My relationship with this Scorpio is maybe scarier then I imagined it would be.

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So we met through a mutual friend, what normally would have been a one time hookup has turned into a movie and possibly love and a relationship, something I don't do well surprise surprise ,Cap male admitting that.

I told her how I feel first. I tell her too much about what I feel and think. Surprise a Scorp getting info, but she makes sacrifices for me and me for her.

I have some problems with her...

She wants to hang out too much and she is manipulative to start...

My Sag Mercury gets me in trouble with her Libra Mercury and Cancer Ascendant because I'm not the most social etiquette and sensitive savy individual. I've made great improvements in that area, but my sleep and eating has been thrown off all year and it effects my moods. I'm sensitive if I don't get the right stuff because my Virgo moon and Neptune interacting with my moon and Sun strongly.

So ask questions and I'll tell more. I'm kinda ranting.
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Just having me pick her up and take her places because she senses I'm a good guy.

She's the type of person who likes to keep people close and control them. Just like now. She got stupid drunk and lost her phone out at the bars and she is asking me for help. What about her friends—? Why the the guy she has only known for three weeks— She was with them...

We went out together but I wasn't feeling it( will explain later)

I've been playing games though and being hard to read( it's the only defense I can use)

When she pissses me off I activate my Neptune and Aqua Uranus capabilities.

She notices when I'm on to her games. I'm her equal when it comes to games thus far. I'm already prepared for the worse...

She has lacks imagination too....

Her Cap moon is too strong


She hates surprises and wants to know every small detail...
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I would think with her cap moon and your cap sun sign, yall would be more in tune.

She sounds a little spoiled and used to getting her way. So are you guys just playing games with each other or have you sat her down and said, how you feel about her actions and what they say to you?

Scorpio with a cap moon, I know one of those. I've found that a hard to read combo, like lots of passion from the Scorpio but well.contained with that moon, so it's just simmering there underneath.
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
I would think with her cap moon and your cap sun sign, yall would be more in tune.

She sounds a little spoiled and used to getting her way. So are you guys just playing games with each other or have you sat her down and said, how you feel about her actions and what they say to you?

Scorpio with a cap moon, I know one of those. I've found that a hard to read combo, like lots of passion from the Scorpio but well.contained with that moon, so it's just simmering there underneath.
You are right. The problem is my Sun is second decan Cap and her moon is first decan. It's off sometimes.
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You sound like a cap man who is afraid of losing control....and she sounds like a Scorp woman who is trying to be im control.
Exactly almost. Its not losing control it's being controlled.
I've been playing games though and being hard to read( it's the only defense I can use)


This don't do that if u want drama free
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Drama is what I got. It was unavoidable.
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So we met through a mutual friend, what normally would have been a one time hookup has turned into a movie and possibly love and a relationship, something I don't do well surprise surprise ,Cap male admitting that.

I told her how I feel first. I tell her too much about what I feel and think. Surprise a Scorp getting info, but she makes sacrifices for me and me for her.

I have some problems with her...

She wants to hang out too much and she is manipulative to start...

My Sag Mercury gets me in trouble with her Libra Mercury and Cancer Ascendant because I'm not the most social etiquette and sensitive savy individual. I've made great improvements in that area, but my sleep and eating has been thrown off all year and it effects my moods. I'm sensitive if I don't get the right stuff because my Virgo moon and Neptune interacting with my moon and Sun strongly.

So ask questions and I'll tell more. I'm kinda ranting.
Tell her that you don't want to push her away but you need your space. Just make sure you come back to her to reassure her of your feelings for her, so she doesn't feel like SHE scared YOU away...

No matter how much a Scorp has social etiquette or how sensitive they are, if they care about you they'll handle your mood well. We actually enjoy moody people. It makes us feel reassured knowing you're comfortable enough to share your emotions. 🙂
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I agree with you alot...

I told her about my space...

She even admitted she was clingy...

I need balance in relationships like a Libra. She needs intense intimacy. I knew that from the beginning...

She makes me moody and tell her like everything.


I have Scorpio in my 12th house. They always make me feel funny if I'm around them too long... Its something intense. It's the complete opposite of my Gemini 7th house. I attract so many flakes that I don't know how to deal with intimacy for long periods...She makes me feel like a Scorpio too it's like another defense.... I was acting like a Scorp today the problem is I have not been able to keep it up for long periods...( Telepathic subconscious reading of thoughts etc.)
It's"s like we keep switching roles...

That is OK what is the problem is me not being able to communicate and act like a Libra in communication and social events with her. If I had distance I could be a great communicator.

I don't like hanging out all the time with anyone... Every time I get close to ANYONE I get burned...
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So we met through a mutual friend, what normally would have been a one time hookup has turned into a movie and possibly love and a relationship, something I don't do well surprise surprise ,Cap male admitting that.

I told her how I feel first. I tell her too much about what I feel and think. Surprise a Scorp getting info, but she makes sacrifices for me and me for her.

I have some problems with her...

She wants to hang out too much and she is manipulative to start...

My Sag Mercury gets me in trouble with her Libra Mercury and Cancer Ascendant because I'm not the most social etiquette and sensitive savy individual. I've made great improvements in that area, but my sleep and eating has been thrown off all year and it effects my moods. I'm sensitive if I don't get the right stuff because my Virgo moon and Neptune interacting with my moon and Sun strongly.

So ask questions and I'll tell more. I'm kinda ranting.
Tell her that you don't want to push her away but you need your space. Just make sure you come back to her to reassure her of your feelings for her, so she doesn't feel like SHE scared YOU away...

No matter how much a Scorp has social etiquette or how sensitive they are, if they care about you they'll handle your mood well. We actually enjoy moody people. It makes us feel reassured knowing you're comfortable enough to share your emotions. 🙂
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She has Cap Moon and Cancer Ascendant... She is different then you. She actually likes controlled emotions (hence Cap moon)... She doesn't like me being mad. She had mentioned multiple times that I remind her of her dad who she didn't get along with very well because he was critical and too expressive. Her Libra Mercury can't handle it either at least not yet.
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Hello there 🙂

TBH, I didn't bother to read all your complaints/worries about this Scorp (at least I'm being honest).

But here's my question for you:

As a Cap, can anyone be as unneedy, space-giving, unemotional, creative, etc as you desire—?

(I'm willing to bet that your answer will be "no").

And if the answer is no, then don't you think you need to loosen the constraints on your mathematical formula?
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Posted by SpiceNSugar
Hello there 🙂

TBH, I didn't bother to read all your complaints/worries about this Scorp (at least I'm being honest).

But here's my question for you:

As a Cap, can anyone be as unneedy, space-giving, unemotional, creative, etc as you desire—?

(I'm willing to bet that your answer will be "no").

And if the answer is no, then don't you think you need to loosen the constraints on your mathematical formula?
Spice N Sugar we meet again. It doesn't help that my moon is the Perfectionist Virgo.

She is a control freak 2.

Neptune with my sun helps me adapt and forgive though. That is what I did and the Scorp and I just had an hour convo through Facebook. Our face to face stuff is almost 50 50...
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Hello there 🙂

TBH, I didn't bother to read all your complaints/worries about this Scorp (at least I'm being honest).

But here's my question for you:

As a Cap, can anyone be as unneedy, space-giving, unemotional, creative, etc as you desire—?

(I'm willing to bet that your answer will be "no").

And if the answer is no, then don't you think you need to loosen the constraints on your mathematical formula?
Spice N Sugar we meet again. It doesn't help that my moon is the Perfectionist Virgo.

She is a control freak 2.

Neptune with my sun helps me adapt and forgive though. That is what I did and the Scorp and I just had an hour convo through Facebook. Our face to face stuff is almost 50 50...
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A word to the wise:

Pobody's Nerfect.

Keep that in mind my friend and you'll be fine in life and in love

😉