relationships and me

I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

What's wrong with having Venus in 1st house?

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

What's wrong with having Venus in 1st house?

Lol I have venus in the 1st house too! I’d like to know too 🙂

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Yeah cause I think that is a perfect placement. One of my favs placement.

@aerialview @roosagicorn oh no!!! not like that. I meant it’s hard for me to take it when my love is not accepted, etc. my venus in the first house is glowing! it has aries element to it also, so I feel like it’s amplified with aries being on my descendant. in other words, in love with love. loving myself is important and when others don’t love me, it’s kind of a blow to the ego (for me anyways).

I have a lot of other chart stuff going on, but I love having venus in the first! I mainly just meant in this particular set of circumstances, I feel quite saddened by my breakup and like my love was rejected in some way...and I feel like I did a lot to prevent this from happening, so it’s like my Venus was hurt in the process.

My Venus in the 1st is such a blessing though, and I love it! At the current time though, I’m just a sad sap as it is lmao.

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

What's wrong with having Venus in 1st house?

Lol I have venus in the 1st house too! I’d like to know too 🙂

Yeah cause I think that is a perfect placement. One of my favs placement.

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i never had problems with getting into relationsihips or attracting men.

my only problem is choosing the right man in the past. so many...

and the ones i chose were bad for me.



what is your experience with it being a man??

Off the top of my head, George Clooney has this. and i can tell he never had problems. lol

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
@aerialview @roosagicorn oh no!!! not like that. I meant it’s hard for me to take it when my love is not accepted, etc. my venus in the first house is glowing! it has aries element to it also, so I feel like it’s amplified with aries being on my descendant. in other words, in love with love. loving myself is important and when others don’t love me, it’s kind of a blow to the ego (for me anyways).

I have a lot of other chart stuff going on, but I love having venus in the first! I mainly just meant in this particular set of circumstances, I feel quite saddened by my breakup and like my love was rejected in some way...and I feel like I did a lot to prevent this from happening, so it’s like my Venus was hurt in the process.

My Venus in the 1st is such a blessing though, and I love it! At the current time though, I’m just a sad sap as it is lmao.

If Aries is your descendant, then your 1st house couldn't have Aries element. I'm a bit confused here lol.

Yes Venus in 1st house is a great placement, I already see it in you. You sounds nice 😃

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
@aerialview @roosagicorn oh no!!! not like that. I meant it’s hard for me to take it when my love is not accepted, etc. my venus in the first house is glowing! it has aries element to it also, so I feel like it’s amplified with aries being on my descendant. in other words, in love with love. loving myself is important and when others don’t love me, it’s kind of a blow to the ego (for me anyways).

I have a lot of other chart stuff going on, but I love having venus in the first! I mainly just meant in this particular set of circumstances, I feel quite saddened by my breakup and like my love was rejected in some way...and I feel like I did a lot to prevent this from happening, so it’s like my Venus was hurt in the process.

My Venus in the 1st is such a blessing though, and I love it! At the current time though, I’m just a sad sap as it is lmao.

If Aries is your descendant, then your 1st house couldn't have Aries element. I'm a bit confused here lol.

Yes Venus in 1st house is a great placement, I already see it in you. You sounds nice 😃

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Sorry, my Neptune in the 3rd is speaking right now. I’m always vague and never make sense lmao!!!

So Venus in the 1st, I just meant since Aries rules the first house traditionally I think it amps up my Venus into a more aggressive being....ok....maybe not aggressive....maybe....impulsive is a better word. So Aries being ruled in the first house adds that Arian tone. Then Aries being on my descendant I’ve studied to mean that a person goes into relationships like an Aries Venus would (simply speaking, though I’m definitely not an Aries venus at the same time lol). I dive into relationships head on and think about the consequences later. Always a good time. I tend to choose bad people for me.

This last relationship... I didn’t want to end, but it did. I definitely feel the Scorpio in my Venus, but my way of approaching love and relationships is very Arian. if that makes any sense. I’m just the deterimental lover (haha- since both scorpio and aries venus are in detriment).

I just feel that plethora of crazy when it comes to love xD i’m a handful, but I really don’t mean to be. and when someone tells me so, I get really saddened and like there’s no hope without love for me. So extreme. But there’s the long answer to that ☺️ hopefully I make more sense.

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

What's wrong with having Venus in 1st house?

Lol I have venus in the 1st house too! I’d like to know too 🙂

Yeah cause I think that is a perfect placement. One of my favs placement.

i never had problems with getting into relationsihips or attracting men.

my only problem is choosing the right man in the past. so many...

and the ones i chose were bad for me.



what is your experience with it being a man??

Off the top of my head, George Clooney has this. and i can tell he never had problems. lol

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I don't have problems either in attracting women or entering new relationship. Easily fall in love is the only downside for me.

I have some "triangle" love in the past. But I blame my 12th house for that 😸

My mars is also in 1st house and conjunct Venus. I'm smitten just by reading the interpretation lol

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@aerialview @roosagicorn oh no!!! not like that. I meant it’s hard for me to take it when my love is not accepted, etc. my venus in the first house is glowing! it has aries element to it also, so I feel like it’s amplified with aries being on my descendant. in other words, in love with love. loving myself is important and when others don’t love me, it’s kind of a blow to the ego (for me anyways).

I have a lot of other chart stuff going on, but I love having venus in the first! I mainly just meant in this particular set of circumstances, I feel quite saddened by my breakup and like my love was rejected in some way...and I feel like I did a lot to prevent this from happening, so it’s like my Venus was hurt in the process.

My Venus in the 1st is such a blessing though, and I love it! At the current time though, I’m just a sad sap as it is lmao.

If Aries is your descendant, then your 1st house couldn't have Aries element. I'm a bit confused here lol.

Yes Venus in 1st house is a great placement, I already see it in you. You sounds nice 😃

Sorry, my Neptune in the 3rd is speaking right now. I’m always vague and never make sense lmao!!!

So Venus in the 1st, I just meant since Aries rules the first house traditionally I think it amps up my Venus into a more aggressive being....ok....maybe not aggressive....maybe....impulsive is a better word. So Aries being ruled in the first house adds that Arian tone. Then Aries being on my descendant I’ve studied to mean that a person goes into relationships like an Aries Venus would (simply speaking, though I’m definitely not an Aries venus at the same time lol). I dive into relationships head on and think about the consequences later. Always a good time. I tend to choose bad people for me.

This last relationship... I didn’t want to end, but it did. I definitely feel the Scorpio in my Venus, but my way of approaching love and relationships is very Arian. if that makes any sense. I’m just the deterimental lover (haha- since both scorpio and aries venus are in detriment).

I just feel that plethora of crazy when it comes to love xD i’m a handful, but I really don’t mean to be. and when someone tells me so, I get really saddened and like there’s no hope without love for me. So extreme. But there’s the long answer to that ☺️ hopefully I make more sense.

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Yeah I get it now lollol pretty much. Myself is quite new in this.

I have Pisces Venus in 1st house. My descendant is in late 29 degrees Leo. 7th house is almost all occupied by Virgo (intercepted).

So what am I lol can you help me? My Venus is more into pisces, Aries, Leo or Virgo?

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

What's wrong with having Venus in 1st house?

Lol I have venus in the 1st house too! I’d like to know too 🙂

Yeah cause I think that is a perfect placement. One of my favs placement.

i never had problems with getting into relationsihips or attracting men.

my only problem is choosing the right man in the past. so many...

and the ones i chose were bad for me.



what is your experience with it being a man??

Off the top of my head, George Clooney has this. and i can tell he never had problems. lol

I don't have problems either in attracting women or entering new relationship. Easily fall in love is the only downside for me.

I have some "triangle" love in the past. But I blame my 12th house for that 😸

My mars is also in 1st house and conjunct Venus. I'm smitten just by reading the interpretation lol

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yeah i saw that when i googled.

and hmm i did have a love triangle in the past.

two men in love with me at the same time, i think even more...it's kind of creepy. but is pisces neptune energy to blame??



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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

What's wrong with having Venus in 1st house?

Lol I have venus in the 1st house too! I’d like to know too 🙂

Yeah cause I think that is a perfect placement. One of my favs placement.

i never had problems with getting into relationsihips or attracting men.

my only problem is choosing the right man in the past. so many...

and the ones i chose were bad for me.



what is your experience with it being a man??

Off the top of my head, George Clooney has this. and i can tell he never had problems. lol

I don't have problems either in attracting women or entering new relationship. Easily fall in love is the only downside for me.

I have some "triangle" love in the past. But I blame my 12th house for that 😸

My mars is also in 1st house and conjunct Venus. I'm smitten just by reading the interpretation lol

yeah i saw that when i googled.

and hmm i did have a love triangle in the past.

two men in love with me at the same time, i think even more...it's kind of creepy. but is pisces neptune energy to blame??



http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/010057.html

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Lol you too

Yes pisces/Neptune could be the culprit. But I loved it, I have no regrets.

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

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that’s also what i’ve done. but i tend to dive in and always manage to pick the wrong ones. i’m going to attempt to take a slower approach next time around... we’ll see how that goes though because i love to dive right in if it feels right lol!

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I hear you and can relate to a lot of what you've said. Normally I would leave it at that but, since you asked for more, I guess the most I can say for me is that it's liberating to get to a point where not everything has to happen for a reason.

Or even if it did, the reason is beyond my understanding and I'm good with that, it's refreshing. Shit happens, basically.

When I got to that point, I stopped immediately questioning - hell even stopped talking a lot, stopped reacting in those "break up" moments, and just took the time to let it sink in, to keep in sync with myself. After that, I started seeing those very same moments (break ups and make ups) from a very different perspective. I asked sharper questions and got clearer answers. That's been my experience so far. Not to say it has to apply to you or anyone else. It's just what I felt, reading what you had written.

yay tiz. how i’ve missed you and your shady wisdom (lol). no but seriously, i do enjoy your knowledge and POV on all of my posts.

i like that... in a way, i’ve handled this situation similarly. he broke up with me... he said “i think we need to break up.” i knew it had already been made up in his mind. i could just tell. so when he asked “do you have anything to say?” all i said was “i can’t communicate any emotions about this at this time. i’m not good at communicating them anyways.” there was a long silence... he was waiting. so i just said “well, i’ll let you get home. goodbye.” and that was it. it was probably the cleanest break up aside from the aquarius a few years back. i could’ve asked him questions, begged to have another chance, asked why he didn’t try when we were trying to work on things... but then i realized- what does it matter? plus some of those questions i could’ve asked, i already knew the answers to so it was pointless and would’ve just caused more harm than good. i’m naturally hard on myself, and i blame myself for most of this. but i’ve been having some premonitions about this moment. i knew it would come.

now i am focusing on what i can do to grow from this situation. i usually remain friends with ex’s, but it will not be the case this time because i’ve realized that he lied to me during the breakup. maybe one day i’ll forgive, but he had no problem saying offensive truths during the relationship, so lying at the end of it was a sign of disrespect.

i think asking myself sharp questions may be healthy for me to do now. such as would i really be happy in the long run with someone who would say offensive things and invalidate how i felt about them? and would i really be comfortable being friends with someone who could lie during the breakup but offend me and invalidate me while dating? i think the breakup was for the best. i’ve done a lot of analysis from yesterday into today.

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@aerialview @roosagicorn oh no!!! not like that. I meant it’s hard for me to take it when my love is not accepted, etc. my venus in the first house is glowing! it has aries element to it also, so I feel like it’s amplified with aries being on my descendant. in other words, in love with love. loving myself is important and when others don’t love me, it’s kind of a blow to the ego (for me anyways).

I have a lot of other chart stuff going on, but I love having venus in the first! I mainly just meant in this particular set of circumstances, I feel quite saddened by my breakup and like my love was rejected in some way...and I feel like I did a lot to prevent this from happening, so it’s like my Venus was hurt in the process.

My Venus in the 1st is such a blessing though, and I love it! At the current time though, I’m just a sad sap as it is lmao.

If Aries is your descendant, then your 1st house couldn't have Aries element. I'm a bit confused here lol.

Yes Venus in 1st house is a great placement, I already see it in you. You sounds nice 😃

Sorry, my Neptune in the 3rd is speaking right now. I’m always vague and never make sense lmao!!!

So Venus in the 1st, I just meant since Aries rules the first house traditionally I think it amps up my Venus into a more aggressive being....ok....maybe not aggressive....maybe....impulsive is a better word. So Aries being ruled in the first house adds that Arian tone. Then Aries being on my descendant I’ve studied to mean that a person goes into relationships like an Aries Venus would (simply speaking, though I’m definitely not an Aries venus at the same time lol). I dive into relationships head on and think about the consequences later. Always a good time. I tend to choose bad people for me.

This last relationship... I didn’t want to end, but it did. I definitely feel the Scorpio in my Venus, but my way of approaching love and relationships is very Arian. if that makes any sense. I’m just the deterimental lover (haha- since both scorpio and aries venus are in detriment).

I just feel that plethora of crazy when it comes to love xD i’m a handful, but I really don’t mean to be. and when someone tells me so, I get really saddened and like there’s no hope without love for me. So extreme. But there’s the long answer to that ☺️ hopefully I make more sense.

Yeah I get it now lollol pretty much. Myself is quite new in this.

I have Pisces Venus in 1st house. My descendant is in late 29 degrees Leo. 7th house is almost all occupied by Virgo (intercepted).

So what am I lol can you help me? My Venus is more into pisces, Aries, Leo or Virgo?

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your venus is probably mostly pisces here, with arian energy in the first house. you approach relationships in a leo way. you probably admire leo energy, but you’d definitely benefit from having someone with some virgo in their chart...even if they’re not a virgo sun.

for me i have taurus in my 7th too, and i tend to like taurus energy. unless it is square my late degree aquarius saturn. then their energy bothers me.

where is your saturn? it may determine some things too! funny how the whole chart can change any little thing. but you approach/enter relationships similar to a leo. probably strong-willed, you enjoy some good and healthy attention...you probably enjoy a bit of an ego stroke from time to time. too much virgo might hurt you because virgo tends to critique... only positive intentions, but sometimes it can be a blow to the ego. your chart has interesting contradictions just like my own. that’s my interpretation of your venus/approach to relationships. hopefully i’m close ☺️

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I have a 1st house Stellium lol. I have always been a relationship person but hesitant at first, but once I fall, I’m in it for the long haul. It is so disappointing & sad when something destroys it. I’m cap Venus.

Well last major relationship was 20 year so you can imagine.. I never meant for it to end. I don’t know, sometimes things just aren’t right & there are reasons it’s not meant to be, not about not accepting your love. I think my current one has legs for long-term but it took me a year to really commit towards that lol.

i have a rolling stellium in the first house also! yesssss that’s how i feel, and i’m a scorpio venus. i used to be very melancholic and say i destroy everything i touch 😂 but of course that is not the case. i do get very disheartened when things go sour, because i have high hopes for everything.

and yay!!!! i hope your new relationship does last then. i can’t even imagine how devastating the end to the 20 year one was. i can barely handle this 1 year and a half one ending lol. i think i’m much better today than yesterday though. the sun is finally rising in my mind now.

Posted by xyinsaturn
I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be

^ I had all that happen in a short span of time. It felt shitty but it got easier when I asked myself the real questions- there is power in taking accountability.

yes! i finally have caught on to that concept. i’m asking myself more questions. about myself, about them, about what i need/want. i think it’s helped a lot for sure. i have to look at it objectively.

degenerate_ingenue

I feel you girl... we share some placments

Libra acs- in love with love, heads on to ❤️ yiiiha. Lol and damn... 😂

Water sun- strong emotions, slow recovering

Virgo moon- analyse all the shit that’s rolling all over your body when hurting. Deep mental and emo overdrive.

I feel you girl...

Big hug to you 😊

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@aerialview @roosagicorn oh no!!! not like that. I meant it’s hard for me to take it when my love is not accepted, etc. my venus in the first house is glowing! it has aries element to it also, so I feel like it’s amplified with aries being on my descendant. in other words, in love with love. loving myself is important and when others don’t love me, it’s kind of a blow to the ego (for me anyways).

I have a lot of other chart stuff going on, but I love having venus in the first! I mainly just meant in this particular set of circumstances, I feel quite saddened by my breakup and like my love was rejected in some way...and I feel like I did a lot to prevent this from happening, so it’s like my Venus was hurt in the process.

My Venus in the 1st is such a blessing though, and I love it! At the current time though, I’m just a sad sap as it is lmao.

If Aries is your descendant, then your 1st house couldn't have Aries element. I'm a bit confused here lol.

Yes Venus in 1st house is a great placement, I already see it in you. You sounds nice 😃

Sorry, my Neptune in the 3rd is speaking right now. I’m always vague and never make sense lmao!!!

So Venus in the 1st, I just meant since Aries rules the first house traditionally I think it amps up my Venus into a more aggressive being....ok....maybe not aggressive....maybe....impulsive is a better word. So Aries being ruled in the first house adds that Arian tone. Then Aries being on my descendant I’ve studied to mean that a person goes into relationships like an Aries Venus would (simply speaking, though I’m definitely not an Aries venus at the same time lol). I dive into relationships head on and think about the consequences later. Always a good time. I tend to choose bad people for me.

This last relationship... I didn’t want to end, but it did. I definitely feel the Scorpio in my Venus, but my way of approaching love and relationships is very Arian. if that makes any sense. I’m just the deterimental lover (haha- since both scorpio and aries venus are in detriment).

I just feel that plethora of crazy when it comes to love xD i’m a handful, but I really don’t mean to be. and when someone tells me so, I get really saddened and like there’s no hope without love for me. So extreme. But there’s the long answer to that ☺️ hopefully I make more sense.

Yeah I get it now lollol pretty much. Myself is quite new in this.

I have Pisces Venus in 1st house. My descendant is in late 29 degrees Leo. 7th house is almost all occupied by Virgo (intercepted).

So what am I lol can you help me? My Venus is more into pisces, Aries, Leo or Virgo?

your venus is probably mostly pisces here, with arian energy in the first house. you approach relationships in a leo way. you probably admire leo energy, but you’d definitely benefit from having someone with some virgo in their chart...even if they’re not a virgo sun.

for me i have taurus in my 7th too, and i tend to like taurus energy. unless it is square my late degree aquarius saturn. then their energy bothers me.

where is your saturn? it may determine some things too! funny how the whole chart can change any little thing. but you approach/enter relationships similar to a leo. probably strong-willed, you enjoy some good and healthy attention...you probably enjoy a bit of an ego stroke from time to time. too much virgo might hurt you because virgo tends to critique... only positive intentions, but sometimes it can be a blow to the ego. your chart has interesting contradictions just like my own. that’s my interpretation of your venus/approach to relationships. hopefully i’m close ☺️

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Much thanks for the long reading. I've learnt so much ☺

Posted by Smidge
You write like an old English man would speak.

It's great, I might even read it again in a David Attenborough-like voice.

lmao i love you already 😂

i’ve actually been told that! well maybe minus the “man” part but it’s okay😂 the old englishman in me always comes out in my writing somehow. i once had a reading done by an astrologer saying that in my draconic chart she saw that it was kind of a masculine chart. and said something else about the man in me is just dying to get out. i died.

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degenerate_ingenue

I feel you girl... we share some placments

Libra acs- in love with love, heads on to ❤️ yiiiha. Lol and damn... 😂

Water sun- strong emotions, slow recovering

Virgo moon- analyse all the shit that’s rolling all over your body when hurting. Deep mental and emo overdrive.

I feel you girl...

Big hug to you 😊

you already know!!! it’s like that mental prison we lock ourselves in as a virgo moon. trying to calculate where it all went wrong and not computing it. then we blame ourselves and wonder why we were less than perfect during it all. well...i know i’m not perfect, so i think i’m twice as hard on myself for that too. lol. luckily i think my sag mars is like “forget about it and on to the next!” along w that aries descendant haha so i’m much better today. you already know 😛

it’s full of ups and downs right now. i try to not think about it, or when i do think about it i try to truly analyze what any further relations would have held. though there’s a chance it could’ve been much better and gotten better, i believe there was some friction that would degrade even more over time for both of us. that assists when thinking of it that way. sigh, there has to be someone out there on this planet who can deal with my dichotomous self. i’m a handful, but maybe one day someone can actually handle it 😂 and if not, oh well. i’ll always have me!

also i see you have a lot of leo too! that’s probably fun ☺️ the only leo i have is my MC. having more fire in my chart would be awesome! the only actual planet i have is that sag mars. other than that i’m mostly water followed somewhat closely by air.

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I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

that’s also what i’ve done. but i tend to dive in and always manage to pick the wrong ones. i’m going to attempt to take a slower approach next time around... we’ll see how that goes though because i love to dive right in if it feels right lol!

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i'm an empty 7th house, which is why my focus alot is on relationships and love reading about it.

i have no problems being IN one, but i love relationship stuff.

my husband and my male family members all say women love this relationship stuff...

now i'm thinking alot of it is because of venus, relationship oriented and obsessed with relatinships. lol

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degenerate_ingenue

I feel you girl... we share some placments

Libra acs- in love with love, heads on to ❤️ yiiiha. Lol and damn... 😂

Water sun- strong emotions, slow recovering

Virgo moon- analyse all the shit that’s rolling all over your body when hurting. Deep mental and emo overdrive.

I feel you girl...

Big hug to you 😊

you already know!!! it’s like that mental prison we lock ourselves in as a virgo moon. trying to calculate where it all went wrong and not computing it. then we blame ourselves and wonder why we were less than perfect during it all. well...i know i’m not perfect, so i think i’m twice as hard on myself for that too. lol. luckily i think my sag mars is like “forget about it and on to the next!” along w that aries descendant haha so i’m much better today. you already know 😛

it’s full of ups and downs right now. i try to not think about it, or when i do think about it i try to truly analyze what any further relations would have held. though there’s a chance it could’ve been much better and gotten better, i believe there was some friction that would degrade even more over time for both of us. that assists when thinking of it that way. sigh, there has to be someone out there on this planet who can deal with my dichotomous self. i’m a handful, but maybe one day someone can actually handle it 😂 and if not, oh well. i’ll always have me!

also i see you have a lot of leo too! that’s probably fun ☺️ the only leo i have is my MC. having more fire in my chart would be awesome! the only actual planet i have is that sag mars. other than that i’m mostly water followed somewhat closely by air.

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hmmm

with your sag mars aries rising, leo mc and virgo moon, no wonder you attract aquarius men. i remember you mentioned it.

the air sun men like that energy especially with all the fire... it lights up their air. or rather....fire is ignited by air.

https://www.cainer.com/loveelements/fireair.html



The Elements of Love

FIRE & AIR

The Exploding Love Bomb

Fire needs air. Without it, no matter how much fuel it has, it cannot survive. Why though, does air need fire? It can exist quite nicely without all that smoke. It's the heat that it seeks. As any meteorologist will tell you, air currents are driven by temperature changes. Wind will not develop and travel unless something warms it up. Air sign people then, find Fire sign folk useful. They get them to stop sitting around thinking and they make them start doing things. There is strong attraction between these elements but there's also an ever-present danger. Fire folk glow so brightly in an Air person's company that they forget to refuel. Then, the wind ends up putting out the fading fire. But as long as there's even a tiny spark remaining, a breeze can rekindle it. Thus this relationship can carry on blowing hot and cold for a lifetime.





in reverse, with male/female reversal....you can see that Cancer sun, VIrgo moon, Gemini venus Sag mars Bodhi Elfman fell for the Libra/Aqua moon/Aqua mars woman Jenna Elfman... He is on the cusp of Leo though, by 2 days. so he's a Cancer/Leo cusper

they're a great study for astrologers imo,







also, imo, you still have water though, and water is HEAVY, so someone with more earth, like a cappy moon or cappy sun or taurus would help you.

water needs earth..



https://www.cainer.com/loveelements/earthwater.html

The Quicksand of Desire

To understand this relationship, consider the contrast between land and sea. Imagine these forces in perpetual battle; think of mighty waves, crashing against rocks. Earth and water themselves seem to enjoy unleashing all that energy.

Earth and Water people have a similar tendency to clash superficially but form a deep, fulfilling, lasting bond. They are not always instantly drawn together but slowly, they find a way to coexist. The more they do, the more they see how much they can offer each other. Soil needs rain in order to be fertile. Rivers need banks if they are to stay on track. Earth and Water people need each other for inspiration and support. Only when they fail to keep separate identities and try to 'merge' do we get a problem. Water mixed with Earth makes mud ... but then, some of us feel that even this is glorious!

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I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

that’s also what i’ve done. but i tend to dive in and always manage to pick the wrong ones. i’m going to attempt to take a slower approach next time around... we’ll see how that goes though because i love to dive right in if it feels right lol!

i'm an empty 7th house, which is why my focus alot is on relationships and love reading about it.

i have no problems being IN one, but i love relationship stuff.

my husband and my male family members all say women love this relationship stuff...

now i'm thinking alot of it is because of venus, relationship oriented and obsessed with relatinships. lol

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hehe my 7th is also empty!!! aries and taurus just lonely over there. everything is jammed into my first. then sprinkled into 2-4 and my moon in the 11th. i think the libra ascendant with everything in the first though makes it a little bit of a libra and aries dichotomy. it’s about me, but it’s about love and about others and harmony with the libra ascendant.

and as for your second post yes!!! the reason i mentioned aries was mainly because i did studies on having an libra ascendant/aries descendant and having a jammed 1st house. there was one article that said you approach relationships like an aries, but the libra part is confused by all the first house energy too. it’s like being a walking frustration- is it about me or is it about others?

for me i’ve mostly put others first. BUT I LOVE ARIES! i’ve never met an aries male that i was interested in dating. but omg throw me a james franco and i’m all about it LOL. which is interesting because he’s an aries with a virgo moon and scorpio ascendant. he has a taurus venus too (if i remember right).

but yes my major pattern is aquarius men.

the combos:

aqua sun, scorpio moon, aries venus, cancer mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cap moon, aries venus, sag mars, cap ascendant

aqua sun, sag moon, pisces venus, gemini mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cancer moon, cap venus/mars, leo ascendant

you'd feel that taurus venus James Franco has too. 😄







interestingly enough he was with an Aquarius woman for a long time but broke up because of the long distance romance. i think because of his Leo Mars. lol

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I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

that’s also what i’ve done. but i tend to dive in and always manage to pick the wrong ones. i’m going to attempt to take a slower approach next time around... we’ll see how that goes though because i love to dive right in if it feels right lol!

i'm an empty 7th house, which is why my focus alot is on relationships and love reading about it.

i have no problems being IN one, but i love relationship stuff.

my husband and my male family members all say women love this relationship stuff...

now i'm thinking alot of it is because of venus, relationship oriented and obsessed with relatinships. lol

hehe my 7th is also empty!!! aries and taurus just lonely over there. everything is jammed into my first. then sprinkled into 2-4 and my moon in the 11th. i think the libra ascendant with everything in the first though makes it a little bit of a libra and aries dichotomy. it’s about me, but it’s about love and about others and harmony with the libra ascendant.

and as for your second post yes!!! the reason i mentioned aries was mainly because i did studies on having an libra ascendant/aries descendant and having a jammed 1st house. there was one article that said you approach relationships like an aries, but the libra part is confused by all the first house energy too. it’s like being a walking frustration- is it about me or is it about others?

for me i’ve mostly put others first. BUT I LOVE ARIES! i’ve never met an aries male that i was interested in dating. but omg throw me a james franco and i’m all about it LOL. which is interesting because he’s an aries with a virgo moon and scorpio ascendant. he has a taurus venus too (if i remember right).

but yes my major pattern is aquarius men.

the combos:

aqua sun, scorpio moon, aries venus, cancer mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cap moon, aries venus, sag mars, cap ascendant

aqua sun, sag moon, pisces venus, gemini mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cancer moon, cap venus/mars, leo ascendant

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Wow scorp woman with aqua fetish.

Tell me what's the best (or the worst) about aqua men.

Dead curious cause my partner is scorp!

I want to learn 😀

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I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

that’s also what i’ve done. but i tend to dive in and always manage to pick the wrong ones. i’m going to attempt to take a slower approach next time around... we’ll see how that goes though because i love to dive right in if it feels right lol!

i'm an empty 7th house, which is why my focus alot is on relationships and love reading about it.

i have no problems being IN one, but i love relationship stuff.

my husband and my male family members all say women love this relationship stuff...

now i'm thinking alot of it is because of venus, relationship oriented and obsessed with relatinships. lol

hehe my 7th is also empty!!! aries and taurus just lonely over there. everything is jammed into my first. then sprinkled into 2-4 and my moon in the 11th. i think the libra ascendant with everything in the first though makes it a little bit of a libra and aries dichotomy. it’s about me, but it’s about love and about others and harmony with the libra ascendant.

and as for your second post yes!!! the reason i mentioned aries was mainly because i did studies on having an libra ascendant/aries descendant and having a jammed 1st house. there was one article that said you approach relationships like an aries, but the libra part is confused by all the first house energy too. it’s like being a walking frustration- is it about me or is it about others?

for me i’ve mostly put others first. BUT I LOVE ARIES! i’ve never met an aries male that i was interested in dating. but omg throw me a james franco and i’m all about it LOL. which is interesting because he’s an aries with a virgo moon and scorpio ascendant. he has a taurus venus too (if i remember right).

but yes my major pattern is aquarius men.

the combos:

aqua sun, scorpio moon, aries venus, cancer mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cap moon, aries venus, sag mars, cap ascendant

aqua sun, sag moon, pisces venus, gemini mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cancer moon, cap venus/mars, leo ascendant

Wow scorp woman with aqua fetish.

Tell me what's the best (or the worst) about aqua men.

Dead curious cause my partner is scorp!

I want to learn 😀

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LOL! Idk what’s really not to like about aqua men. Their personality is always interesting. I like their viewpoints, and I love hearing them talk. Emotionally they’re a bit awkward at times, which I find adorable because I’m the queen of awkward lol.

One of the aquas I was seeing was more confident emotionally, but he was intelligent and had a lot to say which I enjoyed.

Overall it’s probably the intelligence, uniqueness... plenty of more things. I also find the ones I dated very attractive. At times, my friends disagree and wonder what I’m thinking.

For the most part, excluding one Aqua, they were very avoidant about verbalizing their interest in me. but i picked up on social cues, and they’d talk about me in kind ways to others. not admitting their interest but just compliments in general. they’d do indirect nice things for me also, and i just knew. i liked that. i don’t need a show. it’s always the thought that counts, and aquas are always having thoughts about something 🙂

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I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

that’s also what i’ve done. but i tend to dive in and always manage to pick the wrong ones. i’m going to attempt to take a slower approach next time around... we’ll see how that goes though because i love to dive right in if it feels right lol!

i'm an empty 7th house, which is why my focus alot is on relationships and love reading about it.

i have no problems being IN one, but i love relationship stuff.

my husband and my male family members all say women love this relationship stuff...

now i'm thinking alot of it is because of venus, relationship oriented and obsessed with relatinships. lol

hehe my 7th is also empty!!! aries and taurus just lonely over there. everything is jammed into my first. then sprinkled into 2-4 and my moon in the 11th. i think the libra ascendant with everything in the first though makes it a little bit of a libra and aries dichotomy. it’s about me, but it’s about love and about others and harmony with the libra ascendant.

and as for your second post yes!!! the reason i mentioned aries was mainly because i did studies on having an libra ascendant/aries descendant and having a jammed 1st house. there was one article that said you approach relationships like an aries, but the libra part is confused by all the first house energy too. it’s like being a walking frustration- is it about me or is it about others?

for me i’ve mostly put others first. BUT I LOVE ARIES! i’ve never met an aries male that i was interested in dating. but omg throw me a james franco and i’m all about it LOL. which is interesting because he’s an aries with a virgo moon and scorpio ascendant. he has a taurus venus too (if i remember right).

but yes my major pattern is aquarius men.

the combos:

aqua sun, scorpio moon, aries venus, cancer mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cap moon, aries venus, sag mars, cap ascendant

aqua sun, sag moon, pisces venus, gemini mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cancer moon, cap venus/mars, leo ascendant

Wow scorp woman with aqua fetish.

Tell me what's the best (or the worst) about aqua men.

Dead curious cause my partner is scorp!

I want to learn 😀

plenty of more things. I also find the ones I dated very attractive. At times, my friends disagree and wonder what I’m thinking.

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What does that mean?

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I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

that’s also what i’ve done. but i tend to dive in and always manage to pick the wrong ones. i’m going to attempt to take a slower approach next time around... we’ll see how that goes though because i love to dive right in if it feels right lol!

i'm an empty 7th house, which is why my focus alot is on relationships and love reading about it.

i have no problems being IN one, but i love relationship stuff.

my husband and my male family members all say women love this relationship stuff...

now i'm thinking alot of it is because of venus, relationship oriented and obsessed with relatinships. lol

hehe my 7th is also empty!!! aries and taurus just lonely over there. everything is jammed into my first. then sprinkled into 2-4 and my moon in the 11th. i think the libra ascendant with everything in the first though makes it a little bit of a libra and aries dichotomy. it’s about me, but it’s about love and about others and harmony with the libra ascendant.

and as for your second post yes!!! the reason i mentioned aries was mainly because i did studies on having an libra ascendant/aries descendant and having a jammed 1st house. there was one article that said you approach relationships like an aries, but the libra part is confused by all the first house energy too. it’s like being a walking frustration- is it about me or is it about others?

for me i’ve mostly put others first. BUT I LOVE ARIES! i’ve never met an aries male that i was interested in dating. but omg throw me a james franco and i’m all about it LOL. which is interesting because he’s an aries with a virgo moon and scorpio ascendant. he has a taurus venus too (if i remember right).

but yes my major pattern is aquarius men.

the combos:

aqua sun, scorpio moon, aries venus, cancer mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cap moon, aries venus, sag mars, cap ascendant

aqua sun, sag moon, pisces venus, gemini mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cancer moon, cap venus/mars, leo ascendant

Wow scorp woman with aqua fetish.

Tell me what's the best (or the worst) about aqua men.

Dead curious cause my partner is scorp!

I want to learn 😀

plenty of more things. I also find the ones I dated very attractive. At times, my friends disagree and wonder what I’m thinking.

What does that mean?

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for me, i like them to look unusual and kind of unique in their own way! not the “conventional” type of attractive so to speak. i’ve always been the person to pick the most intriguing person in the room and run with it. and i always seem to find them extremely attractive! and my friends will be like “well... he’s different.” 😂 they don’t have to say much else for me to know what they’re trying to say.

a good example of one would be i really was attracted to this one aqua who had bags under his eyes. i have no idea why i thought it was hot but i did. and he had really thick hair and it just flowed freely. someone told me he looked like a less attractive john mayer, and my response was “ew, he’s way hotter than john mayer. john mayer isn’t attractive at all.” 😂

hopefully that makes sense. i like guys who look like they’re off the beaten path

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I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

that’s also what i’ve done. but i tend to dive in and always manage to pick the wrong ones. i’m going to attempt to take a slower approach next time around... we’ll see how that goes though because i love to dive right in if it feels right lol!

i'm an empty 7th house, which is why my focus alot is on relationships and love reading about it.

i have no problems being IN one, but i love relationship stuff.

my husband and my male family members all say women love this relationship stuff...

now i'm thinking alot of it is because of venus, relationship oriented and obsessed with relatinships. lol

hehe my 7th is also empty!!! aries and taurus just lonely over there. everything is jammed into my first. then sprinkled into 2-4 and my moon in the 11th. i think the libra ascendant with everything in the first though makes it a little bit of a libra and aries dichotomy. it’s about me, but it’s about love and about others and harmony with the libra ascendant.

and as for your second post yes!!! the reason i mentioned aries was mainly because i did studies on having an libra ascendant/aries descendant and having a jammed 1st house. there was one article that said you approach relationships like an aries, but the libra part is confused by all the first house energy too. it’s like being a walking frustration- is it about me or is it about others?

for me i’ve mostly put others first. BUT I LOVE ARIES! i’ve never met an aries male that i was interested in dating. but omg throw me a james franco and i’m all about it LOL. which is interesting because he’s an aries with a virgo moon and scorpio ascendant. he has a taurus venus too (if i remember right).

but yes my major pattern is aquarius men.

the combos:

aqua sun, scorpio moon, aries venus, cancer mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cap moon, aries venus, sag mars, cap ascendant

aqua sun, sag moon, pisces venus, gemini mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cancer moon, cap venus/mars, leo ascendant

Wow scorp woman with aqua fetish.

Tell me what's the best (or the worst) about aqua men.

Dead curious cause my partner is scorp!

I want to learn 😀

plenty of more things. I also find the ones I dated very attractive. At times, my friends disagree and wonder what I’m thinking.

What does that mean?

for me, i like them to look unusual and kind of unique in their own way! not the “conventional” type of attractive so to speak. i’ve always been the person to pick the most intriguing person in the room and run with it. and i always seem to find them extremely attractive! and my friends will be like “well... he’s different.” 😂 they don’t have to say much else for me to know what they’re trying to say.

a good example of one would be i really was attracted to this one aqua who had bags under his eyes. i have no idea why i thought it was hot but i did. and he had really thick hair and it just flowed freely. someone told me he looked like a less attractive john mayer, and my response was “ew, he’s way hotter than john mayer. john mayer isn’t attractive at all.” 😂

hopefully that makes sense. i like guys who look like they’re off the beaten path

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100% makes sense 😗

Are you an Uranus dominant?

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I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

i live for the experience, so i would just go for it. even if it hurts.

that’s also what i’ve done. but i tend to dive in and always manage to pick the wrong ones. i’m going to attempt to take a slower approach next time around... we’ll see how that goes though because i love to dive right in if it feels right lol!

i'm an empty 7th house, which is why my focus alot is on relationships and love reading about it.

i have no problems being IN one, but i love relationship stuff.

my husband and my male family members all say women love this relationship stuff...

now i'm thinking alot of it is because of venus, relationship oriented and obsessed with relatinships. lol

hehe my 7th is also empty!!! aries and taurus just lonely over there. everything is jammed into my first. then sprinkled into 2-4 and my moon in the 11th. i think the libra ascendant with everything in the first though makes it a little bit of a libra and aries dichotomy. it’s about me, but it’s about love and about others and harmony with the libra ascendant.

and as for your second post yes!!! the reason i mentioned aries was mainly because i did studies on having an libra ascendant/aries descendant and having a jammed 1st house. there was one article that said you approach relationships like an aries, but the libra part is confused by all the first house energy too. it’s like being a walking frustration- is it about me or is it about others?

for me i’ve mostly put others first. BUT I LOVE ARIES! i’ve never met an aries male that i was interested in dating. but omg throw me a james franco and i’m all about it LOL. which is interesting because he’s an aries with a virgo moon and scorpio ascendant. he has a taurus venus too (if i remember right).

but yes my major pattern is aquarius men.

the combos:

aqua sun, scorpio moon, aries venus, cancer mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cap moon, aries venus, sag mars, cap ascendant

aqua sun, sag moon, pisces venus, gemini mars (don’t know ascendant)

aqua sun, cancer moon, cap venus/mars, leo ascendant

Wow scorp woman with aqua fetish.

Tell me what's the best (or the worst) about aqua men.

Dead curious cause my partner is scorp!

I want to learn 😀

plenty of more things. I also find the ones I dated very attractive. At times, my friends disagree and wonder what I’m thinking.

What does that mean?

for me, i like them to look unusual and kind of unique in their own way! not the “conventional” type of attractive so to speak. i’ve always been the person to pick the most intriguing person in the room and run with it. and i always seem to find them extremely attractive! and my friends will be like “well... he’s different.” 😂 they don’t have to say much else for me to know what they’re trying to say.

a good example of one would be i really was attracted to this one aqua who had bags under his eyes. i have no idea why i thought it was hot but i did. and he had really thick hair and it just flowed freely. someone told me he looked like a less attractive john mayer, and my response was “ew, he’s way hotter than john mayer. john mayer isn’t attractive at all.” 😂

hopefully that makes sense. i like guys who look like they’re off the beaten path

100% makes sense 😗

Are you an Uranus dominant?

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i don’t believe so! well i’m not sure how else to find out but according to Pullen, uranus is 4th dominant. so i guess it is pretty strong.

i don’t have many uranus aspects, but i have sun sextile uranus and moon trine uranus. then uranus conjunct neptune.

Sun, Venus and Saturn are my top 3 dominant planets according to pullen ☺️

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I swear on my life that relationships and I are not friends.

being a Libra ascendant with venus and jupiter conjunct that, I find it quite difficult to say. However, I’ve come to realize that all of my issues in life have come up because of relationships. I’ve always been so in love with love. Probably because of the Libra... the Aries descendant doesn’t help along with Venus being in the first house.

The thing is, I never really know what goes wrong. That or I date emotionally unavailable men, which is always a grand ol’ time. I just had a breakup again, and I couldn’t tell you what happened. I mean I could, but it wouldn’t even make sense.

I also have Moon conjunct Chiron in the 11th, so I’ll say emotionally I relied on others to find joy...with Chiron there it kind of stunts that for awhile. However I’ve finally found the right friendships for me. Relationships... not so much. For the most part I learn more about myself each time.

I’d say my lesson this time was “do not rush into things even if you think they are more promising.” My problem is, I get really excited when I find a love interest & then I dive in and go blindly along the way. Then when the rough patch hits, it doesn’t last. I really need to slow my roll. Not sure if any of you ever feel this way or not, but I’m just here to let it all out and hear stories from everyone else as well.

Though I’m suffering deeply now... I hope to be more wise for the future. I don’t think I’ll date seriously for awhile now. Though... knowing me... I’m sure many will pique my interest until that time comes. And also knowing me, I’ll probably pursue it until it ends. But for now... I have to heal. I hope I can be there for any of you who may also be suffering now as well. I’d like for anyone to feel like they can chat with me at any time, for I know exactly how the pain of rejection, breakups or loss of friendships can truly be. Anything you feel, I will listen.

I’ll be dropping in to check from time to time, and I’ll be propelling forward. No time to waste pitying myself even though part of me wants to. Stay strong everyone! I’m working on doing so myself.

You're answer is in your statement.

"For the most part I learn more about myself each time."

That right part there, learn to enjoy it. And as you get to know yourself, you will start to know what you need/dont need from a partner. Ultimately you will know what's good for you 😉 The ability to filter out is the first step in finding a partner that is compatible for you. Self awareness being essential.