S&M

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 on Friday, November 7, 2014 and has 27 replies.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Which sign is most likely to participate or interested in this type of situations?
I don't judge btw. I never tried unless its the doggy style position. Where the guy is pounding you, pulling your hair or smacking your ass. That is S&M.

If that's not then what is? Example....

Which one has done it before? Did you like it or leave once you've tried it?

Would you accept it in a relationship? Dating?

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@Dajjal
11 Years

i did and still do. i also like s&d. and i don't care if people judge me for it. i couldn't be with someone that's only into 'vanilla sex'. i'm in a longterm r. and my so knew what i like from the start. (pisces here)

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Posted by PVandJellay
Pisces, Sag, Virgo, Libra, Cap, Aries, Aqua, Scorpio

lol me and hubby are boring if we want to compare s&m as hot stuff.

eww. RUN!!

i dont like that stuff and neither does he. Yup, we're boring. Nothing that has to do with pain.

I may like to read and peek into "50 shades of grey" but that's all...peeking into it and even writing about it. However, no freaking way.

i honestly don't know the astrology of this though, into this sadist stuff. I think honestly it's all psychological.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by PVandJellay
Pisces, Sag, Virgo, Libra, Cap, Aries, Aqua, Scorpio

lol me and hubby are boring if we want to compare s&m as hot stuff.

eww. RUN!!

i dont like that stuff and neither does he. Yup, we're boring. Nothing that has to do with pain.

I may like to read and peek into "50 shades of grey" but that's all...peeking into it and even writing about it. However, no freaking way.

i honestly don't know the astrology of this though, into this sadist stuff. I think honestly it's all psychological.

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@Hiskittenmeow
11 Years

Caps and scorps!! This cap I'm seeing is off the charts crazy in bed. I'm talking ropes, bondage, ass spanking (and not that light little pat on your rump stuff but hard, leave your ass red for a week kind of spanking), biting, etc. Oh, and belts, God I love them belts. Mmmm he's perfect. Btw I'm a scorpio and eat all that sheet up. With him I don't mind being dominated, in fact, I want to be dominated. I find myself doing things with him I've never even imagined I'd ever do. I gotta give it up to all you caps. Love, love, looooove you guys!

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@sugerbear
13 YearsTaurus

I'm a Taurus and would totally be into it...in fact hoping to find a man that is too. I think everything goes in the bedroom and you should have fun.๐Ÿ™‚

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@Dajjal
11 Years

Posted by starlover
I wouldn't mind meeting a guy that was brave enough to take a few slaps, scratches and some hair pulling

It is something i don't mind receiving but when i have tried to return it, i get *ouch, that hurts*

booohooo
lol

i had something like that with 2 guys, one was scorp and waaaay too gentle and the other was a taurus-not much better from the scorp. And the THE virgo came along-jackpot! no way am i ever letting this one get away. (looks like he ain't keen on leaving either lol)

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@Dajjal
11 Years

that would be non other them his infernal hottness Ville Valo (i wouldn't mind trying some s&d on him). ๐Ÿ˜‰

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@Hiskittenmeow
11 Years

Posted by Impulsv
Posted by Hiskittenmeow
Caps and scorps!! This cap I'm seeing is off the charts crazy in bed. I'm talking ropes, bondage, ass spanking (and not that light little pat on your rump stuff but hard, leave your ass red for a week kind of spanking), biting, etc. Oh, and belts, God I love them belts. Mmmm he's perfect. Btw I'm a scorpio and eat all that sheet up. With him I don't mind being dominated, in fact, I want to be dominated. I find myself doing things with him I've never even imagined I'd ever do. I gotta give it up to all you caps. Love, love, looooove you guys!

Omg lucky u. I'm still searching for that man.

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Lucky, yes, but it's not perfect. He's extremely busy so I may get to see him once or twice a week. To be fair, I'm super busy too with school and working full time. If I could see him 3-4 times a week it would be perf. But nonetheless I'm still thanking my lucky stars ๐Ÿ™‚

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@Hiskittenmeow
11 Years

Posted by exoskeleton
scorpio.

s&m is the usual in my sexuality/relationships.

But do you have to somewhat initiate? Being a scorpio myself I can bring it into the bedroom myself but have never had another guy actually do that for me. Usually I'm the driver so it's nice to actually be the one along for the ride lol ๐Ÿ™‚
But then again I don't think I've actually ever been with another scorpio so maybe that's why. Either way I'm still all for caps at the moment.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

here is a good site for the subject.

Sextrology.

http://www.monkeywiththehat.com/2011/07/sextrology-sex-according-to-your.html

note that some of the characteristics can be in your chart.

for instance, it says that the HOT SPOTS for Taurus is the Neck and throat. So there you can nibble.

IF you have prominent taurus placement/energy, you probably guess why you like that stuff. lol

or for instance,

you have prominent 4th/?ancer, you love your breasts and pecs to be rubbed and caresses. that kind of thing ๐Ÿ˜„ ๐Ÿ˜„

see? how easy?

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@Dajjal
11 Years

^ strange, I don't fit the profile when it comes to the feet neither, except the shoe problem. my sensitive spot is the neck (and my back).

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
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That is true and so right with the Taurus's Ero zones. Any every male and female is different.

I am curious to know if you know another sign sun that is different from another. I am Taurus for example, and is there another Taurus that is different in their Ero Zones than mine..

Or gemini? Or Sagittarius, Aquarius? Aries? you get the idea.

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16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Is S & M any different than B & D? Which is better for some or tolerable?

What's your preference?

I said I'm more b and d than s and m. BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism. Yeah, I'll tie you up and play some games but I couldn't punch someone or inflict real pain. Now there is no real black and white here (hence the name fifty shades of grey, never read it but like the play on words in the title). You just gotta find what you're comfortable with.

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Posted by fishinamaize
Posted by LibraSid
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Is S & M any different than B & D? Which is better for some or tolerable?

What's your preference?

I said I'm more b and d than s and m. BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism. Yeah, I'll tie you up and play some games but I couldn't punch someone or inflict real pain. Now there is no real black and white here (hence the name fifty shades of grey, never read it but like the play on words in the title). You just gotta find what you're comfortable with.

\BDSM is three phrases put together. the D/s in the middle stands for dominance & submission.

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It's four things, that's why there's four letters. Sadism and Masochism go together but they are seperate things. One likes beating, the other likes being beaten.

Lime I said, there's no black and white. Even things in the same "category" may not be okay with someone.

How hard do I have to pull her hair before it's sadistic?

If she dresses up like a schoolgirl and I tie her up and spank her, is that bondage or discipline?

I don't care that much about it, just illustrating the differences. BDSM covers an enormous number of activities. Talk with your partner, experiment, just have fun with each other.

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If it helps the relationship I guess. I really don't know any thing like that. I think handcuffs and and whip cream and a blind fold would do. I don't know why I use food for pleasuring my guy. But not even the Sagittarius male I think he was into it but I wasnt. And he was a critical bastard too. Definitely not opening up to you after all that.

I think Sagittarius males are freaks beyond.

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Any one try the stuff from 50 shades of grey? :-)

I read one book and that was some crazy sexual chemistry between the two.

Hm my ex Aries was Dom and (me) Taurus is submissive. I get it. But never the whole nine yards, or even tied up.

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@chococream
13 YearsScorpio

Me (Scorpio) and ex Virgo did a little s&d and it was awesome... Best sex ever and I wasn't the dom, he was... I've always wanted to be controlled and I found that with him without losing my freedom...