason for that is because the clerk always has her friends hanging around up there and as a customer you feel like you're interrupting a conversation and that you're not wanted. So people quit shopping there.
The store owner is losing profit daily and is about to go under. Best thing he could do is block her friends from hanging out there.
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Or... hire someone else, and just stop 'scheduling' her.

We had a girl like that where I work-- called in every other weekend (when her kid

was at her dad's), and usually once a week.

Sneaky, too.

She quit, via phone... just like that.


Seriously cannot stand that lol

I think you were looking for '... if you've got time to lean, you've got time to clean.'
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In that case im sure both of you can continue your friendship as adults with the correct boundaries in place to prevent any awkwardness
Till her boyfriend finds out the true extent of her feelings.

That would suck to be dating someone who was actively pursuing

the 'friendship' of another person. :/
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He already knows and we're still together. He acknowledged that he was getting too comfortable and barely doing anything. We talked it over and we're good now 🙂