Love Jones for Virgo Man

I met a wonderful Virgo man January of this year. Our first dates were wonderful. He was a anxious to have sex in the very beginning which aroused my cautious nature. I didn't give in to sex even though his many advances were very hard to resist. I did allow him to perform some oral sex on me because he was so persistent. I explained to him I thought it was too early in our relationship to have sex. Needless to say things cooled off a bit after I didn't give in to his advances. We talked frequently some weeks and infrequently some other weeks. One evening I called him and asked what were his thoughts concerning me as a woman. He stated he liked me for "everything". My intellect and he was attracted to me sexually and wanted a friendship (with benefits). I then expressed to him that I wanted the same thing. Shortly after that conversation we had a beautiful encounter one evening and morning. Then things went back to the infrequent and frequent contact. I initiated another phone call and asked him to come over to talk. I WAS NOT going to have the confrontational talk with him regarding us. My thoughts were to tell him how I felt about him. Well unfortunately we didn't have the talk because as soon as he arrived he received a phone call and needed to leave. He still wanted to pursue the conversation with me but I declined because knowing he had to leave made me feel rushed to spill out my words. I thought I would surely botch my words. I didn't express it to him but he knew I was upset because he had to leave. He called the next day and apologized and seemed very concern that I was upset. I then took ownership for my feelings by telling him that I should not have gotten upset over him having to leave and therefore my feelings obviously were getting too intense so I thought it best for me to retreat because I knew he only wanted a friendship. I also stated to him I did not want to disregard his wishes. He did not agree with me but honored my wishes. He only called because he needed to return something to me. When he returned it to my home that evening he restated what I said to him and also stated he did not agree with it but he respected my decision.

Unless I have been having an outer body experience since I met this Virgo man from the moments of our first date to our first intimate encounter to infrequent contact to no contact to NOW nothing. I still CANNOT get him off my mind. What do I do?

You should repost this in the Virgo forum 😉.