libra woman and virgo man. how to talk about issues if you are not in a relationship yet?

i am a libran and i have recently been interacting with this virgo guy(from 2-3 months) who is 2-3 years older than me. We met on a social dating site and we met and we got talking but we realling liked each other. We started meeting more often and expressing to each other that we like each other for real. He made efforts to meet me just as much as probably i made. We have gotten physical but not more than make outs. he is very sexual. when i expressed my hesitation in getting physically intimate fast he was like i can take my own time. but we end up making out.

We talk to each other almost all the time and try to meet whenever we can. lately i mentioned to him that i would like it if u asked me out and he was positive . when we met he even asked me on a date but we discussed how the timings wouldnt match as he works till late but i am still in college but i live with my parents and i cant stay out late.he understands that which i have always appreciated.

But after that he started appearing distant.in the past few 2-3 days i have been feeling that something has gone wrong. i called him on evening to let him know if he was free to meet he dint pick up nor called back from evening to night. the next day he sees my messages and doesnt reply much. he replies sometimes. in the evenimg he himself planned to meet the next day. that morning he was normally talking but he stopped replying by the afternoon. I texted him but no reply or messages etc and then i see him doing other stuff with his friends and family.

I want to give him his space and i dont mind him having his friend time or work time or family time. i in fact dont disturb him when he is out doing any of these. but hanging me in the air and not respecting my time is something that irritated me. i want to express it to him honestly but i dont know what his intentions are towards me and how he will react. should i just text him wassup or wait for him to miss me and text me? should i tell him honestly what i feel or should i let him go? what if he isnt intrested anymore and these are signs of him trying to tell me to back off.

On getting suggestions here i still dropped him a message to check up on him i got to know he fell sick. SO i wished him a get well soon and that i was checking up on him and he was like okay.

I know i dont yet have the authority to be mad at him or hold him accountable but why is he suddenly appearing so distant? i dont know if its just lust for him and now he over it because i am taking time to open up physically or there is something of his own bothering him or i have said something to throw him off. I need him to communicate it but i need to know if he will come around and not leave me hanging.

is he testing me to prove something to himself or is it possible that i was just another girl. If i am just any other girl who he will initiate the fact that he liked me and said those rozy things about taking it slow and stuff just to get into her pants? is he kinds who can lie about his feeling for me and make efforts to meet me and see me just for lust?

I want to know wwhat is on his mind but i dont know a tactful or the correct way to deal with a virgo.

What was the dating site?

My thing was always this - if u have issues even before ur relationship started, its not the right relationship. If someone wants to see u, they will, sick as a dog or not, busy as hell or not, their legs will be broken but they will see u. If he is not responding, if he is ignoring u, making up excuses etc - he is not that into u (great movie by the way - he is not that into u- i highly recommend to watch it).

I tend to subscribe to the old saying "Que Sera, Que Sera" when it comes to learning a person. With that sentiment in mind, I would allow him room to come towards you at his own pace and let your friendship/relationship naturally evolve in to whatever is meant to be.

This type of behavior is not always due to the persons "sign". This is not a "Virgo" thing. This is a human nature/behavioral thing with a touch of interpersonal dynamics. There are a plethora of reasons why a person may distance themselves and some of those reasons may have little to do with you. Allow time to reveal the facts; it always does. More importantly, try not to take his behavior personal to the point where you spend more time speculating than enjoying your life.

Be engaging when he comes to you, but don't lose yourself when he is away (or distant). Everyone benefits when a two people can co-exist with balance.

At this point, if you want to speak on the subject, just tell him that you enjoy hanging out with him and trust that he does too and if he changes his sentiment you're confident he will tell you.