Please help, any insight is valued.:)

Love of your life or his soulmate has nothing to do with astrology. Now you're all gettin crazy on this shit. The position of the stars have nothing to do with feelings.

You're most likely right. I'm just grasping at straws hoping someone can get me out of my rut. Thanks for the input.

Posted by Scorpiowoman33
You're most likely right. I'm just grasping at straws hoping someone can get me out of my rut. Thanks for the input.

My sister and her ex-husband were more or less a perfect match on paper. She Capricorn, he Taurus. They hit it off straight away. Both hard workers and productive people, great chemistry - he helped her come out of her shell (he was her first true love) and she brought out the best in him, also gave him a child........they didn't last 5 years because of mother-in-law drama.

Don't lend too much weight into this kind of thing. You could say then "oh but we're all here on the astrology section" - doesn't matter. Common sense prevails. They just weren't genuinely ready for lifelong commitment. The most perfect compatibility chart in the world couldn't save them because they lacked experience and common sense.

Charts also don't account for real-life circumstances beyond our control. Me and the man I love (unrequited) are a great match on paper as well. Me: Pisces Sun, Virgo Moon, Sag rising. Him: Leo/Virgo cusp (23rd August), Capricorn moon, Leo rising. We're like brothers. Virgo and Pisces make a positively sensitive match, our moons and risings complement each other.

But our charts cannot take into account our mismatching sexuality. I'm gay, he's not. Never gonna happen. There's no "rut" to get out of, it's just how it is.

You're all right. Thank you for your responses. And yes, the breakup was actually because he refused to get help in any way and it became violent. I realized I couldn't save him. Packed up my guilt and moved on. Thank you all for your replies.

Scorpiowoman33, you did the right thing. I'm not sure what you mean when you say "packed up my guilt ..." What do you have guilt about -- did you put the drugs in his system against his will? If you didn't, then, it's on him. You stood by him but you weren't going to watch him destroy himself when he could help himself. If he seems happier without you, well, so what. You will be happier too.

Since she's a Scorpio, she probably meant that she packed up her guilt trips that she used on him, in trying to manipulate him.

Afterall, that's how they operate. She isn't going to actually help him, or even try .. she's just going to throw guilt at him, trying to make him feel bad enough for hurting her feelings.

so, her packing up guilt, will be unpacked on another person, when the time is right for her to need to manipulate someone.