My Pisces left me..

Well Reason, I guess I'm not listening because I don't feel like he has offered a good reason not to meet up and because I am know that if we met in real life, it would change things. Either we would see that it doesn't work - Fine, or we see that it does! I think what we have is worth finding that out...I feel like I need it.. I love him so much, I'd rather be with him, near him, for a day or a week then never in my life.

thanks PiscesPrincess, I am trying to give him space now but it's hard of course. I'd rather just shake him and say stop worrying and over-analyzing! I hate your never ending thoughts and worries!!!!

heh but i will do my best to just leave him alone right now 😉

Posted by angeladawn

We had the connection .... everything was perfect with us.

We haven't even met yet.

I told him .... that he was the love of my life.

Actually he was never connected to you, so there was no perfection on the union. Perhaps, in your mind alone, you had a dream of it being perfect. But, you two never met in person, and a Pisces relies soley on vibes in determining a bonding connection.

You know that whole .... lives in their environment thing.

***** lights should be going off in your head about now

I told him he was crazy and that he was the love of my life.

Posted by angeladawn

It's been a month since he broke up and he only seems to be putting more distance between us.

Ummmm .. yes, that is what breaking up is = putting more distance between you the person you broke up with.

And your question about that is ...........

Posted by angeladawn

I feel like I can see what a huge mistake he's making.

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Is that right?

You haven't even met him ... yet, think you know what is right or wrong for him.

Wake up call: Even if you knew him in person, he would likely be swimming away from you if you treated him in a controlling manner. Even IF there was chemistry.

Posted by angeladawn

Well Reason, I guess I'm not listening because I don't feel like he has offered a good reason not to meet up ....

Yeah, that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ controlling behaviour right there.

Your Leoness will always rub him the wrong way. You cannot decide for other people what they should do, and if you attempt to do this to Pisces, he will put you on ignore. And not because he wants you to chase him, but, because a control freak isn't worth any value in considering, so we just ignore them.

The more you take the attitude that you aren't going to let him decide what he does in his life .... the more your feelings are going to get hurt, because I promise you, he will just ignore you for eternity if you are attempting to tell him what he is going to do.

So, for your feelings sake, it would be a prudent move to realize that the only person you can tell what to do is yourself and let him be.