Ex boyfriend

I am a Scorpio girl that got dumped by a Sag. I didn't take the news lightly and went crazy. I am so sorry for my behaviour but he won't talk to me and he told me he will never forgive me. I can't simply let go like he asked after 5 years. I loved him so much, why would he do that? Do Sags ever come back?

He asked for space and I didn't respect his wishes. I called him non stop for a second chance and an explanation. He just said he doesn't love me anymore but I still wouldn't let go. He blocked from everything, even deleted his fb page so i must have been a real nuisance.

I will do my best but letting go is so hard for me. And so easy for others..

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Posted by Michwllw
He asked for space and I didn't respect his wishes. I called him non stop for a second chance and an explanation. He just said he doesn't love me anymore but I still wouldn't let go. He blocked from everything, even deleted his fb page so i must have been a real nuisance.

Don't beat yourself up. I have done the same thing. Sometimes we go crazy when hurt. In the future, try to step back from your emotions and calm down before reacting. It is not easy but will save you a lot of trouble in the long run. As for the guy, I don't know the reasoning behind the breakup so I can't comment on his feelings but I can suggest you back off and go about life without him. If it was meant to be, you will meet again.

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I think he felt trapped but wouldn't admit it. He would shower me with love and affection and all of a sudden he wasn't the same. Or maybe he found someone else, I will never know..

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal

do you have venus in Scorpio ?

if not, you'll be okay ..
if so, umm .. my (frozen) heart goes out to you

when one side sees the incompatibility, the other side should better respect it. it's good for both. you are free to meet a better candidate for you in future.

Sag and Scorp = endless drama

Posted by Harukaa

Posted by Kemetisinme
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal

do you have venus in Scorpio ?

if not, you'll be okay ..
if so, umm .. my (frozen) heart goes out to you

Why 😢
Is there something wrong with venus in scorpio ?

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let's just say it's not the best venus to have in this day and age (imo)

Posted by Harukaa

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by Harukaa

Posted by Kemetisinme
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal

do you have venus in Scorpio ?

if not, you'll be okay ..
if so, umm .. my (frozen) heart goes out to you

Why 😢
Is there something wrong with venus in scorpio ?

let's just say it's not the best venus to have in this day and age (imo)

Tbh .. it's hard to have it .. I have mercury also in scorpio ..uggghhhhh

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mercury in Scorpio is alright in my book .. it helps to see through BS
I just wish I had a venus in Sag instead .. oh well you can't have everything

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by Harukaa

Posted by Kemetisinme
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal

do you have venus in Scorpio ?

if not, you'll be okay ..
if so, umm .. my (frozen) heart goes out to you

Why 😢
Is there something wrong with venus in scorpio ?

let's just say it's not the best venus to have in this day and age (imo)

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Lol

Bless my non-scorp venus

Look at you lovesick fools

All just peasants

OK you're being pessimistic ..
at least we missed out on the infamous Scorpio moon 🥶..

the glass is half-full in the end 🙂

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by Harukaa

Posted by Kemetisinme
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal

do you have venus in Scorpio ?

if not, you'll be okay ..
if so, umm .. my (frozen) heart goes out to you

Why 😢
Is there something wrong with venus in scorpio ?

let's just say it's not the best venus to have in this day and age (imo)

Lol

Bless my non-scorp venus

Look at you lovesick fools

All just peasants

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what's your venus sign, pretend-newbie ?

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by Harukaa

Posted by Kemetisinme
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal

do you have venus in Scorpio ?

if not, you'll be okay ..
if so, umm .. my (frozen) heart goes out to you

Why 😢
Is there something wrong with venus in scorpio ?

let's just say it's not the best venus to have in this day and age (imo)

Lol

Bless my non-scorp venus

Look at you lovesick fools

All just peasants

what's your venus sign, pretend-newbie ?

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Pretend-newbie??

I mean my venus isn't that great. But the things I've seen venus in scorps, air dominants in particular, get into is pretty crazy tbh. They're like clingy yet fickle, and then indecisive af.

With water dominants, I guess they're just the clingy and obsessive part like the OP.

Yeeesssss...

Sorry but you Scorps get everything! Let me just have this moment 😄

My love, it's time to let go. As hard as it is, you have to do it because you're only causing yourself more heartbreak by holding on to distant memories.

In retrospect, when you hounded him even after he told you to stop, you caused him to dislike you even more. Honestly, I don't believe him when he says that he will NEVER forgive you...that's just not the Sagittarius way. We hold anger and grudges for as long as you can hold your hand to a hot oven eye (not long). I think he is more hurt than anything, but I could be wrong...I don't know him personally. But take this as a lesson on what not to do next time around. Give your heart a break okay?

Take care 🙂

Posted by Chelsey07
My love, it's time to let go. As hard as it is, you have to do it because you're only causing yourself more heartbreak by holding on to distant memories.

In retrospect, when you hounded him even after he told you to stop, you caused him to dislike you even more. Honestly, I don't believe him when he says that he will NEVER forgive you...that's just not the Sagittarius way. We hold anger and grudges for as long as you can hold your hand to a hot oven eye (not long). I think he is more hurt than anything, but I could be wrong...I don't know him personally. But take this as a lesson on what not to do next time around. Give your heart a break okay?

Take care 🙂

It hurts to hear these words move on. I was hoping that him being a Sag would give me a chance. I really just hoped for a talk but he doesn't think I can change so there's nothing more I can do. I admit I have my flaws, I am a Scorpio after all. I know maybe some space would have given him time to think..

Posted by Michwllw

Posted by Chelsey07
My love, it's time to let go. As hard as it is, you have to do it because you're only causing yourself more heartbreak by holding on to distant memories.

In retrospect, when you hounded him even after he told you to stop, you caused him to dislike you even more. Honestly, I don't believe him when he says that he will NEVER forgive you...that's just not the Sagittarius way. We hold anger and grudges for as long as you can hold your hand to a hot oven eye (not long). I think he is more hurt than anything, but I could be wrong...I don't know him personally. But take this as a lesson on what not to do next time around. Give your heart a break okay?

Take care 🙂

It hurts to hear these words move on. I was hoping that him being a Sag would give me a chance. I really just hoped for a talk but he doesn't think I can change so there's nothing more I can do. I admit I have my flaws, I am a Scorpio after all. I know maybe some space would have given him time to think..

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You're right about the chances thing. We are the most forgiving sign in the zodiac...sometimes even giving second, third, and fourth chances to the wrong people, but mind you...when you've screwed with us enough, we just cut you out of our lives. Space always help love. If you need someone to talk to, just message me.

Take care 🙂