Looking For Sign, Or Placements In A Real Man

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NostalgicCappy
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9 Years

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My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?

 

As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.

But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.

What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all? 

 

♑️❤️
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NostalgicCappy
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9 Years

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Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/

Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...





I haven't forgotten about you Gobby, I will be back after work to respond more.

I hope you're having a great afternoon..

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NostalgicCappy
@HeartSigh
9 Years

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Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/

Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...





I'm having mixed emotions on this response, and I'm trying to word it the right way. As you are aware, us Cap Mercs are careful with our words and want to make sure it comes out the way we want it to.

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NostalgicCappy
@HeartSigh
9 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 160 · Topics: 11
Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/

Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...





Sorry for the late response..

My commitment phobia, is partly due to the fear of getting hurt and making a mistake by giving my energy, time, giving up some of my freedom and space, etc to the wrong person. This is why, the majority of my relationships have been long distance.

I believe and always have, that there is one person for each person. The One, and if it’s the right person they will be the one that changes everything, they will make you change but in a good way to make you want to be the best person you can be. The insecurity and fear that I have will just go away, as I won’t have to question anything and I can just trust them.

This is the reason for my question, dear Gobby. I want the right person who will be compatible with me on every level, and I know what I like and want. I just haven’t found The One yet. Once I do, that commitment phobia will no longer exist. But my need for space and freedom will always be important to me. Just in the right relationship, it will be a healthy balance.

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NostalgicCappy
@HeartSigh
9 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 160 · Topics: 11
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/

Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...





Sorry for the late response..

My commitment phobia, is partly due to the fear of getting hurt and making a mistake by giving my energy, time, giving up some of my freedom and space, etc to the wrong person. This is why, the majority of my relationships have been long distance.

I believe and always have, that there is one person for each person. The One, and if it’s the right person they will be the one that changes everything, they will make you change but in a good way to make you want to be the best person you can be. The insecurity and fear that I have will just go away, as I won’t have to question anything and I can just trust them.

This is the reason for my question, dear Gobby. I want the right person who will be compatible with me on every level, and I know what I like and want. I just haven’t found The One yet. Once I do, that commitment phobia will no longer exist. But my need for space and freedom will always be important to me. Just in the right relationship, it will be a healthy balance.





The One is a complete myth. There are several people out there for everyone.

There's no such thing as a perfect person or relationship.

You want the right person but still have commitment issues. I really think you're using excuses not to get close to anyone because, psychologically and emotionally, you find it difficult to conceive such a thing.

Every romantic relationship carries a certain amount of risk. There's no safe bet.

You claim that, upon finding the One, your commitment phobia will no longer exist. But how can you really know that, when you're a bona fide commitment phobe? If your committment issues stem from a traumatic childhood, for example, it's not going to simply disappear at will.

It's your life and you're free to live it how you want. However, my concern is with the various men who you may have hurt over the years. I can't believe that none of them treated you well or didn't have honorable intentions.

Have you ever considered the amount of damage you may be inflicting on others, because of your refusal to accept that you have a problem? You can't expect people to prove themselves when you, yourself, have been guilty of continuously hurting others with your commitment issues.

How can you act like you deserve such love when you, yourself, have inflicted unnecessary pain? Do you really think karma will ignore your fickle nature?

There's no need to reply, elaborate or justify anything that you previously said, as it sounds like it's going to take you a while to work through all this. As a fellow Cappy, I'm just providing some food for thought...

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That's strange that you think you know my past or relationship history.

I think you need a reality check,

It's not worth a response to your bullshit spewing. I know that you can be a total asshole, but attacking me like that, really?

Kick Rocks

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NostalgicCappy
@HeartSigh
9 Years

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Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/

Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...





Sorry for the late response..

My commitment phobia, is partly due to the fear of getting hurt and making a mistake by giving my energy, time, giving up some of my freedom and space, etc to the wrong person. This is why, the majority of my relationships have been long distance.

I believe and always have, that there is one person for each person. The One, and if it’s the right person they will be the one that changes everything, they will make you change but in a good way to make you want to be the best person you can be. The insecurity and fear that I have will just go away, as I won’t have to question anything and I can just trust them.

This is the reason for my question, dear Gobby. I want the right person who will be compatible with me on every level, and I know what I like and want. I just haven’t found The One yet. Once I do, that commitment phobia will no longer exist. But my need for space and freedom will always be important to me. Just in the right relationship, it will be a healthy balance.





The One is a complete myth. There are several people out there for everyone.

There's no such thing as a perfect person or relationship.

You want the right person but still have commitment issues. I really think you're using excuses not to get close to anyone because, psychologically and emotionally, you find it difficult to conceive such a thing.

Every romantic relationship carries a certain amount of risk. There's no safe bet.

You claim that, upon finding the One, your commitment phobia will no longer exist. But how can you really know that, when you're a bona fide commitment phobe? If your committment issues stem from a traumatic childhood, for example, it's not going to simply disappear at will.

It's your life and you're free to live it how you want. However, my concern is with the various men who you may have hurt over the years. I can't believe that none of them treated you well or didn't have honorable intentions.

Have you ever considered the amount of damage you may be inflicting on others, because of your refusal to accept that you have a problem? You can't expect people to prove themselves when you, yourself, have been guilty of continuously hurting others with your commitment issues.

How can you act like you deserve such love when you, yourself, have inflicted unnecessary pain? Do you really think karma will ignore your fickle nature?

There's no need to reply, elaborate or justify anything that you previously said, as it sounds like it's going to take you a while to work through all this. As a fellow Cappy, I'm just providing some food for thought...





That's strange that you think you know my past or relationship history.

I think you need a reality check,

It's not worth a response to your bullshit spewing. I know that you can be a total asshole, but attacking me like that, really?

Kick Rocks



My apologies if I've offended you. I'm just interpreting things how I see them.

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More like, you disappointed me. I thought we were good.
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NostalgicCappy
@HeartSigh
9 Years

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Posted by HeartSigh
My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?

 

As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.

But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.

What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all? 

 

♑️❤️


U,should go for a scorpio with cancer moon?i heard this placement suggest a real man
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Thank you, 🙂

I will have to keep a look out for one.
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NostalgicCappy
@HeartSigh
9 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 160 · Topics: 11
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?

 

As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.

But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.

What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all? 

 

♑️❤️


U,should go for a scorpio with cancer moon?i heard this placement suggest a real man
Thank you, 🙂

I will have to keep a look out for one.


I forgot mars in scorpio and Capricorn venus combined with scorp sun and cancer moon?dont be scared if he has scorpio ascendant too

Good luck?
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Thank you Neno, you're a doll.

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NostalgicCappy
@HeartSigh
9 Years

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Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?

 

As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.

But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.

What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all? 

 

♑️❤️


U,should go for a scorpio with cancer moon?i heard this placement suggest a real man
Thank you, 🙂

I will have to keep a look out for one.


I forgot mars in scorpio and Capricorn venus combined with scorp sun and cancer moon?dont be scared if he has scorpio ascendant too

Good luck?



Thank you Neno, you're a doll.


Np??
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Did I say something wrong?

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Liriell
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8 YearsCapricorn

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Posted by HeartSigh
My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?

 

As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.

But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.

What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all? 

 

♑️❤️


Yeah, Gemini man can be like that, though that usually are detached. I'd go for one with Taurus/Cap/Cancer/Scorp moon 😄