Testing. I wish I could stop.

I test my Aqua too much and I know there is this voice inside that tells me to stop your doing it, but it is very hard to stop. I know the results are going to be disappointing because he can be clueless but I do it anyway.

For example my birthday is Saturday and about 2 weeks ago he mentioned taking me to a show in New York but I have already taken so many days off work that I couldnt. Tonight is the only night he can do something to celebrate my birthday because I can't very well have him over on Saturday because he hasn't met my son yet. I am expecting him to do something but i just have this feeling that he won't.

A bit of background he doesn't have a lot of experience with birthdays because he uses to be Jehovah's Witness he has celebrated his son's birthday and ex's birthday in the past but I just feel like he is going to over look my birthday completely.

How can I stop testing him but also get across what I want with out sounding like I'm saying "hey there you worship me please."

at least you admitted it lol

yeah what she said

or else you won't have to worry about that for long cause he'll be gone

and stop trying to run the show - daym Libras - well, he seems to be ignoring you anyway for now so you still have a chance

just go with the flow for once - the only thing you can control is yourself

I started dating an Aquarius!

Besides the birthday issue, do you have any other issues with him?

Posted by pinkbird03
I started dating an Aquarius!

Besides the birthday issue, do you have any other issues with him?

I just want him to be more direct and make a decision. He had Libra moon but he is way worst than me on this end! He is a sweet heart and I think I love him but then I have to ask myself do I really love him if constantly teaching him is messing with me so much?

Posted by aquarius_man
oh libra libra

constantly teaching him...ever thought maybe he s not interested in your teachings? doesn't want to be influenced by your outlook? why don t you learn how to accept difference? accept that things aren't always as YOU want them to be.

Yes you have a point I should just be single.

I hate it when people try "test" me. Why would you do that to someone?

#pussyfooting.

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by pinkbird03
I started dating an Aquarius!

Besides the birthday issue, do you have any other issues with him?

I just want him to be more direct and make a decision. He had Libra moon but he is way worst than me on this end! He is a sweet heart and I think I love him but then I have to ask myself do I really love him if constantly teaching him is messing with me so much?

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No one is perfect. Everyone has flaws. But then again there are deal breakers. Things you absolutely cannot live with. Can you live with him being less direct than you desire?

Posted by Fafa
Op my aqua always says " if you want something just ask me" . Why donT you stop with the games and tell him what you want??

Funny. My aqua said the same thing once.