Pisces girl confused?

Hey I'm a Pisces girl and have been with a libra man for almost a year. He's a good guy but I feel like something is missing. He treats me decently/average but sometimes I feel like he's not truly in love with me like one ought to be and he's probably with me because I'm the most convenient choice at the moment. Idk if I'm the one just being delusional but shouldn't love be more affectionate, passionate, romantic and open? Is that kind of love even real, or should I just be content with stability? Any advice appreciated?

Posted by Majesticpisces123
Hey I'm a Pisces girl and have been with a libra man for almost a year. He's a good guy but I feel like something is missing. He treats me decently/average but sometimes I feel like he's not truly in love with me like one ought to be and he's probably with me because I'm the most convenient choice at the moment. Idk if I'm the one just being delusional but shouldn't love be more affectionate, passionate, romantic and open? Is that kind of love even real, or should I just be content with stability? Any advice appreciated?

As a libra woman struggling with a Pisces man, I understand the feeling you have. Both of you are too passive and waiting for someone to step in front and take the lead in the relationship. If you want to get closer and more intimate, open up to him. Have a conversation with him alone and ask him how he feels about you. Tell him how you feel about him. Most likely he has deep feelings for you but you're both too unsure of the other and have a guard up. If one of you doesn't let it down it will deteriorate your relationship. Don't let these feelings simmer if you want to stay with him because the emptiness will get worse if you do, take action.

Posted by Majesticpisces123
Hey I'm a Pisces girl and have been with a libra man for almost a year. He's a good guy but I feel like something is missing. He treats me decently/average but sometimes I feel like he's not truly in love with me like one ought to be and he's probably with me because I'm the most convenient choice at the moment. Idk if I'm the one just being delusional but shouldn't love be more affectionate, passionate, romantic and open? Is that kind of love even real, or should I just be content with stability? Any advice appreciated?

Hi, dear Pisces sister.

While I think your relationship isn't really in a critical place, I'm also afraid that the Libra + Pisces match has a limit to emotional depth.

You are Pisces, you crave love as deep as an ocean. And even though your Libra man probably loves you, I think this is about as deep as it gets with this match up.

However, I think it's necessary to somehow find out if he really does see you as the only convenient choice at the moment. Because if it's true, I wouldn't stay with him if I were you.

You're not being delusional. True love should be open, passionate, romantic and very affectionate. That kind of love IS real.

Rare, but real. All the best things in life are rare. 🙂

I can't help but feel very lucky because that's the kind of love I have with my Taurus girlfriend.

I don't want to try to convince you to break up. But your emotional needs are clearly not met. And I know that you value emotions very much.

I don't think you should just settle for stability. You deserve to be treated the way you treat him.

If you treat your partner like a king, then you deserve a partner who will treat you like a queen.

This should be helpful in recognizing the possible issues, and pros and cons of your match up

http://www.astrology-zodiac-signs.com/compatibility/pisces-libra/

🙂

Communication is key. Talk to him and trust your gut on this. If there isnt a change in the relationship its best to move on. I know plenty of Libra men and noticed there are patterns among most of them. At first they are very flirty, loving, and sweet but they tend to get "comfortable" (i guess is the best word) in relationships and get a little detached. Its as if they dont have to "try" anymore now that they have you. They seem to usually be very content with that and are quite independent so it feels more like a friendship than a romantic partnership. But if you express you want more, they will give it to you. My father was a Libra and my mother (aries) would have to boot him in the ass at times to go on dates like they used to lol. Like someone earlier said, they are more passive.