Libra the ignorer

We have known each other for years, the opportunity did not present itself because we were always with other people. Finally time came, normal relationship 5 months learning the likes and dislikes . He just came home from work in another state in which he was gone for 3 mo 14 hr drive away. I made a trip to see him for his birthday in Oct when he was away, we talk everyday 2-3 times a day. He came home for Thanksgiving and for good at Christmas until he has to do it again. New Years Eve he flaked on me a day before we were supposed to go out of town to his brothers house. He said it turned into a family event and he thought it was going to be a couples event. 🤔.... But, I get it. So I let him know that he handled the situation poorly and I was hurt and disappointed and it didn't seem as if it mattered to him in anyway as there was no acknowledgement of how I felt about it. There was no response, I did not hear from him again until 4 days later. I even text him I left his belongings on his door .Yes I repeatedly text and called with no response for 4 days (20 communications to be exact,I know ridic) these mssgs told him how he never cared about me, only hisself how I was embarrassed I cared and how he was being a jerk. When he finally does call it is to tell me I can meet his sister to pick up some money he owes me,that it doesn't matter I have not spoke to him in 4 days and I'm a headache. That did not happen because I don't know his sister and why are you not able to handle your own business. So 2 days later after ,"so we can be done"' text from him I finally meet him he sits in his truck I come to the window and he looks straight ahead, never looks at me. Gives me the money still never looks at me. I walked away and he was driving away before I could even get in my car.
We were just talking about getting our children together to meet, and yes since this happened he still communicates with my daughter. He treated me like a stranger l've known him for years. I think I see the Libra all in him. All the way the point, of when a Libra's mind is made up, their done their done. I feel like I will never hear from him again.The Libra is the king of ignoring, I have seen it first hand.
I want him to know I handled the situation wrong because of my own insecurities and is their away for us to get back on track? What can I do to make him see I want him in my life and we can make this work?

The confused Gemini ”

Thanx I know the 20 mssgs were crazy lol in my defense it was ova a 4 day period🙄„... I get your point though. I just think I reacted that way bcs I could not believe it that he was acting so nonchalantly, but in hindsight from other advise he handled it that way bcs he knew my feelings would be hurt and did not really know how to handle it himself.
I also think I reacted that way bcs prior to him I had not dated for a year and I just wanted this to be different so badly, and it was but when I saw something that had previously gone down in a relationship it just made me infuriated.
Thanks for your insight ðŸ‘ðŸ¾