Ok so this is gonna be a long one but i have to get it all out. I met my cancer male through a friend who tried to hook us up. at first i wasnt that interested being the critical virgo female that i am but i was in a relationship with my leo man. he started to captivate me so i left my leo man in a horrific breakup (virgo and leo suck together) and my cancer man was there to nurture me and help me lick my wounds but he was so shy and timid that i often wondered if he wasnt into me and i was scared because thibgs happened too quickly and i started to feel it was too good to be true. (I tend to date leos so i was constantly treating him as if he had such manners)he appealed to my inner soft side but then my hard protective side still tried to play her part. i ended up pushing him away through a fb message saying things were happening too quickly and i needed time to sort out my emotions. he never replied, when i hunted him down about it he said "i understand" after that he completely shut me out for monthsss and was rude to me when i tried to talk to him. when we finally did talk we basically both felt stupid and vulnerable and tried ti play it off luke we werent that into it. things were never the same and it took me months to realize how badly i crushed him. i found out through mutual friends that he liked me but wanted to take things slow and they went way too fast for him (he went on and on and on about this when he was drunkto my best friend of all people!) So thats when i tried to get him back, got into astrology...thought he was a gemini and began to play hard to get and make him jealous.... found out recently that hes not, hes a cancer..polar opposite when it comes to that. what do i do— im crazy about him and i want to mend the wounds i unknowingly put on him . just dont know if i should humble myself and tell him how i feel or if i should leave him alone qnd let him come to me.
