Scorpios....sex questions

A few ponderings on the Scorpio sexual nature I was thinking over today...

I just read this statement about Scorpios. "We don't waste time. Casual sex to us is boring". Is that the same for you all? It is for me. I mean I can do hot sex without feelings but ONLY if I feel like the person is someone I might one day grow feelings for. In other words they engage me on other levels.

Also...what makes you find someone sexy?
How important a part of a relationship is sex for you?

For me finding someone sexy is ALWAYS mental and down to mannerisms and movements rather than the obvious like their face. Sex is also SO important to me, it is how I connect with someone and feel tied to them without words.

Is it the same for you all?

I should have been more specific on that front, because I am perfectly capable of having a short term "uncommited" affair.

What I mean is that some people can think somene is physically hot, good in bed (technique, willingness) and can enjoy or see the sex as like a bodily function.

For me I completely can't do that. I mean, I have to find something really attractive about who the person is and if I don't I would rather forget sex altogether. I have to find the person sexy on all levels...intelligent, bit of confidence, the way they smell and move and look and thn they arouse the hot passion. Ha ha

I know some people are very diferrent and it can be so much more detached.

I am like that too

I even find it hard to find celebrities attractive or sexy...like even the most beautiful men in the world because they are beautiful to me like a vase or a painting.

Yes I relate.

I don't have to be in love with someone to have sex with them. But there has to be a compelling rapport in many ways, and I won't be physically attracted enough to have sex if that's absent.

It's rare for me to fall in love. I don't run out of fingers when I count how many people I've fallen in love with. And falling in love isn't necessarily love, in my view, it's a transitory state that may or may not turn into deep lasting love.

Same with rarely finding celebrities appealing in a way that truly attracts me, I'll just notice that structurally the person can be called attractive, like art pieces as you summed up well @AlaniaB.

Posted by exo
yes, casual sex is boring and unsatisfying for me.

i choose to have sex with those i am emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and physically connected to.

Ah you summed up my feelings completely.

Not all, people are like this! I wonder if it is a very Scorpio trait.

Posted by CopperDove
Yes I relate.

I don't have to be in love with someone to have sex with them. But there has to be a compelling rapport in many ways, and I won't be physically attracted enough to have sex if that's absent.

It's rare for me to fall in love. I don't run out of fingers when I count how many people I've fallen in love with. And falling in love isn't necessarily love, in my view, it's a transitory state that may or may not turn into deep lasting love.

Same with rarely finding celebrities appealing in a way that truly attracts me, I'll just notice that structurally the person can be called attractive, like art pieces as you summed up well @AlaniaB.

Very much like me then CopperDove.

I so rarely fall in love. I do "fixate" on the object of my desire, but really falling in love is rare. I also agree you can fall in love without it turning into deeper love, but at that time, when that person is "on my mind", it is 100% fixated on them and only them and they become so fascinating and attractive to me it's very intense!

Posted by AlaniaB

Posted by CopperDove
Yes I relate.

I don't have to be in love with someone to have sex with them. But there has to be a compelling rapport in many ways, and I won't be physically attracted enough to have sex if that's absent.

It's rare for me to fall in love. I don't run out of fingers when I count how many people I've fallen in love with. And falling in love isn't necessarily love, in my view, it's a transitory state that may or may not turn into deep lasting love.

Same with rarely finding celebrities appealing in a way that truly attracts me, I'll just notice that structurally the person can be called attractive, like art pieces as you summed up well @AlaniaB.

Very much like me then CopperDove.

I so rarely fall in love. I do "fixate" on the object of my desire, but really falling in love is rare. I also agree you can fall in love without it turning into deeper love, but at that time, when that person is "on my mind", it is 100% fixated on them and only them and they become so fascinating and attractive to me it's very intense!

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I definitely relate! 🙂