Pluto conjunctions in Synastry - can you help?

Hi

I was wondering if someone could help with interpretation of multiple Pluto conjunctions in synastry.

My moon, Saturn, Jupiter and Lilith all conjunct with his Pluto, my Venus trine and my mercury in opposition to his Pluto. However, the other way around my Pluto is trine with his Sun, Venus and Mars and sextile to his moon.

The composite shows pluto conjunct Uranus in 6th house and Composite Moon and Vertex fall in the 7th house.

There are more conjunctions but for now I just wanted to see if someone has experiences with those? I have to say it feels VERY strong and magnetic - i cant let go and I dont think he can either. But it is also draining as it seems just too much intensity. Often we both withdraw again after we saw each other only to call and see each other again..

Mainly: who is in control? I am the moon person and to be honest it is rather difficult for me - somehow we both love to be together but then again we dont contact each other for some time. When we then see each other again, it is again very nice and close.

Can someone please advise? Is the above good or bad?

Thank you very much!

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