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Posted by notsosure
Oh and I guess to some people, who see things more clearly, they get annoyed with somebody, that does not.

The irony is, that when spoken to with that tone, you´re not gonna listen to a word they have to say.

But I think some also comment to not communicate but to feel good about themselves, release stress on random people or something.

I saw things clearly in this situation of OP's a long time ago. A lot of people on here did. It was clear as day. It was also long before she 'fell' pregnant 'accidentally on purpose'. At the time I communicated it all very nicely, similar to you, so did many others, and I even threw in some personal examples of my experiences. Some communication by PM too.

The trouble with this one was that she didn't want to hear it. She was arrogant to think she knew it all and that we were all just being mean to her so she cherry picked what she wanted to hear instead of genuinely being open to feedback and considering her situation. She continued to go deeper and deeper into this obsession (I'm a Sun/Venus Scorp - I know all about obsession!) and guess what? The guy in question hasn't changed. He's still exactly the same as he was when they first met years ago. A retarded loser who is only interested in what or who he can insert his penis into next.

In my opinion, based on the info at the time, OP had hoped to 'snare' him by becoming pregnant. OP had hoped he'd wake up one day and suddenly remember he wanted her more than just as a willing, available and endlessly open vagina. OP had hoped by having a baby it would tie them together forever so when the baby came along they could live happily ever after...

OP will deny this of course. It's ok, she blocked me ages ago thinking she was all grown up and knew everything already so she no longer sees these posts. Others will just pick on my post thinking I'm being mean. It's too inconvenient for them to think I might have been privy to OP's long and draw out back story and have a reason to post the things I have posted in the way I have posted them.

Perhaps OP is willing to listen now. I doubt it.

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Posted by AgentP911

Posted by notsosure
Oh and I guess to some people, who see things more clearly, they get annoyed with somebody, that does not.

The irony is, that when spoken to with that tone, you´re not gonna listen to a word they have to say.

But I think some also comment to not communicate but to feel good about themselves, release stress on random people or something.

I saw things clearly in this situation of OP's a long time ago. A lot of people on here did. It was clear as day. It was also long before she 'fell' pregnant 'accidentally on purpose'. At the time I communicated it all very nicely, similar to you, so did many others, and I even threw in some personal examples of my experiences. Some communication by PM too.

The trouble with this one was that she didn't want to hear it. She was arrogant to think she knew it all and that we were all just being mean to her so she cherry picked what she wanted to hear instead of genuinely being open to feedback and considering her situation. She continued to go deeper and deeper into this obsession (I'm a Sun/Venus Scorp - I know all about obsession!) and guess what? The guy in question hasn't changed. He's still exactly the same as he was when they first met years ago. A retarded loser who is only interested in what or who he can insert his penis into next.

In my opinion, based on the info at the time, OP had hoped to 'snare' him by becoming pregnant. OP had hoped he'd wake up one day and suddenly remember he wanted her more than just as a willing, available and endlessly open vagina. OP had hoped by having a baby it would tie them together forever so when the baby came along they could live happily ever after...

OP will deny this of course. It's ok, she blocked me ages ago thinking she was all grown up and knew everything already so she no longer sees these posts. Others will just pick on my post thinking I'm being mean. It's too inconvenient for them to think I might have been privy to OP's long and draw out back story and have a reason to post the things I have posted in the way I have posted them.

Perhaps OP is willing to listen now. I doubt it.

I´ve seen you give solid advice before, so it wasn´t directed specifically at you 🙂 I´m also writing this, because some people comment to me in this way, and I know that it goes in one ear and right out the other, when the tone is like that. Because it doesn´t come from a good place.

I didn´t know all that backstory, and I know that it makes one feel annoyed and frustrated.

This is also why I advice the topic creator to not try and force for example my opinion on herself, because that will last for 1 minute and then she will be back to the old way of thinking.

I think it takes so long for some of us to realize things, because it is realizing harsh truths about ourselves, and that´s not an easy task to do.

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It's ok, no dig or offence taken from you by me. I saw the post and thought I'd comment. I've had rose tinted glasses on numerous times over the years but have learnt to remove them far quicker now! I felt OP might benefit from some pearls of wisdom... Or perhaps not.

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Posted by AgentP911
Dumb arse might have finally let the penny drop in its thick head.

Tune in next week where she will be spouting more bullshit about the Scorp Sun/Sag Venus.

BIG TIME...

She really does give a bad taste to the "Taurus version of obsession"... Embarrassing really...

I think everyone knew her obsession over the last wasted 4 years with that stupid sag was just sex.... Pathetic really...

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I didn't think Venus Gem got that obsessive but perhaps that's more the Taurus side. She's worse than me with obsession. At least I move on at some point after I've woken up out of stupid and pointless obsessive phases!!