WateryGem
@WateryGem
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Retrograde Venus
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Posted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Damn it!!
I'm in the same boat!! Have you had long term relationships or been married?
Posted by WateryGemPosted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Damn it!!
I'm in the same boat!! Have you had long term relationships or been married?click to expand
Never married, nor do I want to be.
A 1 year and a 2 year long relationship.
Posted by _DazedPosted by WateryGemPosted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Damn it!!
I'm in the same boat!! Have you had long term relationships or been married?
Never married, nor do I want to be.
A 1 year and a 2 year long relationship.click to expand
Have you dated a Cancer Venus? I feel like those two would be sensitive to each other.
Posted by WateryGemPosted by _DazedPosted by WateryGemPosted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Damn it!!
I'm in the same boat!! Have you had long term relationships or been married?
Never married, nor do I want to be.
A 1 year and a 2 year long relationship.
Have you dated a Cancer Venus? I feel like those two would be sensitive to each other.click to expand
I don't believe so.
Posted by _DazedPosted by WateryGemPosted by _DazedPosted by WateryGemPosted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Damn it!!
I'm in the same boat!! Have you had long term relationships or been married?
Never married, nor do I want to be.
A 1 year and a 2 year long relationship.
Have you dated a Cancer Venus? I feel like those two would be sensitive to each other.
I don't believe so.click to expand
Yeah, I'm not sure I've ever dated a Scorpio Venus. I can't remember what my Scorpio exes Venus is, I think it might be Sag. I'll go look.
Posted by WateryGemPosted by _DazedPosted by WateryGemPosted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Damn it!!
I'm in the same boat!! Have you had long term relationships or been married?
Never married, nor do I want to be.
A 1 year and a 2 year long relationship.
Have you dated a Cancer Venus? I feel like those two would be sensitive to each other.click to expand
I love Cancer venus...
I'm Pisces venus and for some reason it just clicks...
Posted by WateryGemPosted by _DazedPosted by WateryGemPosted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Damn it!!
I'm in the same boat!! Have you had long term relationships or been married?
Never married, nor do I want to be.
A 1 year and a 2 year long relationship.
Have you dated a Cancer Venus? I feel like those two would be sensitive to each other.click to expand
Well, lol, my ex Scorpio has his Venus there with his moon in Pisces. That was the most intense relationship of my entire life. I never want to feel emotions like that ever again. 🤣🤣🤣 it turned very toxic, but I loved that dude so hard I would have done anything for him. 🤫😑
Posted by PiscesGal76Posted by WateryGemPosted by _DazedPosted by WateryGemPosted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Damn it!!
I'm in the same boat!! Have you had long term relationships or been married?
Never married, nor do I want to be.
A 1 year and a 2 year long relationship.
Have you dated a Cancer Venus? I feel like those two would be sensitive to each other.
I love Cancer venus...
I'm Pisces venus and for some reason it just clicks...click to expand
Do you have your Venus rx, as well?
I think I would like a Pisces Venus.
Posted by Antiphates
My dating life is non-existent.
Cap rxVenus, 4th house.
How old are you? How long has it been? Do you feel jaded? Did you have a really bad heart break?
I have Scorpio Venus rx in the 6th house.
Only one of my past relationships could be truly called bad. I've had two long term relationships (9 and 7 years), and several shorter term, so far. I have never been married, but I haven't wanted to be.
I have a few things in my chart that are said to be bad for romantic relationships, like Scorpio Venus rx, and Saturn opposite Venus, but it hasn't been my experience, with the one exception. Perhaps having Venus conjunct Jupiter helps, and other things in my chart, and how I was brought up. Breakups have been very civil, even in my worst relationship. I'm on good terms with all but one of my exes (the ex who qualifies as my worst relationship).
Only one of my past relationships could be truly called bad. I've had two long term relationships (9 and 7 years), and several shorter term, so far. I have never been married, but I haven't wanted to be.
I have a few things in my chart that are said to be bad for romantic relationships, like Scorpio Venus rx, and Saturn opposite Venus, but it hasn't been my experience, with the one exception. Perhaps having Venus conjunct Jupiter helps, and other things in my chart, and how I was brought up. Breakups have been very civil, even in my worst relationship. I'm on good terms with all but one of my exes (the ex who qualifies as my worst relationship).
Posted by CopperDove
I have Scorpio Venus rx in the 6th house.
Only one of my past relationships could be truly called bad. I've had two long term relationships (9 and 7 years), and several shorter term, so far. I have never been married, but I haven't wanted to be.
I have a few things in my chart that are said to be bad for romantic relationships, like Scorpio Venus rx, and Saturn opposite Venus, but it hasn't been my experience, with the one exception. Perhaps having Venus conjunct Jupiter helps, and other things in my chart, and how I was brought up. Breakups have been very civil, even in my worst relationship. I'm on good terms with all but one of my exes (the ex who qualifies as my worst relationship).
That's pretty awesome!! I bet having Jupiter conjunct definitely helps. My jupiter is trine my Venus , jupiter conjunct my mars.
What is your Sun?
So you haven't had any abuse or cheating? You just fell out of love?
Posted by WateryGemPosted by CopperDove
I have Scorpio Venus rx in the 6th house.
Only one of my past relationships could be truly called bad. I've had two long term relationships (9 and 7 years), and several shorter term, so far. I have never been married, but I haven't wanted to be.
I have a few things in my chart that are said to be bad for romantic relationships, like Scorpio Venus rx, and Saturn opposite Venus, but it hasn't been my experience, with the one exception. Perhaps having Venus conjunct Jupiter helps, and other things in my chart, and how I was brought up. Breakups have been very civil, even in my worst relationship. I'm on good terms with all but one of my exes (the ex who qualifies as my worst relationship).
That's pretty awesome!! I bet having Jupiter conjunct definitely helps. My jupiter is trine my Venus , jupiter conjunct my mars.
What is your Sun?
So you haven't had any abuse or cheating? You just fell out of love?click to expand
That sounds good too with your Jupiter aspects.
I'm Scorpio Sun. My sun is conjunct my Venus and Jupiter.
No one has cheated on me, that I know of anyway. I am a stickler for honesty in relationships, so my partners if anything are too honest at times, lol. My one bad relationship had emotional abuse, and some of the things that happened in that relationship took a while to recover from.
Posted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
What makes it horrible?
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by WateryGemPosted by Antiphates
My dating life is non-existent.
Cap rxVenus, 4th house.
How old are you? How long has it been? Do you feel jaded? Did you have a really bad heart break?
29
I never dated in the usual sense. I just ran into someone I found interesting, it was seven years of constant back and forth and then she ghosted me.
I wouldn't say I'm jaded but more of a realist when it comes to it.
Yes, I had a form of bad heart break but it was more of an existential crisis.click to expand
Can you explain what the realist in you sees? Maybe that's my issue, I used to get so lost in my hopeless romantic side, now, lol , I'm not that dumb. 🤣🤣🤣
Do you want a relationship?
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by Araujo97Posted by AntiphatesPosted by Araujo97Posted by Antiphates
My dating life is non-existent.
Cap rxVenus, 4th house.
Are you asexual? No moking, legit question
Mostly, yes, but not as an absolute.
Do you masturbate often or...?
No, I can't say it is an absolute because I had a phase where I fucked around a lot.click to expand
May I ask your moon and mars? Do you feel asexual bc you had to shut it off?
I'm in a weird phase. I miss sex so much but I can't sleep around. Lol I've masturbated so much that I've been sore like if you have sex all day and weekend. Sorry if that's tmi, I just want it to mean something to me
Posted by saggurl88Posted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
What makes it horrible?click to expand
@saggurl88 do you have Venus rx?
Btw I saw your response. I appreciate your feedback and understand it so much more. This is what I love about these boards, when someone lets me ask more questions and I can see it from their pov. Lol this is where our mutable energy confuses folks.
Ive had one significant relationship that lasted 10 yrs after that ....it's been a shit storm 😂
Leo Venus retro in the 9th house
Leo Venus retro in the 9th house
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Ive had one significant relationship that lasted 10 yrs after that ....it's been a shit storm 😂
Leo Venus retro in the 9th house
Omg, I bet the Venus in Leo struggles. I actually always forget about this warm Venus placement. Lol My longest one fucked me up too. 🤣🤣🤣
Are you scared or have you just not a real desire to fall in love again?
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by WateryGemPosted by AntiphatesPosted by WateryGemPosted by Antiphates
My dating life is non-existent.
Cap rxVenus, 4th house.
How old are you? How long has it been? Do you feel jaded? Did you have a really bad heart break?
29
I never dated in the usual sense. I just ran into someone I found interesting, it was seven years of constant back and forth and then she ghosted me.
I wouldn't say I'm jaded but more of a realist when it comes to it.
Yes, I had a form of bad heart break but it was more of an existential crisis.
Can you explain what the realist in you sees? Maybe that's my issue, I used to get so lost in my hopeless romantic side, now, lol , I'm not that dumb. 🤣🤣🤣
Do you want a relationship?
I'm know how romantic and sexual attraction functions and therefore am fully aware of the fact that I don't have what it takes to maintain romantic interest from the other side.
No, I don't want a relationship.click to expand
Can you go into more detail why you don't have what it takes to maintain it?
Posted by WateryGemPosted by LostinmyMind11
Ive had one significant relationship that lasted 10 yrs after that ....it's been a shit storm 😂
Leo Venus retro in the 9th house
Omg, I bet the Venus in Leo struggles. I actually always forget about this warm Venus placement. Lol My longest one fucked me up too. 🤣🤣🤣
Are you scared or have you just not a real desire to fall in love again?click to expand
Tbh...I don't really know. Part of me wants it but part of me is also scared that once I have it ...I'll fuck it up somehow. Then to be that vulnerable with someone again and deal with the pain of losing them (it's inevitable for me it seems) whether by break up or death (which was my case with my ex)....it's just all too much....not that I won't survive cause I will but it's almost a why put myself in that situation in the first place. Bleh...it's all complicated lol
Posted by WateryGemPosted by PiscesGal76Posted by WateryGemPosted by _DazedPosted by WateryGemPosted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
Damn it!!
I'm in the same boat!! Have you had long term relationships or been married?
Never married, nor do I want to be.
A 1 year and a 2 year long relationship.
Have you dated a Cancer Venus? I feel like those two would be sensitive to each other.
I love Cancer venus...
I'm Pisces venus and for some reason it just clicks...
Do you have your Venus rx, as well?
I think I would like a Pisces Venus.click to expand
I'm not sure how to find that out....
Not interested in dating because I've never met anyone who will make me do that effort really. I can actually come up with a million of excuses in my head as to why I have never dated but the most conclusive is that I'm fairly apathetic about intimacy, schizoid-like even.
My relationships in general are good despite my mental and emotional isolation, I can find areas of relatedness with others and I'm very friendly but I certainly keep things superficial with the exception of a few people in my circle. The only one relationship in my life that can be categorized as fucked up would be the one with my father maybe, we had a complicated dynamic.
Gemini Venus, 2nd house.
My brother has retrograde Virgo Venus in the 2nd house too. He has a solid relationship with someone who he has an 8 yo child with, a tight circle of friends, the family loves him 'cause of his nobleness, etc. No issues in the area. Fucked up relationships? I don't know his whole dating story but I suppose his love life has been like a soap opera, nothing I will call fucked up though, is Disney-tier (good ending included) in comparison with some of the real horror stories I know.
My relationships in general are good despite my mental and emotional isolation, I can find areas of relatedness with others and I'm very friendly but I certainly keep things superficial with the exception of a few people in my circle. The only one relationship in my life that can be categorized as fucked up would be the one with my father maybe, we had a complicated dynamic.
Gemini Venus, 2nd house.
My brother has retrograde Virgo Venus in the 2nd house too. He has a solid relationship with someone who he has an 8 yo child with, a tight circle of friends, the family loves him 'cause of his nobleness, etc. No issues in the area. Fucked up relationships? I don't know his whole dating story but I suppose his love life has been like a soap opera, nothing I will call fucked up though, is Disney-tier (good ending included) in comparison with some of the real horror stories I know.
Posted by WateryGemPosted by saggurl88Posted by _Dazed
Relationships have been horrible for me, hence why I choose the single life.
Scorpio Venus Rx in the 5th house.
What makes it horrible?
@saggurl88 do you have Venus rx?
Btw I saw your response. I appreciate your feedback and understand it so much more. This is what I love about these boards, when someone lets me ask more questions and I can see it from their pov. Lol this is where our mutable energy confuses folks.click to expand
No. I just am forever trying to understand why rx Venus is so hard. Everyone talks about how bad the relationships are and it’s like you guys have your own love language that only you all understand.
Is it better when you guys date each other or is it still hard?
It’s like you all have inner unrequited love all by yourself and for no reason.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by WateryGemPosted by LostinmyMind11
Ive had one significant relationship that lasted 10 yrs after that ....it's been a shit storm 😂
Leo Venus retro in the 9th house
Omg, I bet the Venus in Leo struggles. I actually always forget about this warm Venus placement. Lol My longest one fucked me up too. 🤣🤣🤣
Are you scared or have you just not a real desire to fall in love again?
Tbh...I don't really know. Part of me wants it but part of me is also scared that once I have it ...I'll fuck it up somehow. Then to be that vulnerable with someone again and deal with the pain of losing them (it's inevitable for me it seems) whether by break up or death (which was my case with my ex)....it's just all too much....not that I won't survive cause I will but it's almost a why put myself in that situation in the first place. Bleh...it's all complicated lolclick to expand
I love how well you explain things! So open and forthcoming!! ❤️ Just amazing.
Virgo Venus Rx in 9th house. I agree with what LIMM said, always afraid to get too attached because I know I'll fuck it up somehow. Or I get bored and want out after a long term.
I've been married and had several long term relationships (2+ years), but think that FWB is the best scenario for me. I tend to attract/be attracted to non-emotionally available men. Or men with mom issues, but that's probably my 8th house in Cancer natally.
I've been married and had several long term relationships (2+ years), but think that FWB is the best scenario for me. I tend to attract/be attracted to non-emotionally available men. Or men with mom issues, but that's probably my 8th house in Cancer natally.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by WateryGemPosted by LostinmyMind11
Ive had one significant relationship that lasted 10 yrs after that ....it's been a shit storm 😂
Leo Venus retro in the 9th house
Omg, I bet the Venus in Leo struggles. I actually always forget about this warm Venus placement. Lol My longest one fucked me up too. 🤣🤣🤣
Are you scared or have you just not a real desire to fall in love again?
Tbh...I don't really know. Part of me wants it but part of me is also scared that once I have it ...I'll fuck it up somehow. Then to be that vulnerable with someone again and deal with the pain of losing them (it's inevitable for me it seems) whether by break up or death (which was my case with my ex)....it's just all too much....not that I won't survive cause I will but it's almost a why put myself in that situation in the first place. Bleh...it's all complicated lol
I love how well you explain things! So open and forthcoming!! ❤️ Just amazing.click to expand
See and I think I dont explain things correctly lol...I blame my retro Merc but thank you for thinking so ❤️
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by WateryGemPosted by LostinmyMind11
Ive had one significant relationship that lasted 10 yrs after that ....it's been a shit storm 😂
Leo Venus retro in the 9th house
Omg, I bet the Venus in Leo struggles. I actually always forget about this warm Venus placement. Lol My longest one fucked me up too. 🤣🤣🤣
Are you scared or have you just not a real desire to fall in love again?
Tbh...I don't really know. Part of me wants it but part of me is also scared that once I have it ...I'll fuck it up somehow. Then to be that vulnerable with someone again and deal with the pain of losing them (it's inevitable for me it seems) whether by break up or death (which was my case with my ex)....it's just all too much....not that I won't survive cause I will but it's almost a why put myself in that situation in the first place. Bleh...it's all complicated lol
I love how well you explain things! So open and forthcoming!! ❤️ Just amazing.
See and I think I dont explain things correctly lol...I blame my retro Merc but thank you for thinking so ❤️click to expand
I think all retro placements think they're doing things wrong, when it's not in actuality. It's almost a form of over compensation, just in case. It sucks to think in this manner, but it seems like you all can't help it, like it's a built in function as a retrograde placement.
The way you explain things is much better then some of these vague one liners, that don't admit or deny anything. That is more frustrating cause people can't get answers or find solutions to make it better.
Venus retrograde in cancer present. I feel like I've gone over this a million times already.
Having a Venus retrograde is not always gonna be good. It got its bad and some good.
Having a Venus retrograde is not always gonna be good. It got its bad and some good.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by WateryGemPosted by LostinmyMind11
Ive had one significant relationship that lasted 10 yrs after that ....it's been a shit storm 😂
Leo Venus retro in the 9th house
Omg, I bet the Venus in Leo struggles. I actually always forget about this warm Venus placement. Lol My longest one fucked me up too. 🤣🤣🤣
Are you scared or have you just not a real desire to fall in love again?
Tbh...I don't really know. Part of me wants it but part of me is also scared that once I have it ...I'll fuck it up somehow. Then to be that vulnerable with someone again and deal with the pain of losing them (it's inevitable for me it seems) whether by break up or death (which was my case with my ex)....it's just all too much....not that I won't survive cause I will but it's almost a why put myself in that situation in the first place. Bleh...it's all complicated lol
I love how well you explain things! So open and forthcoming!! ❤️ Just amazing.
See and I think I dont explain things correctly lol...I blame my retro Merc but thank you for thinking so ❤️
I think all retro placements think they're doing things wrong, when it's not in actuality. It's almost a form of over compensation, just in case. It sucks to think in this manner, but it seems like you all can't help it, like it's a built in function as a retrograde placement.
The way you explain things is much better then some of these vague one liners, that don't admit or deny anything. That is more frustrating cause people can't get answers or find solutions to make it better.click to expand
Yesss that exactly what it feels like.
Anymore id rather people get it than not...that helps no one and I could see how frustrating that could be.
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