My 4 year relationship with a Leo man

I'm a cancer, been with a Leo for 4 and 1/2 years and since beginning of this year, I've considered leaving him and now I really want to.

He drinks almost everyday, I never know where he is going. He never calls if he comes home late, etc. I think this could be the behaviour of most Leos and usually when I tell him so, he will be really nice for like 2 weeks but then things go back to the way it is.

I don't know if it's normal for other couples that their partners don't tell them what time they get home, or if they are even going out? We haven't been sleeping together since months and I don't want to also.

Past few days, he gave me a hug and asked me if i'm still in a bad mood, but it's not as simple as a "bad mood". It's been countless times I told him to be more responsible for his actions.

He's a student since 2 years and so I've been the only one working. We don't share our finances but I did lend him money this year. Actually all this doesn't really matter to me, I do let him know that I fully support his studies but I need stability in a relationship where I can talk to my partner when he's home and we can have a dinner together.

We haven't even gone for a dinner since months and to add to that, I haven't been sleeping with him for 2 months now because I feel like I've completely given up on him.

However, he's still 'trying' sometimes...like last weekend, he asked me out for a trip but I said no, I'm really extremely busy with work..so he went on his own.

All i know is that this Leo of mine is great at having fun on his own all the time, and absolutely doesn't care about my life or what's going on with me.

The only thing is for me to leave means I have to move out, and I've been so busy working and finding a new place so it's not going fast....

I do feel bad for treating him nasty (not talking anymore, and when he tries to hug me , i pull away)

but I really don't know how else to deal with him.

AND if I start a "talk" with him about how I feel that my needs are not met with him as a partner, he becomes super defensive and gets angry...

so basically there is no way......

And I also know that he doesn't want me to leave....because I have suggested that we just go separately but he said no...

Then again, I know if I just move out, it would work but I can't find a place since months and it's really frustrating! I feel like I'm stuck and I really don't want to be near him anymore but I can't.

Sounds like u have decided....anyway Leos have too much pride to admit they r wrong....

Maybe as a last try, just ask him what he doesnt like abt u....and ask him if he feels theres anyth wrong between u both now....sometimes men just dont see things like we do